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Date Posted: 03:55:19 06/11/17 Sun
Author: janet (B2Fj)
Subject: spanking your husband makes him yours
In reply to: Anne 's message, "spanked husbands" on 05:22:52 03/29/17 Wed

>My husband dreads being spanked.He has a mental block
>that renders him unable to defend himself against
>women.I do not know if this is rare or not. His
>parents drummed into him that he could not fight or
>hit girls for some reason. That created a
>psychological barrier rendering him incapable of doing
>so.
>I am a bit of a perfectionist and like things done my
>way. I also have a hot temper. I discovered he
>cowered away if I was a bit aggressive to him.
>I got psychological advice. The reality was he had
>this mental barrier rendering him defenceless against
>me and it could not be removed.
>At first I tried to restrain my determination to get
>my own way and my temper. It didn't work. I decided to
>lay down some rules and instead of lashing out to
>spank and ultimately cane him if his behaviour and
>attitude were not satisfactory.
>It worked not just for me but also socially and at
>work. He had been overly arrogant and snooty with
>people for some reason. I put a stop to that.
>I live in a cul de sac of semi detached houses.
>Innevitably my neighbour heard him being punished
>despite my efforts to avoid that. She came round and
>saw me spanking him through the kitchen window one
>afternoon I told her the situation and that I had to
>sort out his intolerable attitude to everyone. She
>said all power to my elbow and it was long overdue.
>The gossip got around and her attitude was reflected
>by almost everyone.He hardly ever gets punished now.
>Our marriage is transformed and I am the boss.

My name is janet and I know my husband belongs to me and he knows it too. The fact that I spank him is proof of it.He dreads being spanked but he dreads my rejection more. I pull his pants down and spank him every sunday afternoon. He is in tears before his pants are down because he has a very low pain threshold. A good hand spanking is ebough to remind him I am the boss and my word is law to him.. If he misbehaves the hiding is far more severe, involving the strap or the cane if cheek or disobedience is involved. That hardly ever happens but I do not let him go six months without a proper pre=emptive punishment hiding to maintain that deterrent..
He knows he belongs to me and apart from the dreaded maintenance and reminders he will be loved and cherished if he behaves and he has clear rules to keep him out of trouble. I know I am in control of our lives and can shape them as I choose.
If more women realised that a well disciplined husband is the key to both a loving relationship and complete personal freedom in their own and family matters. More men would have very sore bottoms.
Of course in the time before children discipline has to be strict enough to ingrnain good behaviour and minimise the need for his discipline whne they arrive.

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