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Subject: Re:Aagain Author: CaringThroughAction [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:23:22 12/30/25 Tue In reply to: Elsie 's message, "Re:Aagain" on 14:42:09 12/29/25 Mon I think Marla and Para pretty much nailed it. There was a dynamic before your Mom started spanking you. That has changed and now you are adjusting to the change by testing the waters. I too do not think your Mom was being weird. She handled it well. Shuffling into the kitchen with your pants down to get the paddle was probably an act of humility. As far as pushing and testing limits, that's probably true and part of the shifting dynamic. We have a new year coming up. I wish you luck Elsie in keeping yourself out of trouble. That is all on you. I believe that if you think about your actions before taking them, it will help. The curfew issue was preventable, but the prior way of thinking probably allowed you to self-justify the hour late arrival at home. Thing to remember is that you are not a mistake, just a work in progress and there will come a time when the paddle in the kitchen will start collecting dust. Thinking precedes actions, and all actions we take have consequences. We of course want good consequences ideally. Which goes back to good thinking. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:30:51 12/30/25 Tue You asked for a domestic discipline relationship with your mom. You surrendered to her authority and judgment. Now you either really don't like how she is exploiting that power, or you want to be treated this way and to share your adventures as a victim. The way you describe things, it sounds like you are into it but, if not, then what keeps you from telling your mother you will no longer be submitting to her unreasonable demands? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Marla to Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:37:55 12/30/25 Tue Whatever! I find your messages have a "know it all" flavor. You overthink things a lot. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:26:59 12/30/25 Tue Maybe everyone here is overthinking it. But I'm an analytical type. Whether a story is fact or fiction, I try to understand the thinking behind it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re:Aagain Author: Marly to Brett [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:31:54 12/30/25 Tue No, you cop a superior holier than thou attitude that's not helpful. Para and Caring through Action both nailed it. You tried to prove you are smarter and above it all. And it's not the first time -- its what you do. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]