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 CarlaH
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Date Posted: 10:06:30 11/06/22 Sun
I've seen your post here with only one answer so thought I would chime in. I don't think there is anything 'nuts' about it at all. I'm married to a wonderful guy and we are approaching our mid 20s.
We both have an avid interest in spanking, but I wouldn't say either of us are the HOH. I was the first to actually use spanking for discipline in our home. Dan came home with a speeding ticket, which worried me enough, but then he bragged how he was going much faster and the patrolman dropped it down to only 19 mph over the legal limit so he wouldn't lose his license.
I was already steaming and walked up to him and slammed my fist into his chest, telling him how stupid he was and then I broke down crying because if anything had happened he wouldn't be here to brag about getting off easier than he could have. Then he started crying because he never thought about me thinking the worst and hurting so much at the thought of losing him. When I finally got myself together I said, "A fine isn't enough, I'm going to beat your ass so bad for this! Anything could have happened and going that fast it might be too late to avoid."
He felt pretty guilty so submitted to one hell of a butt whipping from me. To reinforce the spanking no sex for a week too. I mean if we'd hoped right in the bed after it would be like a reward and he didn't deserve one.
Turnabout is fair play, so they say. He had a tracking app on his phone and sent me a text and I was driving on the interstate through town with lots of traffic. I answered it and he knew I was driving and where I was. That evening it was my turn. He too had some tears in his eyes when he told me that he knew I was driving and texting. 'Anything could have happened and you would not have seen it coming.' No way I could argue with that, not after the whipping I have his ass, so my butt was sore for the next few days. I waited a couple of days, kissed him and tried to touch him, he backed away and said 'Oh, no, you are still being punished. So I had to stay on my side of the bed and wait the full 5 days too.
We roleplay discipline scenarios all the time, but punishment is different. I think it is all about the guilt you feel for really hurting someone you love. Spanking cleanses the conscience and cutting off the sex reinforces the punishment overall. Like I mentioned earlier, I believe, hopping in bed right after the spanking is a reward and your keen little mind says 'hmm, maybe I should do that again.' lol Ok enough.
I'm glad you found someone. I'm not one to beat around the bush. I get to the kissy, cuddly stage with a guy, I just come out and ask him what he thinks about spanking. 'Uh, not into that.' Goodbye, 'oh yeah baby, I'll slap your ass.' Not there yet, goodbye. Dan was different, willing to discuss his, our fantasies and we both shared similar ones so I latched on to him.
Not that we share all interests, he loves guns and I hated them, but I took a deep breath and went to the range with him and it was fun! Now I'm a shooting enthusiast too. Not like him, he gets an erection when he sees a new gun and a full box of ammo, but it is exciting, I'll admit. lol And in turn he goes to the theater with me on occasion. He can't have fun all the time, can he?
Life is to short to go through it in short sighted mediocrity.
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