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Subject: looking for advice Author: Charles [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:13:26 08/20/12 Mon Hello, my name is Charles. I have 3 boys ages 13 (soon to be 14) and twin 9 year old. I have just started using spankings as punishment with all three boys. It seems that taking away possessions and/or grounding them really doesn't have an effect on them. You tell them that they will no longer be able to play Xbox 360 or Playstation 3 or have internet access, and all they do is shrug their shoulders and say, "Oh well". So when I got that reaction, I informed them that I will start handing out spankings. This scared them straight for a few months, but then my teenager decided to test the limits. He found out that dad means what he says and that I'm not a push over like his mom. Well to make a long story short, the twins have tested me twice and I have stuck to my guns about spanking. They know that I'm serious and their behavior and attitudes have changed for the better. My teenager has too, but still finds himself getting into trouble. I started off by using just my hand on bare bottoms and bending them over either my knee or their bed. But recently I have been thinking about switching to either a belt or a paddle. When I spank with my hand, I usually go until their bottoms are red. So I guess my questions are, What is better Hand, Belt, or paddle? What do most others use and how effective is it? and Where would be the best place to get a paddle? And of course I'm open to any advice that you can give me. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]