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Date Posted: 10:22:09 11/12/06 Sun
Author: Mariana Rezende Costa.
Subject: Re: Figuring Out What 'Sex' to Have Till Marriage
In reply to: Teresa Yousif 's message, "Re: Figuring Out What 'Sex' to Have Till Marriage" on 22:06:30 11/09/06 Thu

Teresa,

In my opinion, sex should be and is a natural thing. But I did not say anything like

"it is healthy or safe to have intercourse
>with a person you are dating just because the
>relationship seems to be going well".

Did I say it? I don't think so. And I definitely did not say that it is good to have intercourse with numerous people. Indeed I don't think it is good either, but I avoid judging people who do, since each person is free to make his or her own choices (and face the consequences).

I just think that one should not deprive oneself of enjoying healthy safe and pleasant for both parts sex if one thinks they want to do it and are adults, aware of their limitations and feelings and principles and beliefs, adults who are ready to assume the responsibility for the consequences of their actions.

Teresa, you said that

"In my opinion, to have sex with numerous people is
>wrong and can lead to things such as sexually
>transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies."

Well I think you should care for your body forever, not just until you think you found the "right person." You can never, ever entirely know the person who is sleeping by your side.

Besides, people make mistakes, and people can be deceived by others. The "one special person" can very easily turn to be very different from what you thought this person was.

I am not a moralist and I will not do or say anything to pretend I am. Each person has his or her own principles and points of view, so I think the worst thing to do is to judge one's actions or ideas as "right" or "wrong."

Mariana Costa.

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