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Date Posted: 09:36:14 03/14/17 Tue
Author: Corey
Subject: Re: My child
In reply to: Adeli 's message, "My child" on 22:23:53 02/16/17 Thu

Hi Adeli:
I can't offer you parental advice, but I was exactly in your son's shoes at his age and I can perhaps help you understand how he feels.

If he is gay or transgender, you will find out over time. Let him explore and see where all this goes. Since you already seem to enjoy his tendencies and preferences, I suggest encouraging him to grow his interest in beauty and girlish things.

If you think he is serious, you can suggest a girl day. Get him a complete outfit and take him out shopping for dolls and such, somewhere not near your home so he can have some anonymity. Hopefully his hair can be styled suitably.

You will have to work with him a bit first, he will have to respond to a girl's name and learn some mannerisms that make him believable. But if he plays with girls often, this might not be a problem.

If he is like me, he is just looking for a transformative sensation that is part of a normal growth experience. If he does it once, he might get the urge out of his system. Or perhaps once he experiences it, he will want more. This is a good way to show him that the path he chooses is the acceptable one to you.

Thanks for taking him seriously and coming here for support. You are doing a world of good and he will never forget it.

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