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Lacy
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Date Posted: 07/26/02 12:37am
In reply to:
Biff
's message, "I'll cast my vote here" on 07/23/02 12:43pm
And thanks for your comment. Though I still don't really agree that fellatio is sex. I mean I know guys make a big deal out of it, but its really more like kissing. I guess what I was trying to find out if Bible says anything about it.
>>Hi!
>>
>>I got a question for all of you. My husband has been
>>very upset with our sex life lately, so I decided to
>>take a fellatio class so I can please him better. My
>>class lasted a week, and the instructor told me that I
>>am becoming a world-class fellationist. But here is
>>the problem: since the beggining of the class I
>>pleased about 50 men, and that got me thinking. Am I
>>doing the right thing? I know this isn't really sex,
>>but still am I commiting adultery? Please comment.
>>
>>Lacy.
>
>Interestingly enough, I've seen this issue come up
>before, not here, mind you. I've heard of some
>Christian parents who held a strict ban on vaginal
>intercourse between their son and his girlfriend, but
>felt that oral sex would be alright.
>
>The question in the heading of your post is somewhat
>misleading. Judging from your description, you're not
>really asking if fellatio is a sin, but whether it
>qualifies as sexual intercourse and therefore adultery
>if performed outside of marriage.
>
>My opinion is yes, it does. Remember Bill Clinton's
>immortal quote: "I did not have sexual relations with
>that woman." When it was later revealed that they had
>engaged in oral sex, the general concensus what that
>his statement was a lie, or at least incorrect.
>Fellatio may not be the type of intercourse that can
>produce a baby, but it is still within the realm of
>intimacy that is to be shared by only a husband and
>wife. The sexual bond between a man and woman is not
>simply about procreation, but also a shared experience
>that is unique to the two, a level of intimacy that
>neither holds with anyone else.
>
>Since you asked if it was a sin, I'm assuming that
>you're patterning your life according to Christian
>ethics. If you want my advice (take it or leave it, as
>you please), I would withdraw from the class
>immediately. Is your husband aware that you were
>taking the class and what it involved? If not, I think
>the right thing to do is explain to him what you did
>and why, and pray that he understands. You also need
>to ask forgiveness from God.
>
>I hope I've answered your question and I pray God's
>blessing on you.
>
>Biff
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