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Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate


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Clair
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Date Posted: 07:54:41 02/06/23 Mon
In reply to: Clair 's message, "Re: I'm going to spank my roommate" on 07:52:48 02/06/23 Mon

Maybe she thinks I'm just a real bully and doesn't really like me but just has no other alternative right now. And maybe I actually am a bully. It bothers me.

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Wondering-supportive
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Date Posted: 11:06:15 02/06/23 Mon

Get over it. You rehearsed what you did so you would not come across as a bully - and you did not on any reasonable reading of what you did. You have nothing to be bothered about. Your roommate knows she is untidy and that she needs to do better and is responding appropriately to your gentle reminders to act accordingly.

Your next mission should you choose to accept it is to praise her for her tidy behavior and then be more insistent that she keep her room the same way and tell her there will be consequences if she fails to do so. You need not spell them out.Let her use her imagination. If she continues to be untidy she is not taking you serious and so inviting consequences. Start slow like before, a little corner time and perhaps a smack on the bottom when directing her there. I agree that you have an itch that needs to be scratched. Fantasy is enjoyment but that itch needs to be taken care of in real life.

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