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Date Posted: 08:55:54 03/02/06 Thu
Author: lump
Subject: Re: love gone wrong
In reply to: chrys 's message, "love gone wrong" on 20:33:01 02/28/06 Tue

Alice - OMG! That's a nightmare. I'm sorry, honey, that you're going through something like that.

Chrys....you're going to want to shoot me. DO NOT write it in a letter and give it to him. Writing it down to get your shit straight is great. Giving him a letter for something so heartfelt is bad. I know it takes an amazing amount of balls but you NEED to actually physically tell him what you want to say. You're taking this letter and wittling it down and down like a songwriter. Sometimes the original (and you know this) feeling gets lost. You need to TELL him. You need reaction. You need the confidence that comes from having the balls to SAY it. Otherwise, you don't get an immediate reaction. You don't get questions. You'll spend however long it takes him to reply beating yourself up and wondering.

Plus, and trust me on this one, later on...you'll be embarrassed about that letter. My bf kept all my letters. He loves them. I find them pitiful and am embarassed by them. And they bring me back to a place I wouldn't be anymore.

You're a good writer - it's your strength - but trust me on this one...you need to take advantage of this situation for your heart and just tell him face to face.

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[> Re: love gone wrong -- tg, 09:06:34 03/02/06 Thu [1]

"(are you calling me gay?)"

~~~ You are definetly intouch with your feminine side.
J/K

Why would you have to be gay to give great advice on love.

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