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Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate Author: Gantard [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:36:18 02/27/23 Mon In reply to: Clair 's message, "Re: I'm going to spank my roommate" on 04:58:46 02/27/23 Mon Having asked you at least twice by what time she should return home, Jayda is implicitly asking you to provide more structure in her life. You should accommodate this desire and use spanking to ensure compliance with whatever rules help her have the structure that she craves. For example, establish reasonable curfews, tell Jayda that if she cannot meet a curfew, then she must call you before the deadline so that you do not worry about her (thereby showing that you care about her, which she will presumably appreciate) and she must offer a decent excuse for her lateness so the curfew is meaningful. Make it clear that a failure to comply with this simple rule will result in a need for you to communicate your displeasure through her bare bottom. Another example: stop allowing her to be sloppy in cleaning up not only her bedroom but also the kitchen and bathroom. Explain to her that shortfalls in cleaning puts an unfair burden on you and, again, makes it appropriate for you to communicate your displeasure through her bare bottom. Undoubtedly there are other subjects that should be addressed with fair rules. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:34:20 02/28/23 Tue That makes a lot of sense, in fact next time I will TELL her what time to be home. It just occurred to me that not only is it that, but it's also respectful to our neighbors to be home at a respectable hour. Sound travels, especially in the hall. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate Author: Gantard [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:09:19 02/28/23 Tue A further suggestion based on my assessment that Jayda is, if perhaps only subconsciously, seeking more structure in her life - schedule a weekly discussion about her behavior. (If the pizza night becomes customary, a good set time might be after the return home.) I have noticed from your comments that Jayda falls short in several areas but you are reluctant to call her to task (and therefore reluctant to spank her) because you view the shortfall considered in isolation as too modest to justify discipline. The advantage of a weekly discussion (with Jayda’s bare bottom already over your lap or Jayda standing before you in whatever state of dress you find appropriate) is that you can cumulate the violations to make a spanking appropriate and give Jayda an incentive to rectify her behavior across the board. You can increase or decrease use of the hairbrush in accordance with her overall behavior that week. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:40:15 03/01/23 Wed Although it's nice to think about, I don't think I'll be doing that. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate Author: Gantard [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:02:33 03/01/23 Wed I recognize your reticence, which permeates your postings. I would merely note that your reticence enables behavior falling well short of your standards of organization and cleanliness. If you take no action because a particular misbehavior (through act or omission) does not seem to rise to the level of justifying a spanking, then you cannot reasonably expect Jayda’s behavior to meet your reasonable standards. Remember the lecture recommended by Mork and Mindy - Jayda benefits from spankings. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I'm going to spank my roommate Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:22:01 03/02/23 Thu Yes, but not spanking her every week for nothing just to spank her. That wouldn't be right and she'd probably tell me to go fuck myself, and rightfully so. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]