Alright. I'm disappointed in you, but maybe I shouldn't be. You've never changed enough to warrant my high expectations. I wouldn't even spank you for this in person; this is my last straw. I'm done talking to someone who doesn't respect me enough to listen when I say something is a boundary. This isn't the first time, but it will be the last. I wish I hadn't wasted so much time replying to you over the past year and change when you've taken nothing I've ever said to heart.
Date Posted:06:31:36 09/29/24 Sun
If I may intervene here, I think you are both overplaying this. I understand, Thea that you have said something to her or set boundaries when discussing things with Emmie Sue, but a college girl of 19, 20 or 21 does indeed have a lot of stuff going on in their head. Not only the pressures of schoolwork and getting good grades and a degree, but all of the other things that someone that age is dealing with. They are not a kid, but they are not really yet an adult. And little miss Emmie Sue has a LOT going on in her life right now.
She did ask a few legitimate questions, but if you had asked her before not to tease you about being 'naughty' as you are an adult and a professional she should respect those boundaries.
I hope you both make up and respect each other's boundaries. If it were up to me I would turn you both over my knees.
Date Posted:06:47:17 09/29/24 Sun
Nat, you're new here. There's over a year of context you're missing.
In my opinion, ending a relationship (platonic or otherwise) because someone consistently disrespects your stated boundaries, because there is a mismatch of emotional labor, because of a lack of respect, and because they expect you to keep on putting effort into them when they put none into you and seem to view you as nothing other than a way to get their rocks off is perfectly reasonable. You may have a different perspective. All due respect, but I don't know you well enough for your perspective of the situation to carry much weight with me.
And claiming you would spank me for a situation where you're lacking understanding does NOTHING to encourage me to give your position much credence.
Date Posted:07:04:58 09/29/24 Sun
I may be new here, but I'm not new to life. I am a middle aged woman with two grown, successful children and a niece who I helped raise. I live in a small college town and for many years have mentored and mothered and cared for the students. I am very in tune with the young adult mind and what they are going through. Although I've never spanked any (yet) I have listened to their stories and given advice and even mediated their disputes. As I understand from reading you are not that much older than Emmie Sue and even as a young adult and professional woman you are still growing. I don't wish to start a dispute here, but I have a whole lot more experience than you do and feel it's very immature to simply discard my input. Even successful adults sometimes act like a child and can gain from the experience and wisdom of others.
Date Posted:06:48:23 09/29/24 Sun
I'm sorry okay? I wont suggest you need a spanking or anything again again, okay? Is that what you're mad about? I'm sorry. I should listen better. Please don't not respond to me anymore.
You can give me a punishment and I will do it, okay?
