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Date Posted: 00:17:45 05/15/15 Fri
Author: Aelita
Subject: Re: looking for help
In reply to: Nancy 's message, "Re: looking for help" on 07:30:45 04/16/15 Thu

Hi...Here's my advice. Get it done as soon as possible. I don't enough about the new health care laws to know if insurance will pay for it now (most US insurers ceased doing so in the early 1980s) but you will will be giving your daughter the greatest gift a parent can give to a child. In the US it costs $30K and $15K at Dr. Suporn's clinic in Phuket, Thailand. He is the best in the world. There are several known cases of twelve to sixteen year olds having surgery -- go look up Kim Petras.

Why am I saying this? My parents were the opposite of you and your partner. They were well educated but religious conservatives. They refused to allow me to have blockers or hormone treatment. Needless to say my life has been a nightmare that I wouldn't want anyone to live though. If your daughter is thirteen she will be in high school soon if not already and will want to participate in all of the social activities that goes along with it -- dating, parties, going out with friends, etc. What happens when she wants to go to the beach or the lake and can't or won't go because she can't wear a swimsuit or go in the water without the wrong parts showing? What about dating? Being a teenager is hard enough without having the wrong parts to worry about all the time. Dealing with unwanted body and facial hair, voice changes, unwanted muscle mass and so on is even worse. Even if people know about your background if you appear perfectly normal in every respect they are not as mean. I have lived through this (and worse) and I know what I am talking about. Please don't wait.

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