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Subject: Re: Why bare? Author: SL Sarah [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 00:53:32 10/06/12 Sat In reply to: Patterson J., Sr. 's message, "Why bare?" on 11:00:41 09/28/12 Fri In addition to the three practical reasons cited in the OP, I would also add that lowering the pants and underwear helps to restrain the legs. This is particularly useful as the spanking progresses and one begins to encounter resistance in the form of kicking and wriggling. Psychologically, lowering the underwear signifies that the spanker has complete control as well as the intent to inflict maximum punishment. As has been mentioned, the bottom's redness is a very important visual aid. Once the bottom has been reddened I reduce the force of the slaps, as the buttocks become more sensitive to them. This allows me to prolong the spanking, making it more effective. I also pause for longer between each one for the same reason. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Why bare? Author: Gary Steven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:35:23 10/13/12 Sat Growing up I got always got bare bottom spankings from my mother and a couple from my dad. Mom's reasons for spanking bare were 1. The embarassment lasts longer than the pain. 2. She could tell by the color of our bottom when she had spanked us enough. 3. She didn't have to hit as hard to get her point across. When I spanked my children most of the time it was done bare bottom as well. I might give them what I referred to as an "attention getter" if we were in a place or situation where I couldn't give them a "real spanking". The "attention getters" were usually one or two swats on the seat of the pants or thigh with the promise pulling their pants down and giving them a real spanking if they didn't straighten up. When I spanked bare it was to 1. Let them know what they did was serious enough to merit me to use stronger measures. 2. The embarassment factor. 3. I didn't have to swat hard and I could see the "damage" done. With regard to the third point. When spanking though clothing, you really have no idea if you are spanking too hard or if you are really having any effect on them. Kids can "play it up" acting like you are beating them half to death while in reality they are hardly feeling it when you spank them over clothing (especially jeans). The flip side of that being, you might actually be spanking them harder than you mean to and causing bruising or worse. When spanking on the bare bottom, there is no question as to just how much of an effect you are having. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Why bare? Author: Connor to Gary Steven [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:57:28 10/17/12 Wed "Mom's reasons for spanking bare were 1. The embarassment lasts longer than the pain. 2. She could tell by the color of our bottom when she had spanked us enough. 3. She didn't have to hit as hard to get her point across." Gary, I agree with your mom and you about these 3 absolutely, however, I would like to add the 4th. If big boy considers he is too old for obedience, traditional barebottomed spanking in front family helps culprit and his siblings understand that for parents he is child yet and can't be out of family discipline. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]