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Date Posted: 14:02:14 10/17/09 Sat
Author: Joe
Subject: Re: True Confession
In reply to: David 's message, "True Confession" on 17:27:13 10/14/09 Wed

>Joel, Steve, Kyle...all you guys
>
>I probably owe you an apology, especially to you Joel.
>I was not totally candid about spankings I got as a
>kid and you Joel brought me to confession by your
>questions relating to how I was spanked way back then.
>I responded by telling you Joel it was a long time
>ago, your message too lengthy and I did not want to
>rehash.
>
>Truth Joel is I was much like you & Steve as a kid. My
>mom was more liberal than dad about spanking & being
>the younger of 2 boys, I was her protected one who got
>my bottom saved more than spanked. I was shy, quiet,
>maybe even intraverted who tried to avoid trouble
>while my brother Rick, who I admired back then like I
>do today, was the outgoing boy in our family. Some
>thought Rick attention deficit hyperactive but dad
>called it behavior. I was the book worm student who
>studied & behaved while Rick enjoyed the risks &
>dares. I looked up to my big bro & he looked out for
>me, maybe because we were brothers or maybe if he
>hassled me the teasing would get his butt whacked. Mom
>was effective with me by talking & telling me she was
>disappointed if I did something wrong & I cried; Rick
>got the talk & continued until mom either spanked him
>or told dad. In our younger days, dad was on the road
>for business & mom was home with us. It was Rick, not
>me, sitting in the corner on a fresh spanked bottom.

DAVID, I CAN NOT SPEAK FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR ME, THERE IS NO APOLOGY NEEDED. YOUR HONESTY AND CANDIDNESS NOW IS VERY COMMENDABLE. I READ HOW YOU'VE WORKED HARD ENOUGH IN LIFE TO HAVE ALREADY EARNED YOUR MASTERS DEGREE AT 23 AND ARE PUTTING IT TO WORK TO BETTER A FAMILY BUSINESS. NOT EVERY BOY NEEDS FREQUENT SPANKINGS. IN MY EXPERIENCE GROWING UP AND NOW WORKING WITH PROBLEM YOUTHS, I HAVE FOUND NO BOY THAT IS HOWEVER SO GOOD TO NEVER NEED HIS BUTT WHACKED. YOU ARE STILL AN OK GUY IN MY BOOK.

>Seeing or hearing Rick get spanked or later paddled
>upset me sometimes to cry & scared me more to try to
>behave while like you Joel curious as to what a
>spanking really felt like & like you also Joel, to ask
>many questions & want details from Rick & even some of
>my friends. Guess the incident when I swiped the candy
>was inside a test to see if I could get away even with
>that. I did somewhat since mom took me back to the
>store to admit what I had done & she paid for the
>candy & then grounded me. When dad got home from his
>trip & found out, what I had done went beyond mom's
>handling & really I got my first real spanking and it
>was with the paddle and I bawled my eyes dry. Maybe
>that was why Rick took the blame for cigarettes found
>by mom in our room cause he knew dad would blister my
>ass and he did not want that to happen. In a way that
>paddling when I was 10 (I think or just about 10)
>broke me out of a 'momma's boy shell' which some other
>kids called me for always seeming to be so good all
>the time. I don't know Joel or Steve if you guys ever
>had that 'tag' since you never got spanked Joel or you
>raised by your mom Steve.

TAG CAN BE CRUEL DAVID. THERE HAVE ALWAYS BEEN BULLYS AND PROBABLY ALWAYS WILL BE. MOST IN MY EXPERIENCE ARE JUST LITTLE TURDS THAT NEED THEIR ASS KICKED AND ONCE DONE, WE FIND OUT THEY ARE NOT SO TOUGH AFTER ALL. YOUR DAD DID THE RIGHT THING AT 10 TO PADDLE YOUR BUTT FOR STEALING. ITS OK FOR MOM TO TAKE YOU BACK TO THE STORE TO APOLOGIZE BUT YOU SHOULD HAVE PAID RATHER THAN HER FOR THE CANDY. IF YOU WERE MY SON, I'D WHIPPED YOUR BUTT TOO CAUSE THAT IS WHAT YOU NEEDED THEN AND THERE. GLAD THAT ACT OF FATHERLY LOVE MOVED YOU OUT OF A SHELL INTO MORE SELF CONFIDENCE. YOU ARE TODAY OBVIOUSLY A CONFIDENT AND SUCCESSFUL YOUNG BUSINESSMAN WHO CAN BE PROUD OF HIMSELF. FOR WHAT IT MIGHT BE WORTH, I'M PROUD OF YOU FOR WHAT YOU WROTE HERE.

>Middle school for us was grades 6-8 & truth now was I
>got into the 7th grade fight after finding the courage
>to stand up for myself, somewhat with Rick's
>encouragement & I do not know for sure whether I was
>more scared or more proud of myself going to the
>principal & getting my first school paddling. He made
>my bottom hurt but something inside told me that was
>ok & I needed that to prove I was a 'boy' for a change
>rather than under mom's wing. Joel I know you said you
>had similar mixed feelings getting your first school
>swats last spring & Steve, you said it took
>determination to get mom to agree to let Jake's dad
>whip you. Though you had moments I'm sure,like me,
>scared, were you proud in a way to take that whipping
>you got?

A FIRST SCHOOL PADDLING IS A SCARY MOMENT FOR ALL OF US DAVID. NOW I DO NOT CONDONE SCHOOL FIGHTING, BUT YOU STANDING UP IS COMMENDABLE. BET THAT PADDLE STUNG PRETTY GOOD YOUR NOVICE ASS!!

>I'm not saying Rick was wild or out of control or
>anything & he was not constantly getting spanked but
>some of what I led you to believe of me as a kid was
>what I saw Rick & other boys get & I just wanted to be
>an equal boy & adopted the story to myself. Joel in
>2nd grade I think you said you told the other boy who
>was playing with matches with you that you got spanked
>at home. Was that to make you better fit in since he
>got a spanking? If you guys are angry with me or
>disappointed in my less than truthful tales, I'll
>understand & stop messaging. Joel, I said in that
>recent blog to you that what I said was 'honest
>between friends' & then I realized I was not being
>fully honest with you.

BUT YOU ARE MAN ENOUGH NOW AND THAT IS GOOD ENOUGH IN MY BOOK

>As a kid, Rick knew how I was feeling & covered for
>me. He was a great big brother protector just like mom
>was in a way protecting me too. Dad was of the old
>school of discipline & once the 'ice broke' with the
>candy incident & I came out of my shell in middle
>school, my little bottom made up for some of those
>earlier years unspanked & the few times dad walloped
>both Rick & I together in our room was again scary but
>a proud moment in a way since I was an equal guy with
>my big bro who I admired & looked up to & was getting
>my ass tanned just like him. Sounds crazy??!!
>
>Anyway Joel, Steve...guys, I understand better now
>myself by reading some of your messages. Steve, you
>are older while Joel is younger than me but guess a
>guy at 23 can learn still from both ends of the
>spectrum. Now understand dudes I'm not crazy about the
>idea at 23 & it has been I think 5 years since I got
>my butt beat & that was Rick for my 18th birthday, but
>if I owe you a belated butt whipping for lying, I'd
>take one from Rick here in our apartment & knowing my
>big bro, he'd probably be willing after a 5 year
>hiatus & dad's old paddle has been stored away with me
>since it was used in 2005 for Rick's 21st birthday.

GUY, YOU DONT OWE ME AN ASS WHIPPING. SOUNDS LIKE JUST WRITING THIS AND OWNING UP IS AN ASS KICKING IN ITSELF THAT YOU GAVE YOURSELF.

>Joel, Kyle, Steve, guys...forget I'm 23 & chew me out
>for lying or lets say being less than fully honest.
>Again if you want me to drop off the message board
>site I will. I talked with Rick last evening & he
>knows I'm writing this.
>
>Thanks for hearing me out

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