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Subject: What is used? Author: PJ [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:19:59 07/21/12 Sat What is used to spank you? Or, parents, what do you use? Dad has now moved to using a paddle. He has used a belt and the switch before. But, Dad has also shocked me a couple of times and used his hand on me. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: PJ adds [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:36:41 07/21/12 Sat I should note before the switch, belt and paddle, when I was younger, I got spanked by hand exclusively. I think Dad used his hand on me now to sort of let me know I was acting like a little kid and so he spanked me like one. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Avraham [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:05:08 07/21/12 Sat Me, and my twin brothers Joseph and Yitzchak, have been spanked with the hand, a ruler, a ping-pong paddle and a belt. Not all at one time, though! LOL!!! We hate getting spanked.The belt is used for the worst mess-ups. Dad says he doesn't like to use it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Adam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:07:22 07/21/12 Sat Mostly I get spanked with the hand. Mom has spanked me with a flyswatter. That stings bad. Dad has used a big wood ruler. That is bad too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:54:15 07/21/12 Sat We got hand spanked when we were younger. sometimes we still do but mostly its with the paddle or hairbrush. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Kevin [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:29:46 07/21/12 Sat Me and my sister Taylor and my brother Sean get it with the paddle bare most of the time but we allstill get hand spanked sometimes too. My sister Shannon sometimes gets the paddle but she dont' get it bare. I just started getting it bare this year. It hurts bad. i got it four times like that I think and it hurts bad. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Suzie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:14:42 07/22/12 Sun And PJ, when you got the hand-spankings, how were they compared to other times? Still a very sore bottom? I know many use an implement, but I still think you can give an effective spanking with just your hand. Hugs, Suzie [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: PJ to Suzie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:32:55 07/24/12 Tue I will just say Dad has not lost his "touch." Frankly, I would say that the soreness lingered longer after the hand spanking than after the paddle. But, my paddlings do not last very long - the most I ever had with the paddle was 12 but I usually just get 2 to 6. This last time Dad had me over his knee for a very long time. But, sadly, I used the F word on my mother and I deserved every bit of what he gave me. Honestly, I think that is why I got spanked with his hand. Dad wanted to make a LONG ordeal of it and he knew an implement would physically harm me if he used it for very long. Dad wants to cause some serious hurt and he doesn't mind leaving me sore for a little bit but he would NEVER harm me. I agree that a spanking by hand can be very effective. A nice thing about it was I felt close to Dad. I am a tall boy and so we had to work it out with getting me over his knee. Yes, I am very cooperative and actually "helped" Dad get me positioned. He sat back and I laid on the bed with my bottom on a pillow over his lap. But, he hugged me up with the free hand and, that was sort of a nice feeling. Suzie, do you spank by hand, if you spank? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Ryan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:20:34 07/22/12 Sun I just started getting the paddle in Jan when I turned 12. Before that I always got hand spankings. Nothing else was ever used though and I wonder how the switch compares to the paddle because I've heard the switch really stings bad but the paddle with holes hurts bad so I just wonder. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: PJ to Ryan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:54:01 07/24/12 Tue I used to get the switch. The switch is horrible. I hear a hairbrush is worse but I don't know. Personally, I consider the switch to be worst. It stings. But it builds. It starts off OK just little flicks of sting on your skin and then it keeps building to an almost burning sensation. Unlike a belt or paddle, there is no deep muscle soreness but the intense sting and pain on the skin surface is almost unbearable. If you get switched, make sure who ever is swinging the switch knows what they are doing. A switch can actually slice the skin. Dad knew what to do and I was never sliced. In fact, the results of a switch, used properly, are just a lot of faint pink lines. There is little residual soreness, the pain is all during the spanking. The issue is the itching. In a few hours, as the skin "heals" it itches. The itching is almost to the point of being painful. The itching is severe for about a half hour. Dad only used a switch because that is how Grandad did him. The predecessor to this site was actually instrumental in getting Dad to stop using switches. If you have a say in it, I would not recommend a switch. Dad wouldn't either. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Ryan to PJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:01:41 07/24/12 Tue Ouch...the switch sounds horrible! I had heard it stings bad but I never knew anyone who got the switch. And I never heard of it itching like that. Guess I should be "glad" I get the paddle, but I hate it so I'll try to remember it could be worse next time. Why did your Dad stop using the switch and why does he not recommend it? Just wondering, if you can say. Good your Dad stopped though! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Benji to Ryan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:42:02 07/25/12 Wed My grandfather used a switch on me once. OUCH! You DO NOT want to get it with a switch. I was miserable. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Ryan to Benji [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:17:01 07/25/12 Wed Wonder if the switch is more old fashioned, you and PJ both said your grandfathers used it. I never knew anyone getting the switch. Hope I never have to get that. I'll remember what you said if my parents think of that and try to talk them out of it. Hope you don't get it with the switch anymore! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Benji to Ryan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:02:29 07/25/12 Wed Well, PJ and I had the SAME grandfather. We are cousins. Yes, it is sort of an old fashioned thing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Bob E. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:43:03 07/31/12 Tue I don't think so much that the switch is, "sort of an old fashioned thing," Benji and Ryan. Ten years ago, I was a Big Brother to an eight and a half year-old boy whose roots were from Appalachia (West Virginia). He did something or other which upset his Mom, and she told won of his brothers to, "get her a switch." I had no idea what this was, but I knew it was going to be used to punish my Little Brother. I was able to persuade the Mom that she didn't need to punish my friend. The switch may be something that is a regional implement; depending upon where one grew up. I grew up in the northeast U.S. and I never heard of a switch until this incident. I remember getting home and using the dictionary to find out what the Mom had said! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Ryan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:55:23 08/01/12 Wed My Dad says that it is sort of old fashioned and I believe him. He says that it is still used in some regions of the country where it was always most common but that doesn't mean it's not sort of old fashioned. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Ryan to Benji [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:59:01 07/25/12 Wed Ohhhh...makes sense. Not like all grandfathers are using switches then maybe. It sounds horrible and I thought the paddle was bad. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Bob E. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:30:18 07/26/12 Thu Does your paddle have holes, Ryan? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Ryan to Bob E. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:17:48 07/26/12 Thu Yes, it does have holes. My parents say that's so there's no air cushion and so it hurts more. Makes sense I guess and it does hurt a lot, but I don't know the difference. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: PJ to Ryan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:18:38 07/27/12 Fri There is a HUGE difference between a paddle with holes and one without. At school, the paddles are not allowed to have holes. Before Dad introduced our paddles (which have holes) he was using a belt. Mom was using her school paddle on us. So, I had good experience with a paddle without holes. Both at school and from Mom. When I first got it with the paddle with holes, I was amazed at how much more sting and burn was there. It is true, a paddle with holes hurts A LOT more. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Chris to PJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:53:33 07/30/12 Mon PJ, do you and your brothers have your own paddle or does your Dad use the same one on all of you? I'm glad our paddle doesn't have holes! I bet it hurts a lot more. Where did your Dad get a paddle with holes? Did he make it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: PJ to Chris [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:11:35 07/31/12 Tue We each have our own. We made them with Dad. The holes were our stupid idea. We were being "men." Dad is good about adjusting force and number to compensate for the holes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Taylor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:30:45 07/22/12 Sun I get it with the paddle and hairbrush mostly. Sometimes we get hand spankings too but not all that often anymore. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:50:07 07/23/12 Mon It all depends on who is watching me at that moment. My parents would use a hairbrush, mostly. If somebody from my extended family is watching me, it could be with a paddle, wooden spoon, or his or her hand. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Benji [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:40:39 07/25/12 Wed I get it with either a paddle or by hand. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Chris [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:43:43 07/25/12 Wed My Mom and Dad started using the paddle when I turned 13, which was just last month but I can already tell I don't like it. Has anyone been spanked with a belt before? My Grandma uses a belt on me and my cousins when we misbehave at her house. The belt is worse than paddle, I think. Anyone else think that? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Michael [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:49:30 07/25/12 Wed Always use their hand. Dad's hand spankings are really long and hurt A TON. Sometimes we also get swats with the hairbrush after dad finishes spanking with his hand. When that happens it feels like your butt skin explodes and is going to peel off. I hate hate hate that hairbrush. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Brooks [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:19:49 07/25/12 Wed We got spanked by hand until we turned 13, then the paddle was used. I been paddled 3x. There is also a belt, but I never got it. I was last spanked about 15 months ago. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Mark W. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:50:23 07/25/12 Wed I get it with a paddle. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Rupert Adam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:20:44 07/27/12 Fri I get the wooden spoon or the cane. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Michael [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:18:15 08/03/12 Fri Hi Rupert. I'm Michael and i'm 10. how old are you? what do you mean by you get the cane? what is a cane? like a walking cane? i wouldn't want to get hit in the butt with that! my friends mom spanks him with a wooden spoon. i get it with back of a hairbrush sometimes which is kind of like that i guess. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Rupert Adam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:47:42 08/04/12 Sat I'm 14. The cane is a whippy length of rattan about 85 cm (20") long with a handle. It STINGS. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: turtle [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:04:49 08/04/12 Sat I get it with a plastic (called lexin) paddle. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Rupert Adam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:42:25 08/06/12 Mon Is it purpose made? Is it worse than a wooden one? How is it done? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: turtle to rupert [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:51:17 08/07/12 Tue it was a lexin cutting board and my grandfather cut it down and put holes in it - it already had a handle. I passed it on to my step-father (Dad) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Rupert Adam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:51:19 08/08/12 Wed Is it worse than wood? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: turtle to rupert [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:25:20 08/09/12 Thu it is hard to compare. I have only got wood at school at it is always over shorts and boxers and the school paddle has no holes. at home the lixin is used on my bare bottom and it has holes in it. the lexin stings and burns HORRIBLY. i think it is designed that way but it does not "damage or harm." so, I can get a real long session of pain without any real injury. a long session with a wood paddle would cause injury. I dont like school paddelings with a wood paddle BUT i detest and hate a spanking at home with that evil plastic thing. so i guess it is worse. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Rupert Adam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:40:17 08/15/12 Wed So was it a good idea to pass it on to your step dad? How does he use it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: turtle to rupert [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:28:06 08/16/12 Thu i think it was a good idea. i was used to it so i would not have to get used to something else. Dad (my step-dad, Paul) cares for me. sadly grampy didn't. it makes a difference i usually bend over my bed on a stack of pillows with my hands crossed under my chest and he smacks it all over my bottom. i get a multiple of 5, depending on what i did. i have never got more than 25 (only once) and my usual is 10. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Alex [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:08:19 09/01/12 Sat My mom spanks with her hand and trust me it hurts. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:24:44 09/01/12 Sat Hi Alex. Welcome to the forum. I still get spanked with my parents hand too but most of the time I get the paddle. Did you ever get it with the paddle? I hope you come back and talk some more. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: turtle to alex [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:45:06 09/01/12 Sat hello and welcome! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Alex [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:42:33 09/01/12 Sat thanks. No I never got it with a paddle but my mom said she was thinking about using a hairbrush. I hope she doesn't [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Sean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:34:38 09/02/12 Sun I get it with the hairbrush sometimes too. That hurts worst than the paddle i think. I hope your mom don't start using it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Avraham, Joseph and Yitzchak [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:37:20 09/02/12 Sun From now on when we earn a spanking, are going to get spanked mostly with a belt, until we turn thirteen when a paddle will be used. We could get a hand spanking, but Dad says he wants us to fear a spanking. It's the belt we fear! Should we go with the paddle instead? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Adam [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:40:01 09/02/12 Sun I get spanked with either Mom's flyswatter or hand, or Dad's hand or a metal ruler with all round edges. That really hurts!I bawl my eyes out when he uses that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Micheal [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:37:19 09/04/12 Tue Hi Yaakov and Noach and hi to all your brothers to. Sorry I can't remember everyone's names and its not on the screen anymore. I just wanted to say that I'm glad you guys are all posting again. I hope school starts out good. I'm sorry to hear that some of you might start getting spanked with a belt. I have a friend that gets spanked with a belt and he says it is awful. I hope my parents never do that. I get mostly hand spankings and I think that hurts plenty. Did you and your family do anything fun for labor day? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: What is used? Author: Yaakov and Noach [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:41:38 09/02/12 Sun We only get spanked with Mom or Dad's hand on our bare bottoms. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]