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Date Posted: 16:20:44 04/16/15 Thu
Author: Corey
Subject: Re: My childs situation
In reply to: Linda B. 's message, "My childs situation" on 18:48:37 04/15/15 Wed

Hi Linda: Based on my own experience, it sounds like your son is very much intrigued by beautiful women and wants to enjoy the experience and sensation of being beautiful.

That's pretty much the opposite of what our society so often teaches boys - to be conquerers and takers - so that explains his furtive behavior. He couldn't understand why he, as a boy, didn't have what "should" be boyish urges, so he hid his activity. But not so well as not to be "caught", so perhaps he does indeed want you to play a role here, though he can't quite find the words to say so.

It sounds like he is exploring himself and looking to establish a unique identity that might be outside traditional gender boundaries. You never know, you might have a future dress designer, makeup artist, or husband to a very successful female CEO or politician on your hands.

My guess is that he is just intrigued by the look and fit of women's clothing, which is fun and unlike anything boys have. So my suggestion is to give him a play date, take him to a shopping mall (or to a place like New York's Greenwich Village) where he can indulge himself. Get him some hosiery, heels, a party dress, and a wig, and let him really feel transformative, and convinced that he can be whomever he wants to be.

Based on my own thoughts and experiences at his age (admittedly, about 40 years ago), he is probably already thinking about such an experience himself. Make certain to have fun. And bring a friend if you can, the more he feels social acceptance, the better.

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  • Re: My childs situation -- Michelle, 20:39:56 04/19/15 Sun
  • Diagnosed transgirl -- Michelle Chevel (My (son) is also TG female), 13:55:17 05/24/15 Sun
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