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Date Posted: 07:25:20 12/19/09 Sat
Author: Joel to Spencer
Subject: Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17
In reply to: Spencer to Joel 's message, "Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17" on 04:28:42 12/14/09 Mon

Hi Spencer, sorry for the delay in answering your message, been busy with school, basketball games and of course looking back on my first paddling.

Thanks to congratulations on my getting my dad to paddle me for the first time, even if it took me l7 yrs. I wanted to have it done so I could really be accepted by my buddies as they get their butts punished by their dad's/

I think it was so COOL that my buddy David really pushed me to motivate me to ask my dad to paddle me. It took me 30 mins. to talk him into it, and he even mentioned that lately he was looking for a way maybe to achieve his wish as a dad to give me at least one paddling-so we both achieved goals.
David is one COOL DUDE to get me to ask my dad to paddle me, and then bare his butt and have his brother Rick paddle him for me winning the bet/challenge David did with me. Rick sure paddled David good and he took it without crying which he should be congratulated for!

I didn't try sitting down right away as I knew my butt would hurt all the more, so besides rubbing, etc. I just laid on my bed on my stomach and visited/horsed around with my buddies Sean, LUke and Kyle who were staying overnite to celebrate with me to. We had a cool time, even if my butt wasn't cool, it was still on fire for awhile, so my dad can really paddle a guy's butt!

There was no coverup with David, he got a real paddling like me, and the extra 5 licks by hand to his butt was Rick's idea for missing David's 21st birthday for a paddling in 2007. So after l7 licks, Rick just added the extra 5 to David's roasted bare butt!

No, I've told my dad that if I need to be punished that I would rather get my butt paddled for punishment and get it over with, then sub another type of punshiment. Wouldn't you or you rather take another punishment like being grounded to your room for the weekend or a priviledge taken away? I've been grounded before and had my car keys taken away, both are no fun. You get grounded? You had your license taken away I remember, that has to hurt not driving, dude!

I think its the responsibility of the dad to set the number licks for a paddling punishment. My dad not paddling me before just asked what I thought was for my first, so I suggested l7 swats as an equal to my age for him to start with.
Have you gotten at least l7 swats with your dad's paddle or more you think when punished?

You bet David was glad to take the l7 licks for his paddle for me. Hey dude, he even settled a couple of nights before in a dad/son talk he suggested they do and had his dad take his belt to his bare ass for l0 licks to settle a matter David wanted to clear his mind of. For a guy at 23 to take l0 licks with a belt and 2 days later 22 licks with a paddle, then he has a tough butt and CAN TAKE ANYTHING in my book and mind! He's a cool dude!

I had buddies at school congratulate me on getting paddled when they say I still had some reddness on my butt when showering in P.E. Class or hoop practice and I didn't mind them swatting my sore butt, we all do it to buddies after they get paddled. Don't you with your buddies, like your buddy ZACK?
Yeah, I had a sore butt playing basketball, Put on a few extra pairs of padded underwear boxer shorts to ease pain. Done it before and works great.
I thought I did my share of scoring to help the win cause. If it feels right to shoot a 3-point basket then I release the ball to th basket or shoot a 2 pointer. I don't brag about making them, but will point out they help the score. I will admit even though I'm still doing some good shooting in hoop play, we've lost THREE GAMES since then because of not executing the ball, getting rebounds and being outhustled by other teams for mistakes we've made in the game.
Sorry to hear your team has been losing games. Just keep listening to your coach, make selective shots, don't throw the ball away, get rebounds and HAVE FUN on the court! That's what we are trying to do with our team, and yes I hate to lose, but if everyone trys harder then a win has to come soon!
As for me and my grandpa? He's trying to get some help at a Mental Health Center nearby here. I can't have contact with him and so far my grandma is mad at me, so we'll see what the future brings. Will be different NOT being with them for Christmas this year.
Yeah, I had a good grandpa/grandson relationship going. And with my grandma to. They live nearby and ease to go visit. My other grandparents live far off, haven't seen them for awhile inperson, but we talk on the phone, but its not the same.
You have grandparents and good relationship?

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