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Subject: Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up?


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Date Posted: 10:03:25 06/16/25 Mon
In reply to: Alfred22 For Gisela 's message, "Re: Did any other girls get whipped with a belt/strap growing up?" on 00:14:00 06/16/25 Mon
 The psychologists claim that there are three crucial elements to using punishment: promptness, severity, and certainty.

Clearly households that keep the current spanking implements on display and thus ready to hand enable all three elements. Having a special hook for the cane, strap, or spoon enables all three elements: the implement is ready to hand and thus the spanking can be prompt; lengthy and strong implements like the spoon and the cane rarely break and neither will a for-spanking-only strap. Each can be used firmly and as severely as the offense requires. Finally, parents' resisting the desperate pleas not to be spanked ensures the third element, namely the certainty.

Gisela grew up with all three and to my mother's credit, so did I. Not my favorite thing knowing that the spanking yardstick was handy but its length and availability fulfilled the elements of effective punishment.
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