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Date Posted: 23:04:42 04/07/11 Thu
Author: TKG1700 ()
Subject: Vietnam bride

Though there are many cases of vietnam bride cheat marrying foreigner to get quick money and run away, we still see many guys are willing to take the risk. The sum may be trival just 10K++, but what about the time, emotion and effort put in to develop the relationship?

Taking a vietnam bride maybe an easy route to end singlehood but is the risk worth taking? Does foreign marriage really work? Well, in my opinion, it works in the past but not this modern century and city, especially singapore.

Don’t presume the vietnam village girl are still that gentle, docile, with filial piety and love and caring towards family. Some don't even know how to cook. And yes, the only care for their family, and once you marry her, she will presume you can help her family too to get out of poverty. Remember vietnam girl don’t even mind if you are 60+ age as long as you can give her some money.

Not to mention those who have worked in HCM city. They are influenced and can be easily lured by money and greed. Their thinking is foreigner are rich, and can give her and her family good life. A village girl maybe even worse, they simply just want money!

I have made a gravous mistake, just because of age. Looking, I am really foolish. Don’t get into this kind of easy marriage, especially guys. The feeling of being cheated and dumped can be hard to bear. Based on calculation, marrying a foreign bride, consists of paying the agent fee; every daily expenses cause she is poor; and paying to her family monthly because her family may depend on her; sickness of her and her family; apply for her stay particulaly in Singapore may take years; if her house need a new scooter, refrigerator, her brother need a notebook, her mother dianolgsed with some illness need some pills; her just a distance away relative son has fell ill and heard that she married a foreigner so is considered rich need to borrow money….etc…etc. Some may not be greedy, but their family members may sought her to get money from you since you are a foreigner.

In long term life can be particulaly difficult especially if you do not have a deep pocked. Yes it may be sad that she run away eventually after found out that your money is not enough for her, but can be a blessing to you also. At least you no longer need to spend on her if she choose to desert you.

But what left behind can also be some messy things, and not like in the past or China, you can ‘severe’ or declare she is no longer your wife. Unfortunately you got to pay some lawyer fees to help you remarry. So it goes round, OK if you don’t mind the mess and clean the shit too left by her. You also cannot get her because you have no proof she cheated, and she will be in Vietnam counting the ‘loot’ she got from you.

In many years to come, I foresee thery getting smarter and more cunning and just like any gold-digger from China, they will only find rich foreigners as their milking cow or ATM. Back in vietnam, do you know they actually could have many lovers? Suiters? No body knows. You may be sadly left with a broken heart, but she can use your money to achieve more 'assets'.

The money and effort that you put in are all down the drain, and you will be as pessismistic as me. Certainly not worth the effort and money. But still many sad stories on run away vietnam bride around the world happening, and there are still many sorry man.

Age shouldn’t be a problem, older man should be more valuable. Don’t throw hard earn money away if cannot afford to lose, in monetary and emotionally. Stay happy and in this modern world, people look down on poor, but not single, isn't it?

Last edited by author: Thu April 07, 2011 23:25:30   Edited 2 times.

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