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Date Posted: 19:45:09 09/11/12 Tue
Author: TKG1700 (Threaten)
Subject: Re: Pay hefty price for being kungho
In reply to: TKG1700 's message, "Pay hefty price for being kungho" on 01:16:40 09/03/12 Mon

Just to add on to this miserable story happened in Singapore, TS felt deeply threatened when he saw another
divorce case of a man earning $2000 and was told by the lousy woman charter that he has to pay $900 as monthly maintenance! what a hell! That means after deduct CPF he was left with $1600 and he only got $600 to $700! How to pay utility bills? handphone? eat instant noodle everyday?
This pitiful man actually married a divource woman with a kid and now he has to feed the woman and the kid whom is not his! That really extra-ordinary, uniquely in Singapore! No wonder so many Singles nowadays! Birth rate declines! Who would dare to marry here? More like a living hell when married! With expenses in Singapore increases, and possible even raises tax, I don't feel encourage at all to get married! Better to stay single! Have a family, my foot!


>A simple minded man wanted to be kungho. When he heard
>of this vietnam girl want to come to Singapore to earn
>quick bucks by selling her body, he thought he can be
>his saviour by marrying her! Very kungho indeed. After
>marrying, he claimed that his wife has cheated on him
>and now have to call himself 'a fool doing a good deed
>and call that love.."
>This typical 59year old security guard told newspaper
>wanbao that he married a vietnam girl 20years younger
>than him, that's around 30. However, his vietnam wife
>had being secretly going intimate with other man, what
>a joy!
>According to Mr Lu, he married his Vietnam wife
>through recommendation by friend 7years ago, and
>actually dated for 2years before married. At that
>time, he was a security guard at somewhere in Orchard,
>and one of his friend one day told him that he has a
>'god sister' coming to Singapore to work as a
>prostitude. Mr Lu felt sorry when he heard about his
>friend 'god sister' and upon hearing, he recommeded he
>wanted to keep her. And eventually they got married.
>This vietnam girl in fact has already being separated
>with his husband in vietnam and has a son!
>After married, Mr Lu wife was quite a good wife and
>work in a beauty salon. However, soon he found his
>wife coming home late, and wearing sexily. Then one
>day, Mr Lu wife's friend told him that his wife was
>seeing somebody.
>When Mr Lu question his wife, his wife denied. They
>quarralled and fought and later sleep separately.
>In order to marry the vietnam wife and become a hero,
>Mr Lu even agitated his family because his parents
>objected him marrying Vietnam girl. Mr Lu has not
>contacted them and go ahead with marrying the Vietnam
>girl. Now he is full of regrets and sorrows since he
>is now suspecting his wife of seeing someone.
>On the other hand,Mr Lu vietnam wife come out with her
>version of 'counter-attack' by claiming Mr Lu went out
>late at night and 'must' also be fooling around..
>Mr Lu explained to reporter that he actually went out
>late at night to borrow money from friends..a grandpa
>and gradma story...a very poor hero..
>Well, Mr Lu actually didn't earn much as security
>guard, probably $2000, and one year ago, his vietnam
>wife suddendly wanted to have control of Mr Lu finance
>and asked him to handle all his salary to her..the
>naive Mr Lu can actually agree and really submitted to
>her. Each day, Mr Lu vietnam wife gave him $20 for his
>expense and the rest of the money she kept.
>Just last year, Mr Lu vietnam wife said his family in
>vietnam needs some money urgently and so, Mr Lu sold
>his house and gave her the money (amount unknown!).
>When Mr Lu wife went back to vietnam, she bought
>motorcycle, have her house in vietnam refurnished, and
>even bought a refrigerator, doesn't sound really using
>the money for some emergency case! Our hero Mr Lu felt
>cheated!
>Now he is in a delima, and even neighbours can often
>heard him and his wife quarrelling and shouting at
>each other..
>
>Editor:- News come out in Sep 2012 chinese newspaper
>wanbao. Well another marriage disaster, and I and many
>people who read the story will be very sceptical as to
>whether can we call Mr Lu a hero..
>This is because the vietnam wife has a child with her
>ex-husband, and wanted to earn money by selling her
>body. Why act as hero by marrying her? Failure
>definately! No wonder so many cheats and cons exist in
>Singapore because it is so easy to con these type of
>people. I must say Mr Lu story is even more tragic
>than mine, because his case drag for long time, and
>house was sold to 'supplement' her family in vietnam!
>Now he is totally broke!
>I have also heard of married man submitted
>wholeheartly their salary to their wife and they will
>take a meagre $15-$20 per day as expense. To me,
>that's a dog life! Where's the man dignity?

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