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Date Posted: 12:47:20 10/28/14 Tue
Author: JoeR to Bob
Subject: Re: Introducing Myself
In reply to: Bob 's message, "Introducing Myself" on 07:35:37 10/27/14 Mon

>Hello,
>
>
>I saw your forum announcement on another forum. I have
>never posted there because of the extreme posts of
>discipline, which in these anti-spanking times seem
>strange to say the least. My son John, who just turned
>9, has always been advanced in his school work. He
>learns at a much faster pace than most other children
>his own age, and has already skipped a grade. However,
>there is also a big drawback to this in that he also
>at times displays bad behavior, especially extreme
>rudeness and disrespect to him mom, mostly when I'm at
>work and not around. The doctors say that this is not
>uncommon in children (especially boys) who are a
>little advanced in certain areas.
>
>The doctors suggested that we put him on Ritalin.
>However, my wife and I are totally against giving
>these types of medications to children. For a long
>time I had wanted to spank, but my wife was always
>against spanking (her family was anti-spanking, mine
>was extremely pro-spanking). However, about a year ago
>things changed. Bedtime was always a struggle because
>John never listened when his mom called out "lights
>out". He always ignore her and remained up for a while
>longer. So that evening at bedtime after John yelled
>something fresh at his mom when she told him "lights
>out", he received the surprise of his young life, as I
>had finally had enough of his mouth. I calmly walked
>into his room, grabbed hold of him, sat down on the
>side of his bed turning him across my lap, peeled down
>his PJ bottoms just enough to bare the target area,
>and administered a sound hand spanking! Despite his
>crying and carrying on, I knew that this first
>spanking needed to make a real impression, so I really
>laid on a good tanning, slowly and firmly. Afterwards,
>I brought him in to apologize to his mother, and they
>hugged, he then went straight to bed. A while later my
>wife wanted to go and check on him, but I wouldn't let
>her. Had she found him still awake she might have
>fussed over him and cuddled him, which might have
>defeated the whole spanking. John needed to know from
>the start that my wife and I are on the same side in
>this matter. After that night, lights out meant lights
>out, without any further nonsense!
>
>
>Since that time John has been over my knee as often as
>he has needed it. My wife too has come a long way.
>While at first she didn't always tell me about John's
>bad behavior, now she most certainly does. And while
>she's still not able to spank John herself (Rome
>wasn't built in a day), she now uses the 'S' word
>fluently when John acts up, such as "Cut it out, or
>I'll tell your dad to spank you tonight".
>
>
>While John still has a long way to go, his overall
>behavior has improved quite a bit, and no Ritalin
>required, only a good old-fashioned red bottom! It
>really works wonders! LOL!
>
>Bob

SOUNDS LIKE IT WORKED WELL FOR JOHN. IF STARTED AT AGE 9, UNTIL WHAT AGE DO YOU RECALL IT STILL EFFECTIVE? CERTAINLY BETTER METHOD THAN MEDS.

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Re: Introducing Myself -- Bob to JoeR, 18:18:31 10/28/14 Tue