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Subject: Spanked & A Write-Off & Grounded


Author:
Avraham
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Date Posted: 19:10:06 09/05/12 Wed

On Sunday I told my Mom something with the F word in it. Mom told Dad. Dad was not happy, to put it mildly. First, I got sent to my room "to think about it." Almost three hours later, Dad came into the room and we talked. He said that he was especially disappointed because this was the fifth time that I have used bad language. I told him I didn't mean to do it, but it "just sort of slipped out." Dad didn't like that answer- at all! He told me I was going to get a spanking, PLUS a write-off of 250 lines PLUS grounded for two days.
I got a hand spanking that was real hard and real slow. When Dad stopped, I thought my butt couldn't take any more. I was wrong, though! Then, Dad took off his belt and laid five good swats right at the sit-spot crease. And, as soon as he did that, he sat me down on a wood chair with no padding and gave me a pen and paper to start the write-offs. I could barely see the paper for the tears. For the grounding, I was restricted to my room, and couldn't play any games, use the computer, toys or anything else. It was total boredom for two days. I am going to try my best to hold my tongue from now on!

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked & A Write-Off & Grounded


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Kevin
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Date Posted: 18:11:00 09/06/12 Thu

Wow i never used the F word in front of my mom or dad. I would get a terrible spanking for that. Sean did it a couple of times at school and got a bad spanking each time. i used some other bad words a couple of times though and got spanked for that. I hope you are feeling better today.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked & A Write-Off & Grounded


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Avraham to Kevin
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Date Posted: 19:19:22 09/06/12 Thu

I know. It just kind of slipped out from me. I have a hard time controlling my mouth. My Dad says he's going to help teach me. I love my Mom and Dad, and I am real sorry that I said that, because I didn't mean it.
I am mad at me for messing up by using the word and I hope to have a better vocabulary from now on. I need to keep my big mouth in check!

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked & A Write-Off & Grounded


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Michael
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Date Posted: 17:31:00 09/07/12 Fri

Hi Avraham. I'm Michael and I'm 10. I'm sorry you got all that punishment. That spanking sounds really bad. I know that feeling of like your butt can't take any more spanking but then you find out that it has too. :( I've gotten in trouble for bad words too. I say stuff without thinking sometimes. I hope no more punishments for you for a long long time.

Hi PJ. I don't think that Nathan meant to make Avraham feel bad and I don't think he thinks he's perfect. Don't be mad at each other please.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Spanked & A Write-Off & Grounded


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Avraham
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Date Posted: 17:54:23 09/09/12 Sun

Hi, Michael. I love my parents- a lot. My Dad says that he only added up all the punishment so that I would learn not to repeat using bad language like I have been doing. My Dad NEVER EVER uses any cuss words- I learned them from the college students where our school is located. Those kids use those words all the time, but Dad says we should NEVER use them! I hope I don't repeat saying those words again, too!

I never saw what Nathan or PJ wrote. My Dad wouldn't let us see what was there, because he didn't want us to feel bad. But, I feel bad that something I wrote ended up causing a whole lot of trouble for a whole lot of people.

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked & A Write-Off & Grounded


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Taylor to Avraham
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Date Posted: 20:36:27 09/09/12 Sun

Hi Avraham,

Please don't feel bad about what your wrote. That's what this forum is about. It's not your fault that some of us got off track a little with our responses.

I am sorry you got that spanking though. Your dad is right, you should never use those words. I have never sworn or cussed either. My mom doesn't either. My dad has let one loose a few times but not anything really bad. My mom gets mad at him when he does.

So don't be afraid to share with us Avraham. Be good & no more spankings!

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[> Subject: Re: Spanked & A Write-Off & Grounded


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Sean
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Date Posted: 21:16:56 09/09/12 Sun

I been spanked hard for swearing also so don't feel too bad about it. we all slip sometimes. i done it at school a few times and that was real bad. I think the F word is the one that gets us most in trouble. that's the real bad one.

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[> Subject: Apologies to all


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Moderator
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Date Posted: 16:09:22 09/10/12 Mon

All,

I need to apologize for a recent error in my judgement. It is not the first and it will not be the last. As you know if you have read the information at the top of the page, there are several posting guidelines here and it falls to me to try and moderate those guidelines. Of course that involves judgement calls at times. Recently, there was a post to this thread that was, I believe, well-intentioned but written in such a way that it might have come across, depending on one's interpretation, as not being supportive or respectful. I initially allowed that post. Additional posts followed that also raised some concerns. I attempted to use the posts as a "teaching moment" so that we might practice discussing items about which we have different opinions in a respectful and supportive manner. But that can be a really hard thing to do and is probably too much to expect from even so mature and thoughtful a group as the kids that post here. This was my error. It became clear to me that the only recourse to avoid any more damage was to remove all the posts that were potentially controversial. Which I did. I did leave one post from Michael that I will edit soon because it only referred to the posts a little bit.

To all who were upset, hurt, or angered by these posts or my removal of them, I am deeply sorry. I apologize as well for having to remove the posts that you spent time thinking about and writing. Many of your words were very good indeed and I am sad that the forum will not get to read them.

I hope that you will forgive my error in judgment and the subsequent action that I took. I will try to do a better job in the future. You see, everyone can learn from their mistakes! If there is anything that I can do to make amends to you personally, please let me know.

If you continue to have concerns about what occurred please talk with your parents/caregivers or other trusted adults. I am also happy to hear what you have to say or to correspond with your parents/caregivers. There is a link at the very top, "Contact Forum Admin", that will connect you with my email address.

I hope that we will now be able to put this matter behind us.

Your friendly neighborhood moderator.

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