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Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate


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Date Posted: 08:37:26 12/30/22 Fri
In reply to: Clair 's message, "Re: I'm going to spank my roommate" on 18:52:06 12/29/22 Thu

It doesn't sound terrible. Given that you actually like and care about her, then having fun with this sounds great, and more than that, appropriate; it's also great fun to read. You're doing a good job setting the scene and getting her in the right headspace, namely vulnerable to you.

I don't think you would be having as much fun either if it was only about the physical sensations for either one of you. She's responsive on a different level.

Another step you could take in this direction is to go ahead and buy a long handled hairbrush and just leave it on a dresser in your room for her to notice the next time she enters your space.

It's too bad that you aren't a huggy person. It can be easier sometimes to get people to talk at length about things that embarrass them when there's physical contact. If she looks like she wants contact when she's on the couch watching TV and you don't find it distasteful then it could be an opportunity.

It sounds like you've never heard her say the word 'spanking'. It must have been fun watching her avoid saying it last night. Your casual use of the word will amplify her own feelings around the word. It might be a while before another opportunity comes around but when it does, I wouldn't be able to resist teasing her about her use or non-use of the word. If she does finally say it I would point out how her pronunciation marked out the word, even if there was only a slight pause. And if she doesn't say it when it's the right word for the context, then I would point that out with an inquisitive look, assuming I could prevent a smile.

You have a lot of opportunities here to expose her in the ways she wants to be seen, that is her need to be held accountable. I wonder how she would react if you were to call her to come where you are and then be told to pick up after herself in the bathroom or the kitchen, "Do it now, please.". Or hearing her thoughts about how she was raised. Was she spoiled?

The funniest part of it all is that she's thinking about all this twice as much as you are. You after all are purposeful, she's hanging in the wind.

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Date Posted: 16:38:03 12/30/22 Fri

I'm not really a huggy person like when people come up and hug you, but I think I might have mentioned this, sometimes when she's upset or something I hold her.

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Date Posted: 16:39:08 12/30/22 Fri

Also, I have looked on line for a good spanking hairbrush, not that I would ever use it.

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