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Subject: Re: Kalam Words.. to Kalam & adanama Author: Wannabe Counselor [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 00:31:38 05/19/01 Sat Author Host/IP: NoHost/210.186.44.20 In reply to: adanama 's message, "Kalam Words" on 18:08:19 05/18/01 Fri Assalamualaikum, Hai...This gonna be controversial matters Kalam. But at least for positive side of thinking, I do think you are nice plus good guy (if you are a guy) because only nice guys is thinking about doing sex with the woman they called wife. As the sentence goes 'lelaki kahwin kerana sex'- so maksudnya bagus la lelaki tu at least get married before doing sex tak la carik sex rambang. And I do think that adanama is a girl coz she kinda freaks out. Woman tends to freaks out in matter of sex. (I'm sorry...) Why I said that because wanita melayu sgt menjaga this 'dara' thing (don't jump to conclusion... read on). And if Kalam is a girl (woman if you prefer that) she might be asking the question because she heard it somewhere and eager to know others opinion... OK this is what i read, heard, belajar dgr ceramah and apa yg i know (maybe wasn't enough)... Ilmu kite dlm bidang ni is not that wide. I believe that many of us have not married yet. Dalam Islam we got married BECAUSE (which is the main reason) utk menambahkan zuriat. Kalau dikatakan tujuan utama berkahwin adalah utk sex sebenarnya sukar dipastikan benar atau salah. BUT you must remember Sex ptg because utk mencapai tujuan utama perkahwinan. Sex juga dpt mengeratkan hubungan suami isteri. Dalam Islam sgt menitikberatkan layanan isteri terhadap suami..dan bagaimana seorg isteri dilaknat jika menolak permintaan suami nya. Lalu...there you goes how important it is. So I don't see what is wrong for guy to get married because he wanted to have sex with the one he love. But he damn idiot if he married just because of sex. Do you think it easy to get married???. Baik you bayar fifty buck go find whore and have sex. Tak payah la kumpul duit thousands2 …..So I don't see what is so keji for a guy who get married because he wanted to make love with his love one cum having sex...at least he married the girl. My point is... lelaki kahwin kerana sex boleh dilihat dr pelbagai sudut. My opinion If the guy married the girl because he was thinking about sex, I believe that wasn’t just that. As Muslim bagus jugak kan lelaki kahwin kerana sex BECAUSE at least he kahwin dulu…. (Fuhhh believe me I feel like I’m defending someone…. But I’m not, maybe too many law movie… and law books) Well …Adanama I’m sorry if you don’t agree with me.. It’s just you seems so angry with the statement. Do see and think anything both positive and negative side. But I do agree with your point. Sebenar nye whatever we wanna do do it ‘ Lillahi taala’. Insya Allah selamat dunia akhirat. As for girl get married for celebration …. Ala biase la I think sume org bile nak kahwin nak macam tu macam ni. I do doubt so much girls get married because of celebration. Ade ke kaum perempuan yg idiot camtu. Katalah die tak suke lelaki tu, let say she knows the guy is BAD, but she desperately nak rase camna celebration kahwin so she married je that guy. Ade ke antara korang2 nih se’idiot’ tu. I saw the sentence tu pun aku rase nak gelak because ade org fikir camtu ke atau buat remarks camtu. Shame of that person la… Apa yg aku tahu perempuan mostly inginkan perkahwinan to feel safe & secure… to love and to be loved. To be good wife and to be great mom….. And most of us get married because……………….. (you answer it, because the answer is yours….) Whatever the answer is at least kita mendirikan satu lagi masjid dan mendapat pahala kerana mengamalkan sunnah rasullullah….. Akhirkata, yg baik tu datang dari Allah dan yang buruk itu adalah kesilapan saya sendiri…. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kalam Words.. to Kalam & adanama Author: Wannabe Counselor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:33:23 05/19/01 Sat Author Host/IP: NoHost/210.186.44.20 Assalamualaikum, Hai...This gonna be controversial matters Kalam. But at least for positive side of thinking, I do think you are nice plus good guy (if you are a guy) because only nice guys is thinking about doing sex with the woman they called wife. As the sentence goes 'lelaki kahwin kerana sex'- so maksudnya bagus la lelaki tu at least get married before doing sex tak la carik sex rambang. And I do think that adanama is a girl coz she kinda freaks out. Woman tends to freaks out in matter of sex. (I'm sorry...) Why I said that because wanita melayu sgt menjaga this 'dara' thing (don't jump to conclusion... read on). And if Kalam is a girl (woman if you prefer that) she might be asking the question because she heard it somewhere and eager to know others opinion... OK this is what i read, heard, belajar dgr ceramah and apa yg i know (maybe wasn't enough)... Ilmu kite dlm bidang ni is not that wide. I believe that many of us have not married yet. Dalam Islam we got married BECAUSE (which is the main reason) utk menambahkan zuriat. Kalau dikatakan tujuan utama berkahwin adalah utk sex sebenarnya sukar dipastikan benar atau salah. BUT you must remember Sex ptg because utk mencapai tujuan utama perkahwinan. Sex juga dpt mengeratkan hubungan suami isteri. Dalam Islam sgt menitikberatkan layanan isteri terhadap suami..dan bagaimana seorg isteri dilaknat jika menolak permintaan suami nya. Lalu...there you goes how important it is. So I don't see what is wrong for guy to get married because he wanted to have sex with the one he love. But he damn idiot if he married just because of sex. Do you think it easy to get married???. Baik you bayar fifty buck go find whore and have sex. Tak payah la kumpul duit thousands2 …..So I don't see what is so keji for a guy who get married because he wanted to make love with his love one cum having sex...at least he married the girl. My point is... lelaki kahwin kerana sex boleh dilihat dr pelbagai sudut. My opinion If the guy married the girl because he was thinking about sex, I believe that wasn’t just that. As Muslim bagus jugak kan lelaki kahwin kerana sex BECAUSE at least he kahwin dulu…. (Fuhhh believe me I feel like I’m defending someone…. But I’m not, maybe too many law movie… and law books) Well …Adanama I’m sorry if you don’t agree with me.. It’s just you seems so angry with the statement. Do see and think anything both positive and negative side. But I do agree with your point. Sebenar nye whatever we wanna do do it ‘ Lillahi taala’. Insya Allah selamat dunia akhirat. As for girl get married for celebration …. Ala biase la I think sume org bile nak kahwin nak macam tu macam ni. I do doubt so much girls get married because of celebration. Ade ke kaum perempuan yg idiot camtu. Katalah die tak suke lelaki tu, let say she knows the guy is BAD, but she desperately nak rase camna celebration kahwin so she married je that guy. Ade ke antara korang2 nih se’idiot’ tu. I saw the sentence tu pun aku rase nak gelak because ade org fikir camtu ke atau buat remarks camtu. Shame of that person la… Apa yg aku tahu perempuan mostly inginkan perkahwinan to feel safe & secure… to love and to be loved. To be good wife and to be great mom….. And most of us get married because……………….. (you answer it, because the answer is yours….) Whatever the answer is at least kita mendirikan satu lagi masjid dan mendapat pahala kerana mengamalkan sunnah rasullullah….. Akhirkata, yg baik tu datang dari Allah dan yang buruk itu adalah kesilapan saya sendiri….