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Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Missy (Missy to Elsie) [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 04:43:45 12/22/25 Mon In reply to: Elsie 's message, "Re: Another spanking" on 03:03:54 12/22/25 Mon Hi Elsie, Did you do something else or are you having second thoughts about asking for spankings? Missy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Moses [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:01:44 12/28/25 Sun I am new here, and I hope that I am not being too forward. I would like to ask, what do you hope to get out of these spankings? Are you just satisfying a long standing fixation and curiosity? Is it for sexual arousal? Is it for getting closer to your mom? Is it for accountability and structure? Is it for motivation? I perceive hints of a lot of these things, but I am curious how you would describe it. I also have a fascination with spanking, but have not done anything with it. I don't know if it is a good idea or a bad idea. Either way, I loved reading through your account. Whatever happens, I wish you and your mom the best. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Elsie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:53:01 12/29/25 Mon You asked Are you just satisfying a long standing fixation and curiosity? Is it for sexual arousal? Is it for getting closer to your mom? Is it for accountability and structure? Is it for motivation?" I do get aroused by spanking, but mainly other people getting spanked. Now that I really know what it's like to get spanked by my mom I do find it's a relief to, um, you know. I mean there is this strange sort of arousal, but it has nothing to do with my mom and I don't want to get spanked now that I know what it's like. I do still have fantasies about getting spanked by a boss, teacher, boyfriend or girlfriend or something. I really like the student renter posts and Emmie Sue's posts and I think about myself in their position. "Are you just satisfying a long standing fixation and curiosity? Is it for getting closer to your mom? Is it for accountability and structure? Is it for motivation?" All of the above. And since this started strangely I do feel a lot closer and more open to my mom. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Another spanking Author: Moses (to Elsie) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:52:04 12/29/25 Mon I think it is important to remember that you initiated this with your mom for your own benefit. If you find the spankings are too frequent or too intense it is okay yo talk to your mom after and ask her to tone it down. If you think the rules are too strict or being enforced too strictly it is okay to talk your mom about changing them (BEFORE breaking them, as being able to talk your way out of an earned spanking ruins the vibe). I have read a lot of the Domestic Discipline Blogs. A consistent theme in all of them is how critical communication is. It seems like you are a shy and anxious person that has issues with communicating directly. I know a once Domestic Discipline family. Needless to say a combination of paranoia, failure to communicate, and getting carried away turned the whole thing into a fiasco leading to a lot of hurt feelings and damaged trust within both the family and their immediate community. There is a lot of reading I would recommend for you, and recommend you have your mother read as well. There is a 54 pg. instructional PDF called "Beginning Domestic Discipline" that, while directed at romantic life partners, offers a lot of information relevant to you as well. There was also a blog back in the day called "Discipline and the Modern Miss" that was directly analogous to your situation. The page "Disciplinarians Corner" was written from the perspective of the mom, and was very interesting. This blog no longer exists, but it should still be findable on Internet Archive. If not I have it downloaded and saved. Lastly, I would suggest your ask your Mom to join the forum. We would love to hear from her. It sounds like she is embracing all this, so I think she would enjoy it here as well. Sorry if this is too long, or seems preachy, or is ruining the vibe. I just want you to be safe, and I want you to succeed. I don't know if this is actually a good idea or not. Only time will tell. Will be excited for new updates. This is the most gripping story I have heard in a very long time from the spanking community. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]