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Date Posted: 12:32:26 06/17/01 Sun
Author: Psalmsong
Subject: Re: Christians and divorce
In reply to: Nancy 's message, "Christians and divorce" on 11:23:27 05/01/01 Tue

>Nancy,
BEEN THERE!
I was married 22 years, too. My ex had a girlfreind while we were married and then he divorced me and married her 3 months later. (no grounds for him...but I had grounds) The hurt he and she caused was deep in my and my childrens' hearts and lives! Do i ever understand and know the apathy from an unloving husband! He was emotionally abusive and seriouly unloving to me for 18 of the 22 years. He never wanted to stand next to me or even acknowledge that I was his wife many times. And never (NEVER) even helpd my hand in public. My story is sad. I have been seriously emotionally empty for many many years. And mine was a HEAD DEACON! Please, try to make it work. Even though I still tried to get help and my ex refused to work on the marriage (at all)
First:
GET CHRISTIAN COUNCELLING! BOTH OF YOU!!!! Meet with your pastor and get advice for councellors. Trust me divorce is the PITS!
How does your husband feel about the councelling or separation? Have someone contact him (NOT YOU!)and let your Pastor help you and him.

DO NOT (I REPEAT)DO NOT reach out to Christian MEN until GOD has closed the door (the final divorce decree) until you have let the LORD heal you! Pray each day, read GOD"S WORD each day, too! FOCUS on the LORD! and he will help you.
I repeat you are still a married woman in GOD'S eyes until you are divorced. So, get help from your pastor or a Godly councellor!
I will pray,
Psalmsong

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