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Subject: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 12:38:51 12/19/20 Sat In reply to: Rental Mom 's message, "Leah's Spanking" on 04:52:22 12/19/20 Sat Hi Rental Mom, In your post above you said, "I am ashamed to admit this and I don't know what got into me, but she by this time was kicking so wildly and almost kicked me in the face, without even thinking and I have never done anything like this before and as if it was out of my control I pushed my finger up her butt until she could calm down and lectured her. I know that was wrong and I am ashamed and embarrassed by it. It worked however." I think, like the spanking itself, this was something between two consenting adults --- no indication Leah objected then, or since. Did Leah, or Amanda say anything about this afterwards? You say 'it worked however,' and it might set your mind at ease to talk to both Leah and Amanda about it, note it worked, and say it may be needed again and if so do either of them have anything to say about it? Will they accept if you deem necessary? If they agree I don't think you have any cause to be ashamed, or embarrassed, about what happened with Leah. However, while the apparent consent of Leah to be physically punished by you. her cooperation, may not meet the standard bodack thinks it does I think you were skating close to the edge and the discussion I've suggested above would be good to have. Mindy P.S. I hope this doesn't lead to diverting this thread. Rental Mom's shame and embarrassment and bodack's comment seemed to me to need some balm in the case of Rental Mom and an alternative take in the case of bodack. Now that bodack and I have had our say hopefully we can leave the propriety, or not, of what happened and move on to either Rental Mom responding to talking to Leah and Amanda, if she likes that idea, or back to discussion of the spankings at her house. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Rental Mom [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:07:18 12/20/20 Sun Thank you Mindy for setting my mind a little at ease. Neither have said anything about it. I know the girls talk. Amanda is very open and doesn't hesitate to speak her mind or speak up for others. I'm pretty sure if Leah was offended or felt violated by it she would have told Amanda. I'm not sure if Leah would speak up, but I'm certain if she would have complained to Amanda I would have heard about it by now. I'm not excusing it, but so far it doesn't seem to be an issue. Maybe the best thing to do at this point is just to let it go. I don't know, I feel more comfortable talking to Amanda one on one so I may ask her. Again, that's not something I would ever had done, not something I had ever intended to do. It may just have been that in my subconscious I remembered reading that someone had done that to calm their punishee down. I don't remember who on here said that, but after the fact I recall reading that. It might be best just to let it go at that. Thank you again Mindy for your comfort and perspective. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:35:11 12/20/20 Sun Hello Rental Mom, You are in a far better position to know what should, shouldn't be said to Leah or Amanda about the insertion. I'm still of the opinion though it is not a case of letting sleeping dogs like so much as something that is better dealt with than not. I'd approach it in a totally positive way and likely with Amanda. In private with her my conversation would be something like, "Amanda, while there's just the two of us I want to talk to you about the spanking I gave Leah. She was kicking so hard I poked her in her bottom to settle her down. I'd heard, or read once that this was a good way to get someone's attention and settle them down. I think you'd agree it worked with Leah. I've been thinking that if necessary it might be something I'd apply when spanking you. I'd like to get your thoughts on it. Do you think a bottom poke might get your attention and help you settle down if you needed settling down while I'm spanking?" I think this sort of conversation, not suggesting anything necessarily wrong with the poke you gave Leah, but still putting it on the table and asking Amanda for her thoughts, will, I expect, further set your mind at ease. If you do speak to Amanda I hope you'll report on how the conversation goes. Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Maddie Christmas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:02:46 12/20/20 Sun You are so smart Miss Mindy. I think what you suggested is perfect. Because if she makes it sound like she's ashamed it will sound bad. Do you think that if Leah was pissed about it and complained to Amanda that she would say something? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:07:41 12/20/20 Sun Impossible for me to say, Maddie ... we'll have to wait and see what, if anything, Rental Mom does from here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Insert ... issue or not? ... Re: Leah's Spanking Author: Sue (UK) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:44:16 07/11/21 Sun I'm assuming the reason Leah calmed down when she's had a finger up her mudchute for a minute or two was delayed-shock at the loss-of-bodily-autonomy implications of what had just happened. It would have made more sense as a punishment if her mum's finger was slicked with soap, or dipped in liquid glycerin, or some substance that would impel Leah to expel some "evil". Btw: We shouldn't flatter the far-right infiltrators on this page, the ones who equate it with rape, by arguing with them, pretending they can even be communicated with. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]