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Date Posted: 09:07:39 04/06/17 Thu
Author: Rennie
Subject: Re: spanked husbands
In reply to: jane 's message, "Re: spanked husbands" on 03:30:22 04/01/17 Sat

>>Anne there are a lot of men who are in your husbands
>position. No doubt the reasons may be varied but they
>can not stop their wife chastising them if she chooses
>to do so.
>They could leave but accept their wife's authority
>over them, behave themselves, and make good husbands.
>A wife has to really abuse her authority to make them
>do that.
>My husband has a very low pain threshold.I pull his
>pants down and he is in tears by the time he is across
>my knee.That does not get him out of it. He gets a
>good hiding if he breaks my rules so he does his best
>not to do so.
>The arrogance you mention was a cloak to hide his
>vulnerability in Eric's case too. It upset my women
>friends as it did your neighbours.They have discovered
>I spank him and reacted much as yours did.
>I don't know if they told their husbands.
>I enjoy being the boss and making the decisions. The
>children are a problem .Once I discovered the
>situation I too realised if I lost my temper I would
>wind up slapping him into line.I therefore gave him
>rules that made it clear my decisions were final and
>if he was cheeky or disobedient he would get a good
>hiding.I then set about the task with avengeance
>ensuring he dare not think about misbehaving by the
>time we had children.
>Now he does not dare misbehave. He gets a reminder
>spanking once a month and doesnt need punishing more
>than once or twice a year.The children do not know and
>the neighbours probaly think his discipline is a thing
>of the past.
>Jane

I have to say, Jane, I'm very envious of your husband. I grew up without ever getting the spankings I deserved. My mum and my oldest sister were my disciplinarians, but while they would sometimes threaten to spank, I was invariably punished by the withdrawal of their affection.

I somehow always felt I would've responded well to bare bottom spankings over the lap of female authority. I was a shy, sensitive boy with a solid, compact build and a round, jiggly bottom just right for over-the-knee warming and reddening. I have an idea your husband might've shared my increasing frustration, to the point where I began secretly paddling and strapping my bare backside at age 13. The simple fact of the matter was that I needed to be spanked. I especially needed to submit my naughty bottom to traditional female correction, and failing that, it was left to me to fend for myself.

Having spanked myself all through my teens and most of my twenties, I got married when I was 28. My wife had been wanting to meet a man with a cute bum, but she certainly hadn't anticipated his craving for having it paddled. To her credit, she did her best to accommodate my submissive passion. Playful paddlings across her lap became a regular feature of our foreplay.

Unfortunately, disciplining me with spankings was more than she could manage. She very likely could've had that authority over me, especially given my inherent belief that I was born to be spanked. But even though I'd finally made the pants-down acquaintance of a female lap, it never evolved to my bottom being soundly spanked at her disciplinary discretion. When she divorced me after 13 years together, she cited spanking as one of her reasons.

I'm wondering if your husband was maternally spanked as a boy. I honestly can't imagine I would've ever given my mum or my sister any real resistance to my bottom being bared and turned up on their lap. That's not to say that I wouldn't have feared the painful helplessness of a good bare bottom spanking. It's just that I somehow knew I would've had to invent spanking if it hadn't already existed.

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