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Subject: Re: Helen for Pat Author: Helen [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:17:45 01/09/13 Wed In reply to: Patterson James, Sr. to Helen 's message, "Re: Helen for Pat" on 11:46:54 01/09/13 Wed Dear Pat, Thank you so much for your good advise. I think I have been too quick to use spanking to solve every problem with the boys. It has always worked well with both of them, but they are getting older and maybe it is time to change this up a bit. Thankfully, Marcus has not started the smart mouth phase yet. Both of the boys are very respectful to adults, but they do not always do what those adults tell them to do. Thank you for your kind words about Max, he is a sweet boy, but he can be a very naughty boy at times too. I will keep all you advise in mind. Thany you again, and may God bless your family. Helen [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Helen for Pat Author: Alfred (an intro and a comment) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:46:20 01/12/13 Sat The advice from PJ Sr. was superb and I hope things go well for Helen. Here are a few sentences about me. I am an adult with one grown child; currently I have two God-children and so on occasion I am asked for parenting advice. I am hoping for grandchildren but they are in the future. This forum and the associated other forums are very helpful, especially for teens trying to become loving and functional young men and women. It would be really neat if someone with PJ Sr.'s wisdom and worldly authority and competence could be a full-time advisor to the parents and kids who come here. Giving honest advice about this rather sensitive topic seems to come very naturally to him. Others contribute valuable insights also. The burden of making any forum work is significant and the moderator deserves gratitude for doing it, sometimes in spite of his own personal health problems. He should see it as a kind of ministry since it really is that. God Bless. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]