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Subject: Kicking Style Author: Marcey [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10:15:43 03/29/25 Sat If you kicked your legs while being spanked, what was your kicking style or motion? My mother and father always thought that kicking and twisting and bucking were good signs that the spanking was having its desired effect. Both I and my sister had a frog leg swimming style of kicking. Our arms would flail in front of us grabbing at the air in a futile attempt to swim away from the spanking while our legs did a frog style of kicking that unfortunately exposed everything to a witness in the right position. My youngest brother pretty much had a death grip on the chair legs but his legs danced up and down while he howled in pain. My oldest brother just didn't have any set style. He kicked and wiggled in all directions. My aunt once said he acted like a drowning frog, which is probably the most accurate description of his wild movements. So what did you do or witness? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Jan R to Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:04:38 03/29/25 Sat Hi Marcey, I try as best as I can to keep my legs together while dad gives me the strap. I want to conceal as much as I can. I'm not allowed up when he finishes so there is no dance here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:25:47 03/29/25 Sat I have come to know a few spankees as "swimmers". Like they are tring to get away by swimming off my lap. As long as they keep their bottoms properly presented and do not reach a hand back, I am good with it. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:08:56 03/29/25 Sat I'm sure I must have kicked while being spanked, but I don't know exactly what I did. During a spanking, I was not aware of anything other than my behind. The most memorable spanking I witnessed, the kicking was elite. My mom's best friend and her daughter were staying with us, and the girl was a playmate of mine when we were younger. Jackie was going through a rebellious phase. She angered her mom at the pool and got taken inside for a spanking with a hard plastic paddle. I was so curious, I peeked in the room to watch her getting it. I can still hear her high shrieking, and how she was kicking. I don't know much about swimming, but I think it was like what's called a flutter kick. Her feet were like an olympic swimmer's — short strokes, brisk, continuous, alternating, and rhythmic, straight-legged and from the hips. Worthy of a gold medal, I thought. Seriously, I felt sorry for her. She had very pale skin, and her bottom was turned fire-engine red. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Greta [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:33:21 03/30/25 Sun Dean, how devious of you to spy on that poor girl's spanking! How old was she? I bet she'd be VERY embarrassed to know you heard her squealing and spied on how she kicked. Watching my husband bare bottom spank his son and daughter I saw many kicking styles. Younger they would flail wildly in all directions. By 12/13 they would struggle to keep their legs clamped together due to modesty (especially the girl) - a lot of jerking their legs straight out twisting their red buns side to side. But it was always with heels up legs spread by the end. Most always just hand spankings but at 14/15 if the belt was used they both did the lap swimming wild waving and usually ended up with one of their legs pinned so their one free leg waved all crazy up and down and all over under the burning belt. Marcey, did you girls and your brothers kick about equally as much? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:52:00 03/30/25 Sun Greta, we were both 13 and in 8th grade. I'm sure Jackie (not her real name) would have been mortified, and probably very angry, if she knew I had seen her spanking. That evening at dinner, her mom said something about her daughter was being so polite at the table compared to earlier that day. Jackie's face literally turned red, and she ate in silence not making eye contact with the rest of us. I'd bet her bottom was still red too. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style to Greta Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:33:33 03/31/25 Mon My brothers were always more animated than I or my sister. My parents and my grandmother didn't seem to mind that we were kicking and twisting and things. They thought it was the sign that the spanking was having the desired impact on us. Modesty really was not a main concern for any of us. For as long as I remember we were always spanked naked. The only difference came at puberty when the boys were intent in watching our tops bounce around and we watched their parts bouncing too. The only modesty issue came when we were dancing around after the spanking and we composed ourselves enough to realize what a show we were putting on. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style and going UP! Author: Alfred22 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:38:55 04/02/25 Wed After getting two dozen folded in half belt licks in the threee seconds it took to traverse the line, it seemed to make sense to hop or go way up in the air! Your bottom was on fire and social norms forbid all but one good grab and rub! So, going UP made a lot of sense and I remember hopping really high. Marcey's youngest brother had a good idea. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Greta [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:28:26 03/31/25 Mon Poor Jackie! I remember 13/14 being particularly embarrassed about my bare bottom spankings. And to have her mother remind her? I assume Jackie knew you (and others?) were in the house when she got spanked? She didn't know you were a nasty boy who spied on her spanking but she must have figure you heard it? Marcey, that's cute your brothers put up such a fuss when spanked. Nothing like seeing a "macho" teen boy suddenly squealing and squirming for a spanking! But naked spankings are NOT fair because, like you said, the boys got a good look at your bush AND your bouncing boobs. At least you saw their boy parts wiggling but nobody cares about a boy with no shirt. I remember my step girl Gina being extremely embarrassed when her panties came down in front of her little brother Grant (two yrs younger than her). Especially when Gina was 13/14 and had her bush exposed to her brother's wide eyes! Grant didn't have much to show when his underpants came down, at that age, but in his teens I could tell how much he hated me watching his spankings. Especially the spanking dances, like you said! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Søren to Greta and Dean [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:00:19 04/10/25 Thu Greta, Dean, I think it's very natural for a boy to become interested in the anatomical differences between himself and the girls from a certain age. And this is completely independent of whether there is already a general interest in the topic of corporal punishment (the “special” interest arises at the latest when he himself is lying across his mom's / dad's lap). At the age of seven or eight, I didn't care at all whether my sisters (the 'big' one was a year and a half older, the 'little' one two years younger) got spanked naked or whether I could be there. I was just gloating or feeling sorry for them because of the spanking they got - depending on the relationship at the time. That changed around the age of 10. Then I always tried to be there when they were getting their beatings and at some point I deliberately positioned myself in the room so that I could look between their straddling thighs and at their slits and sometimes even their bum-holes. I knew it was mean, but it fascinated me too much. My older sister in particular always insisted that we were never in the bathroom together, and so it was the only opportunity to see her little secrets when she was lying across our mother's lap, and certainly had other problems than the prying eyes of her brother. I could never recognize certain patterns in the leg movements of my siblings (I also have a brother who is seven years younger). They just fidgeted and kicked in rhythm with the blows of the wooden spoon on their bum-cheeks. Sometimes backwards, sometimes upwards, sometimes to the side. If these were swimming movements, we would probably all have drowned. Kind regards - Søren [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:22:52 04/09/25 Wed Growing up I remember seeing my sister kicking with her legs when she got spanked. One leg up while the other is going down, I think this is what some refers to as scissor kicking. I believe this is the way I kicked as well most of the time but I do remember times when the pain and stinging became excruciating that my legs went in any direction. In case I kick with my legs when being spanked by my husband this would also be scissor kicking. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Allison to JenniAnn [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:50:54 04/09/25 Wed Dear JenniAnn, I have been lurking around these forums for a while trying to get up the courage to post. I have read several of your posts about getting spanked as a teen. After seeing you post here I felt compelled to reach out. I'm currently 17 in my senior year in HS. My parents are very traditional and yes, I am spanked. Different than you, I am facing the wall in our den. My dad has a thick wooden paddle. I get it two ways. For minor but still spankable in my parents eyes, I get swats over my jeans and panties. Facing the wall, feet apart with both palms flat on the wall so I'm in a standing position. This is shameful enough, but it gets worse. Serious offenses and then dad instructs me with the words, Allison you will need to remove your jeans and step out of your panties. I then have to stand there with hands on head facing the wall half naked to reflect on my violation. This is just dreadful. The shame and embarrassment is terrible and I'm sure that's what they are going for. After several minutes I hear dad step back in, pick up the paddle from the coffee table and step up to the wall. Ok Allison, hands on the wall, feet apart. Then he sears by bare buttocks with that paddle. It's so much worse on the bare. I don't have a large bottom, I would call my buttocks average. Not overly large but not tiny either. My shame is simply having to go through this whole ordeal at my age. When it's over I do get comforted. I have no doubt my parents love me and I would hate to think that dad enjoys it. Having said what I've said, I don't feel like they look for excuses to have me report to the den and also, not all of them are on the bare, but those that are are just shameful. BTW I read where some girls at your school found out that you were still spanked. I felt terrible when I read that. It must have just been awful. I would absolutely die if any of my friends found out. WEll, I just thought I would reach out to you. I know exactly how you felt then. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: JenniAnn to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:21:48 04/11/25 Fri Hi Allison, I am so sorry that you still get spanked although you are 17. I hope this will stop soon. Yes it was absolutely horrible when the girls (and boys) found out in HS that I still got spanked. You don't want to know how that feels so I hope noone ever finds out. I was never paddled but I can imagine the pain is quite bad. Especially if given on the bare buttocks. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Ivy to Allison [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:13:05 04/11/25 Fri Allison, Over the last two days I thought of a couple things. I said I don't think fathers should spank daughters bare bottom, much past age ten. That is truer, but at least your dad protects your modesty by only viewing your back. And it sounds like both parents are there to view and comfort you. It sound's much better than the situation JenniAnne described. Shalom, Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Allison to JenniAnn and Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:22:36 04/11/25 Fri Hi JenniAnn, Yes, the paddle is just awful, especially on the bare. So far, nobody knows. I felt so bad for you because when that girl said what is her mom gonna do, spank her and the way you reacted. There is no way that girl would have known but I guess her saying that just completely caught you off guard. Hi Ivy, Yes, my parents do not make me turn and face them when I'm half naked. I face the wall. It's bad enough they are looking at my bare buttocks. Yes, they are both there and I do get comfort after. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Ivy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:11:16 04/09/25 Wed Allison, I was spanked as a child up to age 8, and my parents resumed spanking from 13 to 16. Only my mother spanked me at older ages, and I do not approve of fathers spanking daughters bare bottom (as my spankings were) much past age 10. That said, it sounds like your parents only wish the best for you, and you understand this. And the spankings are not sadistic, as unfortunately is the case with a few parents. Now that I am older (in my twenties) I have changed my mind about spanking, and do not think it is necessarily wrong at older ages. Indeed I think it was good for me, even though I was certainly not a terrible teen. By the way a lot of kids are spanked at your age. it is just no one likes to admit it. One thing that helped me accept and learn from my spankings was I fell in with a group of older kids who were also spanked and we compared notes --i.e. learned to behave and avoid them. I suspect from what you describe your spanking days will soon end. Shalom, Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Paula [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:32:07 04/09/25 Wed Ivy, I'm curious as to why your mom resumed spanking you as a teen after stopping at 8 previously? That must have been a dramatic change for you? For me, turning 13 meant mom adding the paddle after a usual hand spanking. The paddle was wooden with 3 holes, the size of a large hairbrush and OMG even just a dozen licks sent me into orbit. Did your mom hand spank? Allison, Must be hard at your age to take off your pants and panties like that. And how do you stay in position against the wall? I was always spanked over the lap, kicking like mad, I don't think I would have been able to just stand there and take the paddle sting! What kind of paddle do you get spanked with? Also you mentioned your bottom size, a sensitive subject for me. I saw my younger sister's wild kicking/bawling so I knew what I looked like but mom had a "spank every inch" of bare bottom style. Which was unfair because my behind was/is quite plump while my sister had a tight pert rump so it only took about half as many hand spanks to redden her cheeks as I got until my wobbling cheeks were red enough. Paddle spanks were given equally, so maybe worse for her as the paddle covered both her buns while stinging only one of mine at a time. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Intrigued to Paula [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:30:39 04/10/25 Thu How thick was that paddle? Did she spank with it at a quick or slow pace? How old did you get it until? That paddle sounds awful. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Ivy to Paual [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:04:04 04/10/25 Thu Hi Paula, My father is Irish-Catholic, and Mom is Russian-Jewish. Spanking is not big among Jews. But when we were young mom differed to Dad and (my older sis and I) were spanked (over clothier and bare always with mom or dad's hand). When she resumed spanking it was with a hairbrush bare bottom, I think this was due to the influence of my aunt (Dad's sister). I was far better behaved (and had better grades) than most kids my age, but not good enough for my family. Some of it was just the type of attitude adolescents have. I think what really got mom's dander up was she thought at 13 I was neglecting my bat mitvah studies. Then my aunt! She would constantly tell mom I needed a hairbrush spanking on my bare bottom like my cousins got. And mom took her advice to heart. The third spanking I got mom called my aunt over to see if she was doing it right She only told her to sit as far back on the edge of my bed as possible, with my shoulders and knees resting solidly on the bed, and my bottom on her lap.Otherwise she approved of mom's spanking style 110%, congratulating her for her conversion to "good old fashioned American womanhood!"They both agreed that often with kids a hairbrush speaks with louder authority than 'moral persuasion" alone' It was indeed a dramatic change, and one which lasted almost four years. But as I look back now I think it did me good, and if I have kids they will get that same assist to moral persuasion. Shalom Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Vera [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:20:27 04/10/25 Thu Ivy, How nasty of your aunt to goad your mom into giving you bare bottom hairbrush spankings but it was your mom's choice and apparently such discipline worked for you. Scary hearing your aunt openly advocate bare brushings and you knew that's what your cousins got? Who are they? I bet they thought it was fair when your brushings began? For me it was my stepmother. I only lived with dad/her on weekends and she never spanked me but I heard her spank her son/daughter and she encouraged mom to use her method of bare bottom wooden spoon spankings. Up till then (I was 12) mom just hand smacked the seat of my panties but once my stepmom invited my mom into the bedroom to watch her spank her 13-yr-old daughter. I could hear the voices - the lecture the poor girl pleading - then her begging crying and the sharp SMACKS of the wooden spoon until she was bawling. I never really cried from mom's hand smacks and I thought my stepsister sounded like a big baby. When they came out the girl was still sobbing and stepmom said, "See, she's not too old for an old fashioned bare bottom spanking and neither is Vera." A week later I realized it was impossible to NOT bawl like a baby cuz I got my first bare bottom spoon spanking! And there did come a time when my stepmom watched mom spank me. How was it that time your aunt came over just to see you get spanked and offer "advice?" [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Ivy to Vera [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:53:57 04/11/25 Fri Hi Vera, My aunt thought I could use that kind of discipline, in hindsight I can not say she was wrong. At the time I was just irritated, not thinking mom would ever do it. After the spankings started I did talk with my cousins about it. They were actually very adult about it, and were some of those kids who helped teach me to learn from my chastisements. Mom spanked very matter-of-factually like she did housework and everything. So I was not shocked when she invited my aunt over. She watched quietly, only offering the two suggestions and congrats at the end. What was it that convinced your mom to give you a proper spanking? Shalom, Ivy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:38:28 04/11/25 Fri Vera, The wooden spoon is one of the most underestimated instruments of punishment, as you must have experienced for yourself. If the handle is about 30 cm or longer, it is possible to give the stirring (in this case beating) area a very high speed when it hits the buttocks. Even if the stirring area is usually not very heavy, this causes a brightly blazing, sharp pain on the skin and the first layers of muscle underneath. Considering that the frequency of wooden spoon blows is usually quite high (one and a half to two blows per second, I guess), one minute of blows with a wooden spoon results in an experience that would make even older people than a 12-year-old girl bawl. But who am I telling? You've had the experience yourself. Thanks for sharing. All the best - Stelter (who also bawled under the wooden spoon, some fifty years ago) [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Grumpy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:07:00 04/10/25 Thu Is kicking an involuntary reaction, a strategy to make things more difficult for the spanker, or both? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Marcey [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:20:59 04/11/25 Fri I think kicking is clearly an involuntary reaction. I can take a hand spanking with just wiggling a bit. But once the hairbrush or other implement is brought out the pain level goes sky high. Kicking, squirming, bucking, etc. at that point become involuntary and my parents always felt that if you were kicking up a storm the message was getting through. And the pain level at that point was always so bad this was not something you would think about like "if I kick I will not be spanked as hard." Your brain goes into ballistic mode with everything focused on the fire in your butt and elsewhere. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:45:20 04/11/25 Fri Grumpy, Marcey, I think it's a bit of both. Of course, it's primarily an unconscious reaction to the pain. But there are children who start fidgeting, squirming and kicking before there has even been the first blow. This is probably not a conscious decision either, but at least unconsciously they are trying to escape from the lap, from the knee. No great drama, because it takes a lot of self-discipline to take a decent thrashing properly. But from the age of 12 or 13, I would expect the kids to have a better control over themselves, even if it hurts a lot. This is essential at the latest when the brats are no longer lying over your knee, but have to bend down on their own for the cane or the senior-paddle. As I said, I think it's a bit of both, although the proportions may vary from child to child. All the best - Stelter [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Ross M [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:05:22 04/13/25 Sun One factor is how the spanking is administered. If the technique is to spank, pause to let it sink in, then spank again, pause, and so on, it's possible to maintain control of yourself. An example is swats with the paddle at school. Even though it could burn pretty badly, most could take it without looking like a big baby. That was an advantage, as I don't think anyone wanted to look like that. Compare that to a spanking that is just one hard lick after another with no breaks between. The faster the rhythm of spanks, the more unbearable it becomes. At some point, kicking and every other physical reaction is involuntary, and there is no thought process going on that could be coherent enough to be called a strategy. Even if beforehand one promises themselves they are going to cling as hard as they absolutely can to maintaining their composure and their dignity, all is forgotten in the scorching heat of the moment. For lesser spankings, kicking might go along well with the crocodile tears. For those who would prefer to put on a show to hopefully save their bottom, making a big dramatic fuss could be a possibly effective plan with softer-hearted parents. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Kicking Style Author: Stelter [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:09:09 04/13/25 Sun A nice consideration that parents and other disciplinarians can use to check whether the pupil's reactions match the type of spanking administered, or are perhaps just a big show after all. Thank you [ Post a Reply to This Message ]