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Subject: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: Emmie Sue [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:11:39 02/21/24 Wed I think there's a lot of guilt in me because I'm into spanking. Since I was a little kid it's practically all I've thought about. Any mention of spanking or when another kid got in trouble or even seeing like hairbrushes in the store I would always think 'spanking'. When I was a little kid and even now I try so desperately to hide my secret. I feel like a creeper or a freak, like I'm a really bad person to have these thoughts, and even get off on it. Even when I was a little kid I had thoughts of other girls getting their butts whooped. I thought of all sorts of scenarios about me getting my butt whooped. When I did something bad I actually hoped my mom would beat my butt. It wasn't (and isn't) anything sexy really, it was more like I deserved it and kind of longed for to be disciplined. I have 2 way older brothers. They're a lot older than me and I'm not really that close to them. They were kind of mean to me but they were also kind of protective of me. So I was Daddy's little girl and Mommy's little princess. I admit that I am very spoiled. I never had to want for anything. I wont say that they just constantly covered me with love, my mom especially does yell at me and tells me to do things, but I don't get in any real trouble and never had any real consequences. I didn't really do bad things. I was a pretty good kid and a pretty decent adult. I got good grades and didn't bully other kids. I stole some stuff maybe and got into the usual kid mischief and I smoke week and drink, not a lot but I do. I've gotten traffic tickets and whatever, but nothing really too bad. Admittedly I can be pretty disrespectful to my mom. That's probably the worst thing I do, I can be a real brat to my mom. So anyway, more than sexual feelings about spanking, I think a lot of my obsession is due to guilt. I am so spoiled. I never had any real consequences. I'd get grounded or whatever, but my parents never made it stick. And I think even when I was a little kid I should have had discipline and be held accountable for my actions and I shouldn't like it. I feel like I should be punished and severely and made to feel real bad for the things I've done. It's not really sexual. To make it even more confusual I sexually get off on thoughts about spanking. Okay, I've ranted enough. Your thoughts? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: Emmie Sue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:13:23 02/21/24 Wed Damn it. I was just about to get in the shower and one of the bitches jumped in there and my stuff is even there and I have to go to class. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: Papajon (Spanking the Good Girls) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:09:23 02/21/24 Wed Ah Hello Dearest Emmie Sue!!!!!! And Me likes so very much, "I am really not a bad girl, I am a Decent Adult"!!! And Yes a Spoiled Daughter growing up in the Family!!! And good honest objective Guilt often in need, Says You, A Wholesome Spanking on Bottom Bare!!!! And so much thanks for Your Confession for All Voy to loudly hear!!!!!!! Yes Emmie Sue????? And Thinks Me for You, A Wholesome Maintain Spank Relation ship, Spanker and Spankee!!!! Regular Spankings for Your Guilty and ALL BEHAVIORS both bad and good!!!! Yes Dear Emmie Sue and just for Yoy, ever ever evermore!!!!! Papajon VT [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:13:30 02/21/24 Wed My obsession with spanking started before I can remember. I always wanted to know what it felt like physically. I never wanted a punishment spanking. For whatever reason my Dad didn’t believe in spanking so it never happened. The closest I ever got to being spanked was in first grade. I was whispering to the guy in front of me and the first grade teacher came out of nowhere and gave us each a sharp lick on the side of the leg with her flyback paddle. It really stung. I never ended up over her knee in the front of the class like most of the students did. I was terrified of that. I don’t remember any actual conversations with my friends about spankings but six licks seem to be common. Implements were hand, hairbrush, belt or flyback paddle. Not being able to sit down for dinner was a cliche not reality.. Reading these forums I see that a lot of kids get it really hard. I don’t want to involved in a spanking but I want to be a fly on the wall and see what it really looked like. My idealized view of spanking is that you are afraid of the spanking but not your parents. I know that for a lot of people it is the same thing. I know that if I was spanked growing up I would be very much part of the anti-spanking brigade. My parents really trashed my self esteem. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: Berryblue [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:22:29 02/21/24 Wed I've had similar feelings growing up surrounding spanking, though I've never had the sexual confusion part, spanking has been a huge obsession for me since I was a kid. The desire for discpline and punishment has always been strong. Perhaps it's because I've gotten away woth too much, wasn't that bad a kid but could be really naughty from time to time. I never wanted my parent to spank me though, moreso other figures of authority in my life. Like teachers, youth leaders and camp counslers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:26:59 02/22/24 Thu I can certainly see why many girls have fantasies around getting spanked and really wonders how it would have felt being spanked bare bottom over their parents knees. And try to get the experience as adults because they are spoiled, not dowing what they should etc. Having been one of the girls who really have the experience I can say that you can certainly (if you find the right partner) experience the stinging from a harsh spanking, how it feels to lie over the knees kicking and howling. And experience the sense in your bottom for the rest of the day that you were spanked. What I think you will not be able to feel is the humiliation, fear, anxiety, agony that comes with a parental spanking. I am sure you can experience some embarrassment though. When I get a punishment spanking from my husband I do kick and cry over his knees and I can certailnly feel embarrassment. But I don't feel humiliated and I don't feel the agony and fear. Rather I love the feeling afterwards from "having been spanked". I hope you will experience it soon so that you don't have to wonder any more. :-) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: bodack [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:19:59 02/22/24 Thu I am confident a girl I knew in ninth grade got paddled on purpose. A Guy I worked with told me about the time he deslibertly earned a paddling to see what it was like. He was given the choice three licks or three days and he said three licks the principle and his assistant just smiled at each other. He was surprised how much it hurt. There is a video on youtube where a woman and a daughter complained about how hard she got paddled. I always felt like the girl did it on purpose but wasn't expecting to be still bruised the next day. If I could have figured out a way to get paddled in ninth grade with out my classmates finding out and no witness I think I would have gone for it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: SJ [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:55:36 02/22/24 Thu I know what you mean, Emmie Sue. I too have had the spanking fetish as long as I can remember. Paradoxically, the older I get, the more I disagree with spanking, yet the more I am fascinated by it. I have mentioned many times before that it started when I was around 6 or 7, and I had a dream involving a school spanking that bore no resemblance to reality. I don't know why I had it. It has never gone away since then, just got stronger. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: Wondering-supportive [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:43:14 02/22/24 Thu Your confession indicates you need real consequences in your life because, by your own admission, you are spoiled. Time for you to get off the dime and find a parent-like disciplinarian that can make and keep you accountable. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: Rainy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:52:23 02/22/24 Thu Quit making excuses why you need a spanking and arrange yourself a spanking. Hopefully, scientists will soon find a way other people will enjoy spanking the way you do. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: SamH [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:20:17 12/05/24 Thu I am a grandfather now but I understand the urge to be spanked I was raised in the 50s when spanking was the norm at home and at school and I learned most of lifes most important lessons draped over my mom’s lap bawling as she soundly spanked me. Spanking always excited me seeing others spanked including my kids. My wife was the spanker in our house After the kids were grown I finally told my wife of my spanking interest and fog the next 15 years I found myself draped over lap being spanked to tears with the same hairbrush my mom had used on me growing up and that was used on my kids Later my wife stopped and my spanking interest need continued so I have used a series of dominatrex who were willing to give me the spanking I wanted. This included several fairly painful sessions where I experienced what it was like to be spanked with a strap, a riding crop and a rattan cane (only once - OUCH) and to fulfill spanking fantasies. I am no in my 70s and once a month I visit a lady once a month so she can paddle my naked butt draped over her lap. This lady gives me a real spanking and has now for over 12 years now. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Maybe why I'm into spanking/discipline Author: JD Winchester [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:40:22 12/06/24 Fri Emmie Sue, Even though you posted this nearly 10 months ago, obviously it's still relevant. Sorry I'm so late to the game but would still like to comment. You are definitely "one of us" when it comes to having something of an obsession - or at least a very strong intrigue - for ALL things spanking. IMO, it's something that cannot be adequately explained to someone who is NOT "one of us." I think you're either born with it, or you are not. Honestly I personally never wanted to be spanked myself, but just the very idea of a girl getting her tail tanned, puts me in a different dimension. I was spanked plenty as a kid up until about 12 years old; I dreaded and hated every one of them. Then as a 17 year old high school Senior, I was paddled in school for the first time ever, along with 3 of my buddies. We each got 3 licks from the very large AP. Up until that time, I never realized your butt could register that level of pain! Again, I would have done most anything to have avoided that encounter with the infamous "Board of Education," including the Earth opening up and swallowing me whole. In retrospect, many years after-the-fact, I'm glad I got that paddling...because now I can speak on the subject of school paddlings with a degree of authority, having firsthand experience. Over the years I have been a member of various online forums with an emphasis on girl spankings and paddlings. And yes, absolutely some girls will go out of their way to get a spanking or a paddling in high school, just to experience it. Some posted about it on Twitter (X), how they would deliberately do something to earn a spanking at home or a paddling at school. I believe for some as it relates to school paddlings, it is a "rite of passage," something they feel they need to do in order to feel they fully participated in the high school experience. OTOH, a VERY SWEET girl on one of the forums named Becky, was over more laps than a napkin throughout her teenage years. However, she was never paddled at school...even though she came very close, twice. I assumed she regretted never having experienced getting paddled in school; nope, I was wrong. She said she was glad she never did. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]