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Subject: My rules for spanking children over the knee! 🥰🥰🥰 Author: Lucy to everyone! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 05:57:00 01/27/23 Fri Hi everyone! 😘😘😘 I stopped spanking my precious kids a while ago but I am going to list some rules I went by when spanking and how I use to spank my precious girls! 🤗🤗🤗 I never spanked my precious son cause he is disabled and has severe autism and is non verbal so he wouldn't really understand why mommy was spanking him! 🤗🤗🤗 I have very mild autism myself and I am a big kid at heart so I have a very big soft spot for children! 💖💖💖 I LOVE kids they are a heavenly treasure! 😇😇😇 First and this is VERY important! 😤😤😤 Communications ALWAYS comes before punishment! 😇😇😇 That means you sit the precious child down (when you are calm) and you explain to the precious child why they did wrong and why it was a naughty thing to do! If the precious child doesn't understand then you shouldn't be spanking the child for this unless they understand why they are being punished! 🤗🤗🤗 Always talk gently and calmly explaining in a very loving manner why they are being punished and maybe give the precious child an occasional kiss and hug them if they want! 🤗🤗🤗 Tell them you are sorry you need to punish them and that you love them more than all the world! 💖💖💖 Try not to talk stern and instead talk gentle in a soft caring voice! 🤗🤗🤗 Next the precious child needs to undress below the waist! Bare bottom, bare legs and bare feet and this is for safety because first you can see how pink their bottom is getting during the spanking so you know exactly when to stop spanking and second if the precious child does a little dance afterwards while crying clothes at the ankles are extremely dangerous as the precious child could trip and no parent should ever want their precious child to hurt themselves! 😤😤😤 You can also slip in socks so bare below the waist is best for a spanking! 🤗🤗🤗 Next tell the precious child to go and get a favourite toy like a doll or teddy to hold onto as if we spank our precious kids with love then surely a little extra comfort is a loving thing to do and then gently bend the precious child over your knee on the sofa! 🥰🥰🥰 Then gently stroke the precious child's hair and tell them you love them and tell them to cuddle their teddy/doll tight and then ask them gently "honey are you ready sweetie" and then start spanking! 😇😇😇 I personally think long mild spankings is less cruel than short hard spankings! I NEVER spanked hard and I think spanking too hard is child abuse! 🤬🤬🤬 Instead I would give around 20 with my hand and 30-50 with my hairbrush or Disney flip flop but never hard and I would spank fast using a rabid quick rhythm of quick mild spanks! 😇😇😇 Try to talk extremely softly and gently during the spanking saying things like "I know it hurts sweetie, mommy loves you, hold your teddy tight, it'll be over soon sweetheart" and do not stop cause of crying as tears are proof of repentance but NEVER NEVER NEVER leave marks such as welts or bruises cause that is horrible child abuse! 😭😭😭 Afterwards wrap your arms around your precious child and gently wipe their tears with your hand or a tissue and let them sob and cry in your arms as you hug and comfort them! 🤗🤗🤗 Give them lots of kisses and loving affection and reassure them they are forgiven and loved forever! 🤗🤗🤗 The reassurance is VERY important as I believe forgiveness is extremely important so let the precious child know for sure you forgive them and love them dearly! 🤗🤗🤗 Make sure to comfort the precious child with hugs and cuddles! 😇😇😇 I HATE the cruel idea of spanking with no hugs or comfort or reassurance afterwards! 😭😭😭 That to me is very unloving and cruel and all precious children need a big warm and affectionate hug after each spanking along with an increase of attention afterwards! 🥰🥰🥰 I am strongly against after spanking corner time and find that cruel! 😭😭😭 Then let the precious child play again with no extra punishment! 🤗🤗🤗 I use to make my precious girls a cup of hot chocolate with cream and marshmallows after a spanking and big long hug! 🤗🤗🤗 We would cuddle and talk for a good 10-30 minutes on the sofa after the spanking! 🤗🤗🤗 My precious girls would get dressed when I made the hot chocolate! 🥰🥰🥰 That Is how I use to spank my precious girls! 🤗🤗🤗 God bless! Your friend forever Lucy! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: To Pamela Jane! 🥰🥰🥰 Author: Lucy to Pamela Jane! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:41:45 01/27/23 Fri Hi sweetheart! 😘😘😘 I hope we can talk again soon! 🤗🤗🤗 I miss you! 😘😘😘 God bless! Your friend forever Lucy! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: To BerryBlue! 🥰🥰🥰 Author: Lucy to BerryBlue! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:09:29 01/27/23 Fri Hi BerryBlue my friend! 😘😘😘 I sm not pro spanking anymore but this post is how I use to spank! 🤗🤗🤗 My lovely Swedish neighbour is part of the reason I stopped being pro spanking! 🤗🤗🤗 God bless! Your friend forever Lucy! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: To BerryBlue! 🥰🥰🥰 Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:03:15 01/27/23 Fri Oh, what part did your neighbor have in transitioning you from spanking? How has not spanking worked out between you and your daughter's? Is their behavior better, worse, or more or less the same? The way you use to spank sounds really firm but sweet. Allowing a stuffy is adorable, yet comforting. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: To BerryBlue! 🥰🥰🥰 Author: Lucy to BerryBlue! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:39:17 01/28/23 Sat Hi BerryBlue my friend! 😘😘😘 My neighbour is from Sweden and lives in the United states cause her husband is from here! 🤗🤗🤗 In Sweden spanking is actually illegal so my neighbour is extremely anti spanking and she gets upset even seeing a toddler get a single swat over a clothed bottom in the store cause she says if that happened in Sweden someone would call the police! 😬😬😬 So she kept emailing me anti spanking articles for me to read and to be completely honest I found most pro spanking parents WAY too strict and I am not strict at all so that is a second reason why I stopped spanking! 🤗🤗🤗 I sometimes think I may of kept being pro spanking if I met some pro spanking parents who were not crazy strict! 🙄🙄🙄 I have mild autism and I am a little bit like a child myself so I relate to kids a lot and I absolutely love children so I do not believe in being too hard on them! 🤗🤗🤗 I raise my precious kids with empathy and compassion and I believe teaching compassion for others is more important than just teaching respect as then kids will not only respect authority but also have compassion for those they have authority over like smaller children or even like my precious son who is non verbal and is 15 years old but has the mind of a toddler! 🤗🤗🤗 My precious girls are super well behaved bless them! 🤗🤗🤗 My youngest is the most kindest child I know and she has mild autism just like me! 🥰🥰🥰 My middle child is the naughtiness but still very caring and compassionate to others! 🥰🥰🥰 My precious son is disabled so I never spanked him and he goes to a school that only accepts disabled children! He is an angel too! 🥰🥰🥰 Here is a video by my favourite autism advocate! 🤩🤩🤩 My youngest has mild autism and so do I and my precious son has quite severe autism so autism is a big part of our family especially cause I am diagnosed with autism as well! 🤗🤗🤗 https://youtu.be/Vju1EbVVgP8 God bless! Your friend forever Lucy! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: To BerryBlue! 🥰🥰🥰 Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:35:05 01/30/23 Mon Interesting, what made you pro spanking in the first place? It's good you didn't spank too often and are raising good empaths :) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My rules for spanking children over the knee! 🥰🥰🥰 Author: Maddie [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:58:05 01/28/23 Sat I don't understand. I haven't studied your posts, just kind of read through them, but on the one hand you say that children shouldn't be spanked, but then you give instructions on how a good parent should turn a child over their knees. I'm not bashing you or anything, but I'm confused. I am anti-spanking children, as I think most members of this forum are. After becoming a teacher my stance has softened a bit. I think there are rare instances when a kid or teen has left their parent or guardian no alternative but a good butt blistering and there are rare cases where the child or teen responds positively to spanking, but as part of the culture, I'm opposed. I don't think I'm in the minority on this forum. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: To Maddie! 🥰🥰🥰 Author: Lucy to Maddie! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:13:37 01/28/23 Sat Hi Maddie my friend! 😘😘😘 It is lovely to meet you! 🤗🤗🤗 I am definitely not pro spanking at all anymore but I use to be pro spanking and I made some special friends on these forums and a few days ago on another one of these forums someone asked me to repost how I use to spank so I decided to repost it as if parents are gonna spank I think it needs to be done as loving as possible! 🥰🥰🥰 I stopped spanking two years ago and even when I use to spank it happened on average twice or maybe at most three times a year! 🤗🤗🤗 I always believed being too hard on children is mean so I am not strict in the slightest and I actually have mild autism so I tend to have a soft spot for kids cause I act a little young at heart myself! 🤗🤗🤗 I am against spanking now and my precious will will definitely NOT be spanked ever again! I just wrote how I use to spank for a friend and reposted it here! 💖💖💖 God bless! Your friend forever Lucy! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]