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Subject: Private or in the Open Author: Becky [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:25:38 12/16/24 Mon Do you spank your child in the open or in private? Teens are you spanked in private or in the open? My mom spanks my brother and I in the open. I have been spanked with relatives and friends watching me get spanked. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Beth Swikart [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:46:40 12/17/24 Tue I have always been spanked in private I was talking to my older sister and she said she only got spanked once and it was by dad. She told me I always got away with things. She didn't know mom slapped me across the face for tattling on my siblings. That never happened again. So my sister said at least you learned from that. I told her about 3 times I remember getting spanked by dad. She didn't know. I forgot to tell her about the time I got out of being spanked at 16 from dad which I regret now. So I didn't get away with a lot. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Dee [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:41:25 12/17/24 Tue In open but only family allowed to watch. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Rob [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:49:48 04/30/25 Wed In our house, spankings are in the open with family present. If non family are present, then the spanking is given in the bedroom, however, the door is left open, which I have a problem with. Oh, the other thing is that mom's boy friend is considered family. I hate that as well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Becky to Hannah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:06:17 12/21/24 Sat Hi Hannah, Sorry I am late getting back to you, but I have had finals these last three days. I am 19 will be 20 next week and my brother is 17. Mom does not care who watches us get spanked. She says that embarrassment at our age is part of our discipline. I have been spanked in front of my friends and my brothers' friends. There have been times when mom has spanked one or more of our friends along with us. the only one that I hate seeing me spanked is my boyfriend. He is the only one that mom will not spank me in front of him. he can hear me getting spanked which is just as bad. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Emily (relieved) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:00:19 01/19/25 Sun Becky and Dee, I thought we were the only family (almost) that spanked in front of others. It's so totally embarrassing, isn't it? It makes me feel like a little girl when I have to get undressed and one of my cousins is here or an uncle. How do you handle it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Deanna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:00:24 04/26/25 Sat Growing up daddy would take us into his study and paddle us with the small oval paddle I am the youngest of 5 girls married no only girls to be spanked went in to the study you could hear the spanking but not see them we always came out crying but it was in private so less embarrassing [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Jan R [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:06:53 04/30/25 Wed In my father's private study. No siblings here just mom, dad, and myself so even with door open it's still just us. Once I was getting it when my uncle was visiting. Dad didn't close the door and I turned and saw him watching as dad was strapping my bare bottom. It was terribly embarrassing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Deanna for Jan [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:47:05 04/30/25 Wed My uncle and Aunt we’re visiting one time and all us girls including my three girl cousins had to be paddled the boy cousin who was 12 and the time the oldest of us was 13 I was 7 the youngest at the time daddy gave alll the paddlings I went first and listened as the rear got paddled crying dads did not go easy but I forget what we did [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Jan R to Deanna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:15:56 04/30/25 Wed I guess because I am an only I just can't imagine having brothers or sisters right there watching. Mom really got after her brother for watching me getting it. He knew what was happening and should not have watched. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:05:23 05/01/25 Thu Punishments were always given in the family room and would be observed by the other siblings as a warning message. Actually the thought of being naked and spanked in front of everyone was a bigger deterrent than the spanking itself so I guess it did serve a purpose. In addition to siblings, other family members could watch. This include parents and grandparents and other family members if they were in the house at the time of the punishment. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Jan R to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:29:35 05/01/25 Thu Dear Marcey, That just had to be awful. I remember you said your brothers really liked looking at your breasts. For me it's just mom and dad and that's bad enough. Maybe I'm thankful my breasts are pretty small. They really don't move much when I'm getting the strap. Have you ever had any family members make comments after seeing you getting it? My uncle had some embarrassing questions once we started talking and he apologized. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:11:28 05/02/25 Fri At a family reunion I did talk to my brothers and sister about our spankings. My brothers both admitted they liked watching our breasts jiggle as we were being spanked and liked it even more so when we jumping up and down doing the spanking dance. But my sister and I also admitted we liked seeing the boys hard as rock before and after the spankings they got and really liked seeing them bounce up and down doing the spanking dance too. I guess it all evens out. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Jan R to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:07:13 05/02/25 Fri That's true. It's fair if they get to watch you then you get to see them too. I'm a little surprised that the boys never mentioned seeing you nude down there. Do they maybe think mentioning that part is just off limits? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Marcey to Jan Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:52:44 05/02/25 Fri From as long as I can remember we were all spanked naked. I think once we reached puberty there were new things to look at. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Private or in the Open Author: Jan R to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:34:05 05/02/25 Fri Yes, and boy does the embarrassment factor go up bigtime at that age. I remember a few years ago at about 11. Being fully nude for punishment in those tween years was awful. It's really no better with age but OMG at least I didn't have two boys right there looking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]