Date Posted:05:15:55 12/17/09 Thu Author: Joel to Steve Subject: Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17 In reply to:
Steve----to Joel
's message, "Re: Joel's Dad Give Him His First Paddling at Age 17" on 08:23:38 12/15/09 Tue
Hey buddy, that's cool that you would not charge me a fee as I would like to hear your opinions, even though like you say I can chart my own path, etc.
Steve I value your advice, honest, and sorry I did the delay in reporting to my dad about grandpa, but again and same old broken record, I thought I would not get my dad to give me a paddling for one time in my life if my dad felt the whipping I got from grandpa was wrong, and it was, and he would feel that it would be wrong to give me the paddling after this happened.
My dad and I talked, and he agrees that it was wrong for me not to tell right away! He also told me he would probably have done the same thing I did by getting him to give me the paddling and then tell, fearing one might not ever be given to satisfy me and to show my buddies that my dad was a regular dad to paddle butt too like other buddies' dad's.
So Steve, like you asked: was the end results of my dad paddling my butt worth it?
IT SURE WAS! And my dad has revealed to me to that he was looking for an open door this past year to give me at least one spanking like a dad should his son, and he and mom realize that they made a mistake in raising me as an experiment in parent/childraising to see how long they could go without giving me a spanking growing up. I guess my dad felt some pressure from other dad's to why he was raising no-spanking.
Steve, this getting my dad to paddle me is as equal in my eyes to you getting Jake's dad to give you your whipping you wanted to show Jake you was an equal to him in getting punished. Am I making sense to you? Probably not, and you'll be mad at me. Sorry.
Your right buddy, it would be a good idea to stay away from the farm, but I sure wanted Kyle to drive by when we were in the area after the basketball game. But I'll respect my dad's wishes to stay clear.
As for a repaired relationship, time will tell, but right now for me I'm told by grandpa and grandma I'm no longer a grandson to them.
