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Subject: Play spanking vs. the real thing

Author:
Clair

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Date Posted: 05:20:13 01/31/23 Tue

Since grade school we played spanking games. I swear, any opportunity to slap a girls butt was taken advantage of. I got my butt slapped and I slapped a lot of butts and watched people slap each others butts. We sometimes played house or school and inevitably somebody got a spanking, just a couple of slaps, but still. It wasn't just in elementary school. Butts were slapped even in college. I don't know if it's just a girl thing or what.

That's play, but taking it to the next level and actually giving someone a spanking as punishment is a totally different thing. Of course in sex or foreplay or just us girls messing around there have been some spanking. Sometimes keeping your butt warm for a while. But a real, disciplinary spanking. I mean, how do you even approach that. I would think both people would have to be interested in spanking and receptive to it. If you get a spanking from a parent, you don't have much of a choice. I guess the goal is to correct behavior. But if you are into spanking, how can that change your behavior? Does even a spanko learn from a spanking and try to avoid another one or do they just misbehave to get the next one?

Your thoughts.

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[> Subject: Re: Play spanking vs. the real thing

Author:
Pina
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Date Posted: 09:44:37 02/11/23 Sat

Spankings can be widely different, the how and the context matters. I greatly enjoy a light to medium hard spanking, when my friend Nele and I fool around in bed. With a nice slow build-up and lots of caressing in between the slaps. Gets me hot an bothered in no time and always leads to great sex. But that is completely different from when my aunt gives me a hard disciplinary spanking because I broke one of her rules. There is nothing enjoyable about it, at least for me. There is no warmup, it hurts so much more and I’m in a totally different headspace to begin with. That’s why those spankings work well to keep me in line, although I might otherwise enjoy getting my bottom warmed.

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[> [> Subject: Re: Play spanking vs. the real thing
Author: Berryblue [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:18:31 02/11/23 Sat I agree with the headspace has to be right, also the pace of the swats depending on the offence. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]