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Date Posted: 12:02:36 07/11/08 Fri
Author: Rana :-)
Subject: Re: Rana
In reply to: Michael 's message, "Re: Rana" on 14:05:30 07/10/08 Thu

Thanks Micheal,

Your virtual hug received. Nobody noticed, and no scandals caused

>dear Rana
>
>
>
>I have no idea why you are being put through all this
>suffering, it seems you have a whole series of
>hurtful, hearbreaking things to deal with all in such
>a short space of time, and then family and friends do
>that to you as well. You have every right to be very
>angry at their stupidity and thoughtlessness. i dont
>know you well, but you stike me as the sort of person
>who is naturally compassionate and understanding, they
>have pushed even you too far.
>
>If i was there I would give you a big hug....and
>probably cause a major cultural, social, political and
>religious scandal - and Id still do it, just because!
>
>>First, I would like to thank you all for your nice
>>words and kind feelings. I'm glad I have friends like
>>you. Lately, I have discovered that being nice is an
>>art and that if you want to be nice for other people
>>while they are having hard times you have to think
>>about words before you just utter them not thinking
>>what they might mean to the other person.
>>
>>Last Friday, my sister-in-law's husband (who is also a
>>friend of my Dad) passed away, because of lung cancer.
>>I couldn't bring the news to my father, first because
>>they had a long history and many memories from when
>>they were young (20s and 30s) and second, of course,
>>because of Dad's condition.. Certainly, the last thing
>>Dad needs to hear is that the disease that he has
>>recently been diagnosed with has killed his friend.
>>
>>It is our customs here to have funerals going on for 3
>>successive days. Originally, this is to give all
>>people a chance to come and pay condolences, so that
>>if you were busy at one day you would be able to come
>>the next or the third day instead, but most people
>>chose to come on all three days, and close family
>>members certainly have to be there all the tome.
>>
>>It was during this same event that people knew about
>>Dad's recent diagnosis, and instead of words that
>>might give me hope that dad might be cured, or at
>>least get better or have any kind of medical
>>treatment, they sounded as if he would be next. Crazy
>>people... many, many of them didn't have any common
>>sense to choose the right words.. but they went.. Oh,
>>just like his friend... be brave rana, we all will die
>>one day... Stupid.. just stupid.. one of them even was
>>rude enough to ask me to tell him to forgive her if
>>she had ever done anything bad to him... this is what
>>people do when they expect that the other person will
>>die soon...
>>
>>I know we all are going to die one day.. and I have
>>enough faith in me to accept that... but I didn't need
>>stupid people to act as if I will lose my father at
>>any minute soon... and to say it to my face... I hate
>>them all

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