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Date Posted: 20:14:12 09/20/11 Tue
Author: TKG1700
Subject: Risk of marrying foreign bride

Many Singaporeans and Malaysians and Taiwans chose to marry foreign Vietnamese brides because they are not as demanding and materialistic as the local brides. Some of them are ethnic Chinese, born and bred there.
Most of those middle age bachelors are from the rural heartlands because it is difficult to seek a wife, as many girls have migrated to the larger towns to work.
Vietnamese brides in the past are thought to be simple and hardworking people and they can accept whatever conditions in their new country.
Those living near the border with Thailand would marry Thai girls.
Everything will be fine at first but marriage is not easy when they come from vastly different cultures and sometimes may not be able to communicate with each other except with sign language.
When they don’t get what they wanted from their spouse, those women may take whatever is available and abscond, irregardless of how the husband may have treated them well. Some whom are not so convinced because they are not the victims of run away bride even self believed that the husband must have ill treated their foreign bride!

Vietnam bride thinks life is better than the poverty which they faced back home.They came from a war torn country and faced lots of hardships during the war.
Marrying outsiders offers them a chance to escape from their poverty or a life of prostitution to survive .
They will go to those matchmaking companies who will arrange the Vietnamese girls to come over and if they like what they see, the deal is done.
It is like the traditional customary practice,where you only get to see her for a short while and agree to marry her. You will only know the real person when she becomes your wife.
The matchmaking companies will not guarantee or vouch for her character or background. This is something that should be forwarned and if marriage turn sour or the vietnam bride run away, it will be tragedy and money lost! One foul mouth agency even sarcastically claimed that "Oh, when both of you are in bed and so happy, do you think of me? Now you in trouble, look for me for what? what can I do?". Vietnam bride maybe tainted goods and you will be unlucky if you chose the wrong one. Some are wolf in a sheep disguised and will act innocent, and once you step into their web, you are certainly ripped off if it is a scam. Should you complaint or report police, they won't offer much help as both are willing parties. Sound like a real good deal and perefct scam, isn't it?
Marrying a mail order bride is not without risk. Those brides could still be married in their home country or not legally divorced or in some sort of emotional entanglements with their ex-boyfreind or even ex-lover.
Those foreign brides may run back to their own country and you will not be able to trace them . Even if you can trace them , there is nothing you can do about it.
Those men should check the girls background but it is easily said than done because it would incur a large amount of money to hire PI’s.
Even some of them have to pay by installments to those matchmaking agencies.
They can only hope for the best or they will never marry in this life.
So in general, it's better to wise up and not fall into false fantasy and presume vietnam bride is sweet and gentle. THEY ARE NOT! Time has changed. Greed and Sin had already transformed them as gold-digger and will milk as much as possible from those foreign 'carriot head', because they knew they have demand.

The editor had been cheated by vietnam bride and is here to tell the taste of being cheated. Could be same as hell!

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