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Date Posted: 10:31:44 02/10/23 Fri
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Excellent. It couldn't have gone any better. That was a bold approach, you avoided having an awkward conversation and getting her consent. A little risky, but all's well that ends well. And I'm sure you both like it better the way it played out with it being imposed upon her.
It was clear from your posts the last couple of weeks that Jayda's chastening was soon approaching. You've managed the whole thing really well. I do have to disagree with your comment on the rolled up jeans "...like it was a secret or something". Uh, yes it was, probably her biggest secret. Just you witnessing that, even without saying a word could be the event that brings on some change in hygiene. Maybe. It would certainly be of benefit to her if it was.
I have a couple of questions.
It sounds like you hand spanked her for the equivalent of about 10 minutes at a good pace. That's quite a bit. I'm surprised your hand didn't give out way before you were through with her. A lot of women wouldn't have the arm strength to swing hard that long, let alone a hard enough hand to handle the impact. Just curious, do you have an athletic background?
Did you spank her over her pants? If anything was taken down, was it done by you or her?
Munchausen's syndrome is where someone seeks medical attention for someone else, often falsifying the symptoms the other person has to make them appear more ill. You may be thinking of Stockholm syndrome. This isn't that. She does actually like you (she talks all the time and crawls into your bed), is into spanking (she watches videos and journals about it), wants someone who takes a leader role in her life (she asked for help with motivation) and could use some guidance (too much evidence to list). Her suffering from Stockholm syndrome isn't something you need to worry about.
That said, this was an intense experience for her and she is vulnerable to you. Continuing with the big sister (but who also disciplines) role is a good way to go. You can be affectionate, friendly and looking out for her without considering her an equal in authority. Given that she's staying in your place where you are paying most of the bills and since she has less demands on her time it would make sense for her to handle more of the chores. Talking about her taking on more of the chores would be an opportunity for her to open up about the spanking and how she feels about being disciplined. But assuming that she's willing to continue along with this just being how things are, and I would bet money that she is, then take on a little more authority. Don't clean up after her. If something needs to be done, have her do it when you notice it, right then. Slap her on the butt sometimes when you make a point. If you get underneath it and spank upwards, it doesn't have to be very hard for her to get the message that 'Clair means it'. Use the word spanking from time to time. As long as this is good for her - enjoy yourself.
The best part was the detail about the mom next door. It will be fun to watch her blush again should you choose to share that with her. How humbling.
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