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Subject: Re: Monitoring boys shower activities

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Date Posted: 20:01:58 10/26/17 Thu
In reply to: Daniel 's message, "Re: Monitoring boys shower activities" on 22:01:35 10/08/17 Sun

" ... It is equally important that young girls see and be familiar with male genitalia as they grow up...."

I recntly made a trip with my daughter and three of her five children, three young ladies ages about 17, 20 and 21. When they were younger they lived with my wife and I while my daughter shed the worthless POS sperm donor and got her life together. When I was healthy I often swam in our pool, as did my wife., and occasionally with some of our local friends, au natural.
We made no fuss about hiding that from the girls, or their two brothers and for at least part of the time they did so as well. By the time they reached ten or eleven they discovered a sense of modesty probably from the schools.
We did not walk around naked when out of the pool but usually I wrapped a piece of cloth around my waist, the ends tucked together at my belly. My wife usually wore a white cotton robe and guests wrapped in towels as well, till it might be time to get showered and dressed. Most used the bathroom shower, but I had a shower head and drain hooked up in the yard near the pool. Besides after swimming, I used it when I came home from work on hot days of which there were many.
So the accent was on the "natural" part and in the normal course if events the girls saw my wife and I as well as several other adults completely naked, partly naked and at times when we sat around and the wrappings were somewhat askew, whatever became exposed.
So on this recent trip helping their grampa get dressed, or applying ointments before bandaging some small wounds, was no reason for shock. The only person who might have been shocked at exposed boy parts was Ellen, one of the girl's friends. When it was appropriate one of them would ask if I wanted to change clothes and replace the bandages, and if so, we'd go into a bedroom where I could lie down and things were done regardless of whether my poor old shrunken peepee was stickinbg out or not. At first, Ellen had avoided poking her head into the room but eventually she came into the bedroom and watched. I noticed her expression at first, which seemed to imply that she was not really seeing this, but as the weeks wore on, the procedure became routine.
Then during the trip we missed a connection and had to take a single room one night. It had two double be4ds, a recliner and a small couch. The next morning as e prepared to depart, they did what we all had to do, which meant a certain amount of pantie and bra exposure as well as me moving from the recliner to one of the beds where I lay completely nude in full view while they walked around and got me ready for the long ride. One thing that was interesting was after the trip when we got back to my daughter's house the friend began to do some of my washing, applying the ointments and bandages. All acceopted as simpkly the natural order of things to do.
Girls should learn to handle such things from helping or supervising their brother or a male cousin, as well as their father. If done right, it is not all that sexual.

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