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Subject: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Claudette [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 07:04:45 09/10/25 Wed Belt spankings from mother stopped at 14; since then and as an adult in mid twenties, I have had periods of time, sometimes months, when I never thought about being spanked. Then it would come into my mind. It was there. My boyfriend is sympathetic but spanking each other doesn't interest us. My need is occasional punishment or role play with another woman. My days of professional sports are over and I was always against the sexualisation of women in tennis gear, athletic outfits or soccer gear. I work as an accountant and financial advisor now with a Korean woman and we have dabbled. I am tall and athletic, she is 5-3 and slim. I am in a spell of interest and she has suggested caning me if I don't make as much as her from Crypto. She's a genius in that so it's a given. Has anyone else been in a similar situation with this urge to be punished which only comes along every few months Should I go with her suggestion and bend panties down for the cane? Not had it before. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Lurker [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:38:21 09/10/25 Wed You said that you and this other woman have "dabbled." What do you mean? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Claudette [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:01:52 09/10/25 Wed Details in a recent post re Anaïs NIN and horsewhips [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:53:22 09/10/25 Wed Claudette, you she are legal adults and can enter into a consensual disciplinary relationship. If you feel the need and she is willing to provide a "service" shall we say, nothing wrong with that at all. Go for it. You are not the only mid-twenties adult female who has periodic thoughts about being disciplined again. I have spoken with several online and a few in RL who do (once getting past the initial clumsiness of that conversation). [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Claudette [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:54:37 09/14/25 Sun I've put things on hold. This is mainly through the transparency of the scenario and I don't feel it's plausible enough; or perhaps I'm just re-entering a period where spanking doesn't interest me. It will doubtless return to burn. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:13:00 09/17/25 Wed Yes, good decision if you are not ready for that. Maybe you will later, maybe it will fade away. Perhaps there might be some apprehension there too. Good luck to you either way! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Pat [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:06:58 09/14/25 Sun You can do it, ask her! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Alison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:38:43 09/15/25 Mon I know once i left my mom and stepdads house, my first thought "i am glad i wont be punished any more" - but a year in to college, rooming with a female volleyball player, tall, amazing, she took more control and showed me ways to please her, and at times, would take me over her lap. By my last two years, punishment would help clear my head, make me feel more comfortable in my submission - especially when at times she would use a heavy hairbrush or at times a paddle. Now as an adult, working, i find i have gravitated towards a dominant co worker who also at times, tells me i need a firm hand.. I dont think, once the mental side and sensations are ingrained, that we ever fully get away from it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Claudette [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:13:25 10/07/25 Tue Yesterday I felt the time was right and having been told by my Korean boss how she was caned at school and subsequently at home I felt that a reenactment with me on the receiving end would take me to an interesting but scary place. The school punishment 25 years ago had been four across a school skirt and the home punishment six on the bare bottom. A stern ticking off was followed by me being required to place my hand on my head and turn round standing straight. The noise of contact was unexpected and the pain moderate to nasty stinging. Although I've been strapped before I wasn't prepared for the dreadful immediacy of the cane on my exposed buttocks. I was instructed to take off my skirt and step out of my panties and lean forward against the wall. After two stinging cuts, I was ready to quit but it's a punishment, you can't. The next four were unbelievable and my first thought, never again. The worst was number five which landed just where three had connected. In Korean style no hugs just a shout if get out of my sight before I give you more. Today the aftermath is unpleasant the pain doth remain and the mirror tells a tell of its own. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Ross [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:04:25 10/07/25 Tue > The next four were unbelievable and my first thought, never again ...and that, in a nutshell, is why the cane works. The whole point of discipline is to inspire you to say to yourself "never again." [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Lessja [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:46:24 10/07/25 Tue Amazing experience. Well done! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Uncomfortable both ways? Author: Claudette [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:46:32 10/07/25 Tue Thank you Lessja Appreciate your care but Ross in his unsympathetic vibe can do one Boyfriend is applying loving cold and anti bruise cream as I type. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]