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Date Posted: 22:53:41 05/29/13 Wed
Author: TKG1700 (enlighten)
Subject: Re: My experience
In reply to: ktk 's message, "Re: My experience" on 03:39:07 05/29/13 Wed

Well, thank you for sharing your encounter here. There you are, another typical case of run away vietnam bride. It is very correct to just let her go, for short pain is still better than long pain. DON'T ever should you feel or go for any way to win her back, it will just hurt you more. She is just another scheming gold digger, and probably already got quite some money from you and your family. I suppose you also held some wedding ceremony and dinner and that most of your circle of friends knew your marriage vietnam bride.
Do not be afraid to tell them that she is a bad girl and truly, vietnam bride are hard to maintain. She lied, and as you see, vietnam girl are no longer that kind that would want to work at home (do housework)!
Have you visited vietnam? You can see that they are developing, though poor, but those born in 1988+, they are no longer hardworking, filial and loving. And most are just like typical gold digger, want money and fun. So you should be glad that your bride left you. If you can lure her back, go to a lawyer to annul your marriage (both sign on paper) if it is still less than a year so that you can return to your bachelor status again, and no complication in future. Time will heal in the long run, and you will realize there are many girls better than vietnam bride. There's nothing wrong being single nowadays, and man are more wise and worthwhile when older.
And the agents, will certainly promote another girl (same like digging another hole for you to fall), do not fall into them. Agents are only interested in making money. Have you heard of a foul mouth agent when vietnam girl run away, he can still have the cheek to say, "oh, when both of you happy in bed, will you think of me? now got problem, look for me for what? once my 'transaction' or deal is done (you signed that deadly dotted paper at ROM), money fully paid, there is nothing between us already!".
Don't ever look back at vietnam bride, and help spread the words of the consequence of getting such easy way out marriage. Treat yourself better, then you will not like her alot, and anymore. There are many good girls around, certainly not vietnam bride!
I have gained my wisdom, and insight, and learnt not to look back. What makes you so 'excited' when sent you SMS? she probably hope to get a few more $K from you to beg her back. Pity? I afraid not. In vietnam, with the Sing dollar from you, and probably from many of her 'tinh yeu', she should be happier then you. Good luck.





>My marrige lasted only 9months. i'm 39 and she's 27
>Looking back I have seen many signs it will end. But
>during the marrige I totally deny it. I tried my best
>to make her happy. I know she dislike my mom. My mom
>is very traditional she likes to housework.My mom
>tried to impart these values to her but she does not
>like it. Many times when she's reluctant to do
>housework, she will make things worse. 1)Not removing
>coins frm washing mc 2)Throw rubbish into drain after
>cooking and may more. There seems to a strong magnet
>in vietnam. During this 9 months of marrige she flew
>back 3 times. Everytime I have to persuade her to come
>back. Her mother and agent also have to persuade her
>Once I went out with my father, she's alone at home.
>On the way, my car broke down, so the mechanic sent us
>back. Reaching home I saw her dressed very nice and
>make up. Upon seeing us she quickly make a call
>silently. I just act normal bec that's 1st 2 months
>into the marrige.She did ask me if she has a bf what
>will I do. On the second time she came back from she
>sold all my gold I bought her. My family say just let
>go of her Truelly during her last trip ahe told me
>she's not comimg back. She even lied that her grandma
>passed away. At one time while dining at a restaurant,
>her vietnam friend walk up to my mother and tell her "
>Your dauther in law is not a good woman" " "Complained
>that my mother always nosey in the house" She even add
>that she has a husband and child in vietnam. After
>runnin 3 times. I'm letting her go. But last chinese
>new yr and valatines day I received sms " happy
>chinese new yr" " happy valatines day"- Huh?? Happy to
>who?? I tried to call back she don't wana pick up.
>
>I like her alot,other people like her too bec she's
>very jovial. She's afast learner helping her agent
>cousin at the restaurant. Its apity it didn't work out
>bec she can help me alot in the future.

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