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Date Posted: 11:04:43 01/02/16 Sat
Author: Kaity L.
Subject: Re: My mom's BF spanked me
In reply to: maryanne 's message, "Re: My mom's BF spanked me" on 22:05:53 01/01/16 Fri

I think Jake and my mom both had to take some kind of classes or counseling and maybe were on probation, but nobody went to jail. They stayed together at least through when I was in 9th grade but then they broke up. I had supervised visits with my mom for a while and no contact with Jake. Then I kind of attacked my mother and screamed "I hate you" a lot at her and the social services woman had to pull me off and the visits stopped. I had some issues with cutting and issues with eating because of everything and got hospitalized a couple of times in 9th and 10th grades.

Give a hug to your friend from me, and tell her it gets better. I would be happy to help her out with advice or whatever. Yeah, I think I was more mad at my mom for not leaving Jake than I was at Jake for abusing me. I'm not even sure I wanted her to leave him. Just to protect me. My feelings for Jake were really confusing because I adored his attention. I was really shy, and had always had fantasies of having a father, and then suddenly I had Jake, and I guess I accepted a lot of stuff because I wanted a dad so badly. The spankings he started giving me hurt, but they were also attention, and it seemed like a normal father/daughter thing the way he did it. He would touch me and caress me in ways that felt good besides just spanking me. Nothing sexual, just rubbing my back and legs and stuff, holding me on his lap, and also touching me as he positioned me for my spankings, or gently after he had finished.

What kind of things does your friend have to do that are embarrassing? I sometimes lost my clothing privileges at home. Usually that was reserved for reaching back or for struggling during a spanking, or if I was slow to strip in the first place when I was ordered to. But as I got older it got a lot harder to keep clothing privileges and I was mostly naked at home. For school I always wore long dresses and long sleeve blouses and at least two layers of tops even when it was hot, but at home and if we went out as a family my clothes were always very skimpy, which I guess I liked because Jake and his friends always said nice things about my body.

My spankings from Jake were pretty much all the same, at least the ones I normally got. If I did something really bad, like something so serious a normal girl my age might even have gotten punished for it, that was when I got caned or got the belt. One friend of Jake's who was my main babysitter used to spank me every time he came over. He had me lie long ways on his lap instead of lying across it, with my head at his knees and my hands grabbing his legs and my own legs wrapped around his waist. He would hand spank me at first with both hands at the same time, and later on he would do this thing where he alternated spanking me really fast that usually had me screaming in pain. When he was done he just had me lay there and would stroke my legs and bottom and back for maybe an hour. My breasts had already started growing when he started coming over and my nipples pressed right into his legs if he was wearing shorts. I always got really weird feelings being spanked that way and was kind of excited and scared whenever he came over. Especially since I was totally not allowed to do anything with boys. The other friends of Jake's who spanked me just did it the same way Jake did.

How old is your friend who's mom has the strict boyfriend? How long has she had to be spanked and embarrassed by him, and what kind of things does she have to do during her punishments? Definitely let her know she is not alone, and especially tell her that if she has weird feelings or kind of likes some of the stuff she has to do at the same time she hates it that it is a normal thing that happens to girls who are punished strictly or abused.

Also how old are you, Maryanne? Do you ever get strict punishments, either at home or when you visit your friend? Thanks for writing, and Happy New Year!

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