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Subject: Were girls with larger bottoms spanked harder or longer?


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JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 04:43:45 04/21/26 Tue

Remembering the spankings I got growing up I wonder if you think girls with larger bottoms were spanked harder och longer? In case the aim was to get the entire bottom red.

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Robert to JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 08:08:10 04/21/26 Tue

Dear JenniAnn
Yes I absolutely believe that girls with larger bottoms are indeed spanked or paddled harder than girls with smaller bottoms. This goes for boys as well. I think there is the mis conception that the larger bottom must be spanked harder and possibly longer because of all the "extra padding". I don't think there is any merit to that argument but I think this is a common belief. I recall a post of yours where you were watching dad spanking your sister and that it looked like he was spanking as hard as he could just to see her buttocks reacting. My guess is that in southern US schools that allow paddling, students with larger bottoms are indeed paddled harder.

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Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 10:56:54 04/21/26 Tue

Were you or your sister paddled in school?

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Robert to Brett D
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Date Posted: 12:05:00 04/21/26 Tue

I would also imagine a females full ample bottom would react much more to the application of hand, strap or wooden paddle. I would expect those plump buttocks to ripple and dance under the impact whereas a smaller bottom would not react quite as much.

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Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 12:01:37 04/21/26 Tue

In my 30 years of experience spanking and paddling females, the one thing that has always been a pleasant surprise is how each female reacts. Some females with big butts are more sensitive and can't take much, while other females with big butts can take a lot. Some females with little butts can take a lot, while some females with little butts can't take much. Each female is different. It is always a pleasant surprise.

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Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 12:48:41 04/21/26 Tue

I know that really didn't answer the question. But, yes, when the butt is bigger, the person doing the spanking and paddling always wants to hit harder - I know I do. But, part of being a real Dom is being able to judge how the person being spanked, paddled, etc., reacts, and then adjust accordingly. That includes feeling how the person reacts with your touch and your sight. It's always how the person being punished wants it. Always respect that. If you go beyond that, then it could be abuse.

But if it's punishment in school or at home, that's different. A spanker like me, always wants to cover all of the butt area. I will cover all of the butt area and hit in the same spots over and over as well. That's part of how I do it. Again, there's a lot of discussions with the female first as to how they want it and to make sure I don't do anything they don't want done.

But again, punishment in school and home, I would cover the whole area of the butt. I would hope that any spanker doing a punishment spanking would do that as well.

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Robert to Brett D
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Date Posted: 12:56:09 04/21/26 Tue

I agree. I was refering more to actual disciplinary spankings at school or home where the spankee really has no say. That said, the spanking can still be done without crossing the line into abuse. Of course school paddlings are only over clothing. I still maintain that the larger the bottom, girl / boy, the harder the paddling. They probably paddle harder in school anyway because they are paddling over several layers of clothing.

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Dean
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Date Posted: 16:11:58 04/21/26 Tue

Common sense says that if the bottom is bigger, and the aim is broader coverage, it will take either a larger implement or more spanks. There may also be less reluctance to spank harder if the buttocks are more luxuriously padded.

It didn't matter in our house. The same spots were spanked with a compact implement, so even with a smaller bottom, the entire area was never red.

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Sandy
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Date Posted: 18:31:03 04/21/26 Tue

I am 25 now but growing up in Texas with a big bottom my swats in school seemed harder than other girls I got paddled with at least it was my perception at home I got more swats than my sisters in a spanking so to me it is true

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Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 19:16:51 04/21/26 Tue

Do you have anybody who paddles you now?
Would you mind emailing me please? I want to ask you about your school paddlings.
Did your sisters get paddled in school?

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ALGuy
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Date Posted: 08:54:06 04/22/26 Wed

Sandy, what was the most swats you got in school and who gave them to you?

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JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 00:46:58 04/24/26 Fri

I was never paddled at school. I and sis was only spanked by parents and grandparents. Almost always over the knees, either hand or hairbrush- The most severe I got was with a birch rod. They spanked as hard and fast as they could, probably not for more than a minute but a minute with at least one spank per second really ensured my entire big bottom was red as on a baboon. Same with sis.

I know a woman though who was paddled in school and she claimed that it was almost only girls with big bottoms who were called to be paddled, suggesting there were sexual or at least sexistic reasons for at least some paddlings.

I have also heard similar experiences as my own, where the father clearly enjoyed watching his teenage daughter's bottom bounce and jiggle during the spankings.

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Date Posted: 06:47:13 04/24/26 Fri

Sandy - please email me please. I want to ask you about your school paddlings. Please.

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Mandy to JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 07:49:14 04/24/26 Fri

Hi JenniAnn,
I posted on a Voy Forum a couple years ago about my experience growing up. I responded to some of your earlier posts back then. Maybe you recall. I was also spanked growing up well into my late teens. My last was at 17. My spankings were always with my stepdad's large wooden paddle and always bare bottomed. IN fact I was always required to remove all clothing from waist down including shoes and socks. I was paddled facing our mantle in the living room with hands grasping the mantle for support.

Like you I have a large bottom and I was always quite sensitive to that. Especially when I would hear guys at school saying stuff like look at that nice plump ass. I knew they were talking about me.

After reading what you wrote I came to the conclusion that my stepdad throughly enjoyed applying his paddle to my large bare buttocks. He would make a real production out of instructing me to get ready and then the paddling itself. I'm sure he loved watching my ample bottom ripple every time that paddle made contact. It was large enough to cover both sides of my bare buttocks so my bottom would be on absolute fire after just a couple blazing swats. So yeah, the tears pouring down along with my tomato red big bare bottom rippling with each swat. Good times, well for him.

Having said everything I have, I also have to admit that he never looked for any excuse he could find to paddle me. He was also very loving to me and mom but he was very old fashioned and traditional so when I did deserve it I got it and he just happened to enjoy the whole process. JenniAnn I know exactly how you and your sis felt over your dad's knees as he spanked your large bottoms as hard as he could.

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JenniAnn to Mandy
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Date Posted: 08:11:08 04/24/26 Fri

Hi Mandy, yes I remember you. Yes you may know exactly what i am talking about. The paddle against your bare bottom must have hurt a lot. Good that you feel that he didn't spank for his pleasure. Don't know if I told you how I once caught my dad grinning like a maniac while staring at my sister bouncing buttocks when he spanked her has hard as he could. My bottom was even larger and even less firm so I know he probably did the same when spanking me. Both my parents spanked also for minor offenses so I am sure we recieved some spankings only for their pleasure.
It was not fair that we would have to suffer more just becasue we had large bottoms in our teens.

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Mandy to JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 08:22:28 04/24/26 Fri

Hi JenniAnn,
Yes, that paddle was God awful. I didn't get paddled for every little thing like you and your sis did but when I did get paddled I'm sure my stepdad wasn't sad about having to do it. With me it was a whole ordeal. First, he , mom and I would go into the living room. He would have the paddle. Then I would get the lecture while he is holding the paddle. God I sometimes could not keep my eyes off the paddle. He did that on purpose knowing that I was just staring at it as he lectured. Then it would be Mandy are you listening. In tears, yes daddy.

After lecture I was instructed to remove shoes, socks then remove my skirt then step out of my panties, completely. THen face the mantle with both hands grasping it for support. Then he would adjust my top if need be to make sure my entire plump bottom was exposed. THen I would feel the paddle rubbing and then tapping my bottom then THWAP. I didn't get a lot of swats. I think the most was maybe 15 but that was enough. I'll ask you, do you think he enjoyed the paddlings?

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JenniAnn to Mandy
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Date Posted: 08:43:46 04/24/26 Fri

My guess is that he enjoyed it, at least to some extent. Just the fact that you were not only spanked bare bottom but you had to remove everything. YEs, the fear of what was going to happen was awful. I also cried already at that point and sometimes I even lost control over my bladder in fear.

We just had our panties lowered (they lowered them for us, at least down to knee level) and then the spankings started. We would both scream on the top of our lungs at the end while we both kicked with our legs like small children and I was even louder and more hysterical than my sister although she was younger. We didn't dance but we both rubbed our bottoms wailing after the spanking. I think they not only enjoyed our jiggling big bottoms but also that we were reacting as little girls. I am not as forgiving as you are. I am sure some spankings were well deserved but most were not. And a parent should not enjoy spanking their teenage daughters.

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Date Posted: 09:01:31 04/24/26 Fri

Hi JenniAnn,
Yes the instructions to remove everything and then always told step out of your panties is kind of a clue to me. I think he enjoyed seeing my eyes glued to the paddle as well. Like I said, spanking time when it was deemed necessary was an ordeal. I was also crying or at least teary even before the lecture was over.
One think I will say is that as I was undressing, dad never made me face him and mom. As you can imagine as I removed my panties I was always facing away from him and I was never instructed to do otherwise.

I do know that my large bottom would ripple as he applied the paddle. I wasn't hand spanked hard and fast like you were so my bottom probably reacted different than yours. BTW I did read about you watching dad spanking your sistera bottom and how he was grinning. I think that is just awful. I would have been in horror as well. I sometimes would turn my head towards dad right after a blazing swat across my bare. I never saw him smiling but he sure was focused on my bottom probably watching the reaction.

It didn't take me long to be begging and pleading like a little girl. Of course I wasn't kicking as I was standing up but I would move around a bit. Of course I would hear make sure you stay in position Mandy, we are not finished yet. AFter he was satisfied that I had been paddled enough I was allowed to pick up my panties and it was over. Most of the time I would just put my panties back on then pick up my skirt and shoes and head up to my room. Dad would watch me exiting and no doubt looking at the results of his paddle as I headed up stairs to my room to just cry and try and recover.

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Date Posted: 06:05:26 04/25/26 Sat

I would run to my room bawling while still holding my buttocks. I can only imagine what a scene that was. I am sur your dad whatched your bottom while you left the room. Did your mom spank you as well? What did she feel or do when your stepdad spanked your bare bottom?

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Date Posted: 11:14:44 04/25/26 Sat

Yes, dad's eyes were focused on my paddle blistered crimson red buttocks as I headed out and up the stairs. Mom didn't spank as I got older, just dad but she was always there to witness the paddling. She presented a united front and approved every paddling. I'm sure her focus was on that paddle making contact with my large buttocks. Every now and then when that paddle landed just right across by bare and sounded like a gun shot I would hear mom saying. Oh my Mandy. I sure hope this is getting through to you and then another searing swat.

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Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 17:30:46 04/24/26 Fri

Mandy, were you paddled in school?

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Mandy to Brett D
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Date Posted: 11:18:47 04/25/26 Sat

Hi Brett,
No, I was not paddled at school but what I got at home probably makes up for that. At school, from what I read, you get it over clothes. Mine were on the bare at home.

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Brett D (dbdsupvic@hotmail.com)
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Date Posted: 11:45:18 04/25/26 Sat

Have you written about your experiences on here?

Again, feel free to email me anytime.

Thank you for your response.

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Mandy to Brett D
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Date Posted: 11:53:56 04/25/26 Sat

Yes my posts are all right here to JenniAnn. Feel free to respond here and I will answer.

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Ross (B)
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Date Posted: 11:50:00 04/24/26 Fri

In a fetish situation, probably so, and perhaps it happens in a slightly unhealthy home environment.

For something like school discipline, I would think not: school spankings are few enough swats they need given full force to be effective no matter what size the bottom is.

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Brett
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Date Posted: 10:39:42 04/26/26 Sun

Where I went to school, paddling was strictly regulated, and the paddles used, how swats were to be administered, who was to witness the punishment, were all part of a coded procedure determined by the local school board. With regard to the size of buttocks, every girl was measured each month throughout the school year, and that measurement was used to calculate the number of swats required to cover the entire area. After a paddling, the offender was sent to the school nurse for an examination, and pictures of the behind were taken for evidence of discoloration. The photos were reviewed by the board, and additional training could be required for administrators whose skill with the paddle was shown to be lacking.

All true. No, really… :)

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Mandy to Brett D
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Date Posted: 11:04:42 04/26/26 Sun

My stepdad was quite skilled with his paddle. When getting it on the bare he could see exactly how much area was covered and the state that my buttocks was in. His paddle covered both sides at once and every blazing swat just burned like the fires of hell.

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Brett
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Date Posted: 12:32:27 04/26/26 Sun

That's terrible, Mandy. You poor thing. The way you described it above, you went back upstairs with your "paddle blistered crimson red buttocks." What did you do then? What did your bottom feel like? Did you check in a mirror to see the damage? How did the state of your punished behind effect you, like when eating a meal, sleeping, sitting, etc.? What about any marks left on your buttocks? What did they look like, and how long did they last? Did the punishment change your attitude or behavior in the following days? Did any of your friends know what happened to you at home? Do you know anyone else who got spanked at home and, if so, what did you think about it?

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Date Posted: 14:37:16 04/26/26 Sun

Hi Brett,
When it was decided a paddling was in order it was a serious affair. Although as I have said, dad didn't look for any little excuse but when it was justified, I think he rather enjoyed the task, much like JenniAnn's dad. When I got back to my room I always checked out the damage. My buttocks were crimson with these two whitish marks in the center of eaxh side. I believe those are called "Bulls-eye" paddle marks. My bottom was on fire, that's how it felt. Yes sitting was tough for the next couple days. It took a few days for everything to clear up. Oh yes, my attitude was changed for longer than just the next few days. My friends had no idea. God I would have died. The paddle was kept in the kitchen out of site. I didn't know if my friends were spanked like me or not. Not something we talked about. I can't say how I would have felt. I would have been curious probably wanting to compare to how I was getting it.

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Date Posted: 08:52:06 04/27/26 Mon

I was never spanked in front of anyone outside extended family (bad enough!!) but in HS they found out that I still got spanked and started to tease me for it. I started to cry from shame and humiliation. It was absolutely horrible that they knew I still got spanked.

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Date Posted: 09:24:30 04/27/26 Mon

Hi JenniAnn,
I agree, just in front of mom and dad is "bad enough". I do remember reading your post about some girls in HS that found out you were still spanked at home. Weren't you asked about going to a party and you said you would not be able to go. One of the girls made a joke and said JenniAnn is afraid her mom will spank her. Some how you thought she actually knew. Your facial expression indicated that it was really true. God that must have been so terrible. How could you face going back to school after that. I fely just awful for you when I saw that post.

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Date Posted: 10:55:13 04/27/26 Mon

Oh Mandy, you remember exactly! When the girl said I was so afraid my mom would spank me I blushed so my face probably had same color as my rear after a spanking. I thought I was going to faint and then everyone knew.
It was awful having to go to school and see them every day after this. Just awful. I was sure they would imagine me over mom's knees, kicking with my legs and bawling like a little girl. As far from a high school girl one could imagine. That was how I felt at least.

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Date Posted: 11:03:34 04/27/26 Mon

Hi JenniAnn,
I remember it well because I read it several times. I just thought that was so awful I read it over and over. I'm sure I responded then and like now, I just felt so awful for you. I imagined if that were me and how I would feel. Yes, they probably did picture you in some kind of spanking position getting spanked and wondering how does JenniAnn get spanked at home. Did anyone ask any embarrassing questions? How about boys, did they find out as well? OMG!!!!!!!

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Date Posted: 11:12:40 04/27/26 Mon

Yes, the boys found out as well, they laughed, cheered, and a couple of them slapped my ass. Both boys and girls would tell my several times I needed to watch out so that mom wouldn't come to school and spank me. Some boys were really nasty and slapped my ass hard and some would also jiggle my bottom while everyone laughed. It as such a horrible period.

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Mandy to JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 11:43:48 04/27/26 Mon

Hi JenniAnn,
That is just terrible. I can't believe the boys would actually slap your bottom. I would be so upset. I used to hear boys commenting on my nice plump ass at school but at least not in connection with my dad paddling it and on the bare. Did anyone ever find out that you did get it on your bare? How about your younger sister. Did anyone make any comments to her? It would be so awful to be teased like you were. What did you do when boys slapped your ass and hard?

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Date Posted: 00:02:07 04/28/26 Tue

I was such a sissy girl, I am almost ashamed today, but I didn't dare react too much. I was the perfect target for bullies. I received comments about my butt as well but hardly ever that it was nice, rather they commnented the size and how it jiggled when I walked. I screamed they should STOP when they slapped me or made comments about my ass but they only laughed. And the girls laughed too.
But that everyone found out I still got spanked was almost worse. I think you can only imagine the shame if you didn't experience it. No, I don't think they knew I got spanked on my bare bottom but they guessed for sure. And they made jokes that mommy would spank my bare bottom if I didn't behave. My sister went to another school and I don't think they found out. She was of course also embarrassed about still being spanked but it was not as hard for her as for me. I don't know why, she was tougher than I was. And she would never have accepted being slapped on the butt. But she wasn't bullied the way I was so she was at least not a target the same way.
I don'I am happy I never got the paddle, I had zero pain tolerance so my shrieks would have been heard to other side of the town. But it was bad enough with hand and hairbrush. And the time i got the birch was worst ever, I can imagine it even was worse than a paddle. I am happy noone found out you got spanked but did you know if other girls got spanked?

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Mandy to JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 08:14:22 04/28/26 Tue

Hi JenniAnn,

I can only imagine the shame and embarrassment you suffered because nobody at school knew about my discipline at home. THere were times when it was difficult sitting in class at school but I just forced myself to not make it obvious I was struggling. Like I said anyone knowing that I was actually being paddled with nothing on from waist down I can't really wrap my head around how I would have felt. For me the teasing would be awful but even worse all the embarrassing questions I probably would have gotten. I can't really express how sorry I am for you even though this was a long time ago.
I was also an easy target. Maybe not quite as sensitive as you were but still sensitive. Yes, boys also commented on my big plump ample ass and wow look at Mamdy's ass jiggle as I walked. Nobody ever slapped my ass but I heard comments. Just imagine if they knew that my stepdad had a solid wooden paddle that he used on my big plump "BARE" ass when I deserved it.
I read about you getting a switch. That must have been awful. Did you bleed? I've read that a switch is the worst thing of all cuz it bascially cuts and breaks skin.

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Date Posted: 09:15:54 04/28/26 Tue

Today many girls aim for having a big jiggly ass but this was not the case back then. Being a HS girl with a jiggly bottom was sensitive and this was multiplied with 100 when it came to being spanked bare on her plump jiggly bottom. Yes it was long ago but it was so bad that I have needed therapy to overcome the humiliation of being spanked bare bottom as a teenage girl in HS and everyone finding out. I am happy this didn't happen to you. (I almost faint at that though how they would have reacted had they seen me bawling and kicking with my legs over the knees like a 6 year old rather than 16.

Yes I got spanked not with the switch but a birch rod (a bunch of switches kept together). I have never screamed like that in my entire life as when I got birched across dad's knees. Yes, the skin broke on several spots and I had criss cross welts all over my big bottom. This was the only time did a real spanking dance, jumping up and down with hands on my bottom wailing (I almost always rubbed my bottom after a spanking but I didn't dance otherwise, did you?).

Speeking of jiggle, as an adult woman I have not only learned to accept it but I can also enjoy it. Especially when i am spanked (as forplay) over hubbies knees. I can feel the jiggle sort of generating waves towards the front which can make me reach climax. Can you relate? This is something that I rarely hear from other women. I get spanked both for punishment but also pleasure. And sometimes as therapy as well. Bawling my eys out over hubbies knees can be soo relieving. Feel free to tell what spanking means to you today as an adult woman.

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Mandy to JenniAnn
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Date Posted: 10:35:02 04/28/26 Tue

Hi JenniAnn,
Yes I have noticed that the trend now is the bigger the better when it comes to the buttocks. It wasn't like that when I was in school either. I'm sure the girls and boys teasing you probably wonder how you actually got spanked. Was it mom, dad, what did they use. How were you spanked, over clothing, pants and panties down, maybe all the way nude? I'm imagining what the other kids at school were thinking. I'm glad you never got asked any questions like that. Some things it's better not knowing what they are thinking.

As far as the shame, humiliation and all that went with being spanked as a HS girl all the way up through 17 I know full well what that felt like. I was often ashamed of myself for allowing myself to do something to earn another paddling. Dad didn't spank for every little thing like yours did but when he did it was drawn out, he and mom were both there in the den where my punishment was carried out. Then I believe dad's favorite instruction. Ok Mandy remove your skirt and step out of your panties. I always turned towards the mantle when stepping out of my panties and I was never made to face outward. When undressed dad would tell me to place both hands on the mantle. He would adjust my top I was wearing to make sure every inch of my plump ample bare ass was exposed and ready. Are you ready Mandy? In tears yes daddy. Then the fires of hell across both sides of my large buttocks. Dad paddled nice and slow and the bawling and sobbing started after about 2. I don't have a high pain tolerance either.

I didn't dance. I reached back and grasped my plump scalded bottom but didn't dance. I picked up my panties, put those back on, got my skirt and shoes and headed upstairs to my room. Dad's eyes on my blazing ass as I exited the den and up the stairs.

As far as now, no as an adult I have no desire to ever experience anything like that again. I'm not married. Not really all that interested in men or women. I can't say the spankings were not effective because in my case, unlike you it wasn't for everything. When I did get it, it was just hell. The lecture with dad holding the paddle, then instructions to undress, then into position. Are you ready Mandy? Then just absolute hell. Nope, no desire to ever go through that again. I'm a little surprised after your childhood experience that you are. I have read that you are spanked now by hubby.

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Date Posted: 10:42:51 04/28/26 Tue

Yes, he does spank me, but it is with my consent, even punishment spankings. I can understand that sounds weird but somehow I think it is one way for me of dealing with my childhood. As for therapy spankinsg I do find it relieving, and now I WANT to cry like a little girl to let it all out. I know this sounds strange.

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Date Posted: 11:04:00 04/28/26 Tue

Hi JenniAnn,
I have seen on this and other forums that there are a lot of aduly women in marriages where the wife is disciplined for punishment and pleasure. I've also read where some husbands are also disciplined. I'll tell you what's weird. Since reconnecting with you and discussing our childhood discipline I had a nightmare last night. I woke up after a terrible dream. I was back in HS and I was being paddled by dad just as it actually happened. I woke up actually bawling and clutching my bottom then realized OMG it was a dream. Well, nightmare actually. That to me is weird.

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Date Posted: 14:18:57 04/28/26 Tue

OMG! Lol! You dreamed you were going to paddled? From our conversation? I agree that was weird, but also a bit fun even if I am sure it was a real nightmare for you. Yes, the conversation brought us both back to HS I guess. And great to chat with someone who had similar experiences, similar but in different ways.

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Date Posted: 14:34:32 04/28/26 Tue

Hi JenniAnn,
Yes, I believe our conversations triggered my dream. Not going to be, I was being paddled. It was a real nightmare. It took a couple seconds for me to realize it was a dream, not real. Our experiences are similar in that I believe our dad's relished the task of disciplining us. It was probably worse for you because you got spanked for every little thing. The fact that your dad would spank very hard and fast and was grinning tells me that he enjoyed watching your ample buttocks bounce and ripple as he spanked. Yes, us larger girls tens to have a lot more giggle when we walk or are spanked and both our dad's appeared to have enjoyed the site.
I don't blame you for being resentful. You said I was a lot more forgiving. My stepdad is gone now but we were in contact up until he passed. If I may ask, how old are you now. I'm mid 50's.

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Date Posted: 01:31:47 04/29/26 Wed

I can't imagine waking up bawling grabbing your bottom from dreaming you are getting spanked. It would actually be embarrassing even if no one found out. I am in my mid 40s so somewhat younger. Yes, if I only got spanked for major offenses, even on bare bottom, and I didn't suspect my parents got pleasure from spanking us then I would probably have felt very different about my parents. Maybe I would have still loved them.

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Date Posted: 08:49:34 04/29/26 Wed

Hi JenniAnn,
I live alone so nobody was around when I woke up. I certainly haven't discussed my dream with anyone I work or hang out with. The fact that you and younger sis got spanked for every little thing is a clue to me that your parents enjoyed this. Your dad grinning as he spanked your sister is another clue to me. My experience was how long and drawn out my punishment sessions were along with dad instructing me to remove clothing from the waist down piece by piece every time.

Dad seemed almost happy when I was going to be paddled and the long drawn out ritual of him telling me that I have earned a paddling and how it will be done right after dinner. With my dad it was all the talking and words leading up to and then the slow paddling itself. To me at least it just seemed that he and mom were getting some kind of enjoyment out of this. It maybe wasn't quite as obvious as your dad's pleasure. Perhaps mine just hid it better.

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Date Posted: 17:34:30 04/28/26 Tue

Mandy, it sounds like you only saw your dad's paddle when you had done something very bad to earn a licking. I think that's of course much better when it is fair punishment, but then you also feel the shame for your behavior. I feel sorry for you having those experiences. Your dad may have enjoyed his task, but at least you can look back and know he was still just being a father. I know very well the crimson buttocks with those bulls-eyes on the crowns. At least what we called those white spots in the center was having a blistered bottom. That's where it really burns with a very uncomfortable tingle that doesn't go away no matter how much you rub those two blistered crowns on your poor plump punished behind. At the time, I would have certainly been feeling sorry for you, and to see you trying to sit on the hard chairs at school, though I know you would not have wanted me to even know anything about what had happened to you at home.

I also know what you mean about not knowing if your friends got spanked anything like this. It just wasn't talked about, but was that because it didn't happen, or because it was too embarrassing a subject? I always wondered what it would have been like to know someone being raised the same way, and if it would have been too embarrassing to even talk about experiences shared in common.

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Date Posted: 08:57:23 04/29/26 Wed

Hi Brett,
Yes, it took a few days for all the effects of the paddling to clear up. Yes, right after, my bottom was on fire and well blistered and the "bulls eyes" could not be rubbed away. If I had to be in school the next day it was tough but I had the will not to act obvious that I was having a hard time sitting. The worst thing that could have happened would have been some how, someone finding out that HS girl Mandy was paddled in her den as discipline.
No, had you, if you had been there, or anyone else found out about my home discipline I would have absolutely DIED. You probably would have had all kings of embarrassing questions that would have been absolutely shameful. We never discussed home discipline. From time to time we told each other things like if I did that I would be so dead without any details as to exactly what "dead" meant.

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Date Posted: 21:45:09 04/30/26 Thu

I understand you Mandy. Maybe it's not the norm that most people feel this way, but the most powerful impact of spanking, even more than those burning bulls-eyes, is the intense shame and embarrassment it causes. What happened to you at home in your den at your advanced age must have been the most closely guarded secret of your life. I would have wanted to ask you many questions, but I hope I would have been aware enough to stop when I saw how deeply ashamed you were.

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Date Posted: 07:20:15 05/01/26 Fri

Hi Brett,
You are absolutely 100 % correct about the closely guarded secret. Again, the intense shame and embarrassment is EXACTLY the more powerful impact of the experience. The recovery of the paddling itself is quick by comparison of the feelings that stay with you which I suppose is what really improves your behavior to where the intervals between sessions increases. The shame and embarrassment even though I was the only one who knew still was the worst. Alone up in my room playing over in my mind the whole experience from the lecture to picking up my panties and heading upstairs, over and over.
Did you read my post to JenniAnn where I talked about a recent dream I had about receiving one of my teenage age paddlings. So, since we are here and I have opened up about this. Pretend that I am HS Mandy and somehow you did know. What would you have asked?

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Date Posted: 01:27:00 05/02/26 Sat

Yes, Mandy, I read about your nightmare getting the paddle from your dad. The thing about dreams is that, until you wake up, it's like living it for real. When you wake up feeling terrified, your heart pounding a mile a minute, the evidence is there that it was real to you. With your hands clutching your bottom, tears streaming from your eyes, the only consolation is that at least you won't need to go back to sleep on your stomach, or worry about trying to sit down at school without squirming in your chair. At first thought, it seems bizarre that you would dream of a parental paddling so many years later. But then maybe it's just natural when you consider how impactful to you those spankings were back in high school.

As far as asking you questions in high school, I was also very embarrassed to talk about spankings, so there would need to have been some time and connection between us. I wouldn't just bring up the subject with a stranger, even if I knew about your discipline at home. I certainly would have paid close attention to any information that came out. If I suspected anything, I might have noticed how you were sitting in class, looking for anything that might indicate that your bottom was sore. Pretending now is then, some questions I might ask:

1. What are things you do that get you punished, Mandy?
2. How old do you think you'll be before your dad stops the paddlings?
3. Have you ever known anyone your age getting punished like you do?
4. I know you get it on the bare. Doesn't that make it even more embarrassing?
5. When you get a spanking, does it make you feel ashamed? Like a very bad girl?
6. What will you do if everyone at school finds out?
7. I know you got it last night. I could tell how you were sitting in math class today. Can I see your bulls-eyes? I won't tell anyone about this, I promise.

I'm guessing this conversation would have been over before it started.

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Date Posted: 13:12:52 05/02/26 Sat

So I assume you were spanked even in HS as well? I think the dream was triggered by all the recent posting I have doing mainly with JenniAnn. So, for your questions. I don't know what the connection would have been. I didn't really interact much with boys. One possibility I suppose would have been that we lived next door to each other so we did know each other from that. Maybe you were coming home later at night for some reason and I was in the process of being paddled. Maybe you heard some swats being applied and my reaction. Maybe you would have thought OMG is Mandy being spanked. If you were also spanked yourself the sounds would be familiar. Maybe you would even creep up to the window to hear better.
An opening might be that you heard my punishment being given. Right away you would admit that you are spanked as well. Under those circumstances I might have been willing to share some. Maybe. Ok so,
1. Any school related offense. Back talk or sass. THese would be the paddle.
2. I have no idea. Dad has told me that behavior not age will decide that.
3. No.
4. OMG I would probably have DIED if you tole me that especially face to face. My reaction would probably have been and just how do you know that? I might have lied and said no I get it over clothes. I might have asked you do you get it on your bare.
5. Yes, very ashamed. Maybe not that I am a bad girl but ashamed that I allowed myself to earn another shameful and embarrassing spanking.
6. OMG I WOULD DIE!!!!!!!!
7. How do you know, did you hear? Uh, no I'm not showing you my bare bottom.

You are probably correct but your chances would have been better if you shared the same fate I did.

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Date Posted: 22:40:05 05/02/26 Sat

Thank you for answering my questions. I think I know how difficult it would have been for you at the time. And I am absolutely not the least bit surprised that you would decline to show me your bare bottom.

Yes, I think we would have had to live next door to each other, and for a long enough time we were familiar with each other and our two families. You would probably know that the teenage boys next door sometimes get spankings from their father. I only got a few in middle school and one as a freshman in high school. However, I didn't know for sure I could not get another at any time so, for all intents and purposes, I was still a boy who gets spanked at home. But I'm not sure you would have wanted anything to do with a boy like me anyway, as I was pretty rebellious and hung around that kind of crowd.

If I had been aware that the high school girl next door gets paddlings, I would have wanted to know everything about it, and I would have dreamed about being able to actually see it. With that condition alone, you would have been the most interesting girl in the world to me. The big thing to consider, though, is that I was as deadly embarrassed about my spankings as you were about how you were punished. So the question is how we could get over that high hurdle in order to talk about it.

I'm ashamed to say it, but if I had heard you being paddled, or were going to be paddled, and there was any chance I could have spied on you, I would have done it. The temptation just too high. The experience would have been electrifying, and the images of your humiliation burned into my memory forever. I saw Mandy getting paddled! By her daddy! On her BARE bottom!

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Date Posted: 08:13:28 05/03/26 Sun

Hi Brett,
So we probably would have never talked about it. After hearing who you hung out with I can see that had you known that the girl next door was still being spanked I'm not at all surprised that you would have probably been willing to take some pretty high risks to see how I was getting it. If successful you would have seen me nude from wast down, full buttocks exposed, stepdad behind me applying a slow and very firm paddling with a paddle much the same as they use in schools. You would have heard my cries, seen the tears and my God awful facial expression as that paddle made contact depressing by tender bare ass. Yes both sides at once.

So, would you have told any of your friends or guys you hung out with. No doubt you would have had some nice masturbation material. I'm not saying this to be mean but I'm kinda glad you didn't live next door. I actually did live next door to a boy who was three years older than I. We occasionaly exchanged friendly chit chat. Since I was paddled in the den area I sometimes wondered if he ever heard anything. He never said and of course, I never asked.

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Date Posted: 18:19:37 05/03/26 Sun

Mandy, while I believe I would have spied on your paddling if I had the chance, I would not have felt proud of it. I was rebellious, but I knew right from wrong. I would have felt guilty and ashamed, and considering the subject of spanking was embarrassing enough, I can't imagine telling anyone what I had seen. However, the sight of you as you have described it would still have been highly arousing. Your full bare buttocks on display, such a tender target to be double-kissed by fire. Hearing the crack of the paddle, the pitch of your cries. I would have felt genuinely sorry for you, yet nothing would have stopped me from taking the visions of your half-nude ordeal home to dwell on in the privacy of my bedroom.

Your honest statement that you are glad I did not live next door makes perfect sense. The boy who did live next door might have heard something but at least kept it to himself. That's the thing about loud and severe spankings, though, you can never be sure who heard or saw what. Do you ever see anyone from your high school days and wonder?

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Date Posted: 06:48:47 05/04/26 Mon

Hi Brett,
I have no doubt you would have been highly aroused. If the shoe were on the other foot and I had the chance to witness the same as I got but a HS boy I would have also been aroused and like you said, carried the images with me. However, I was much to shy and afraid to even attempt to spy on anything.

The boy who lived next door, his dad was a police officer so who knows, he might have gotten the same as me, maybe worse. I'll never know. Yes I did wonder what if anything was heard following a session in the den. I haven't seen anyone from HS since a year or two after graduation.

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Date Posted: 16:32:53 05/06/26 Wed

Hi Mandy. Unfortunately, even though spankings were rare, I got a few that were heard by a girl, and one possibly even seen by a girl I knew. The one who might have seen, the unusual circumstances were such that I never saw her again after the incident, so I was left to only wonder what she saw. It appeared as if she might have spied on me. The feelings of shame and embarrassment were profound, but I was still left with an obsessive curiosity. If she spied, was she aroused by what she witnessed like I would be if we were in switched positions? It sounds like if you had lived next door, you could have only seen something by accident. It is exciting to consider you might have been aroused if you saw a HS boy like me being punished like you, though I got spanked with a paddle instead of school-swatted with a paddle, if you know what I'm saying.

I was also lucky that no one from school ever saw or heard my punishments at home. The only thing close to that, there was one time in middle school having to dress and shower for gym. I had two-day old bulls-eye marks from a paddling at home. Did you ever have any problem like that? Was there ever a chance that someone might see the paddle marks on your behind?

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Date Posted: 08:28:04 05/07/26 Thu

Hi Brett,
I was very careful dressing for gym after a paddling. Noone ever saw anything. Fortunately, showers were optional at least for us girls. One thing about girls / women. Nobody wants to be seen naked even without any marks from a spanking so we all covered up and were careful when undressing / dressing in the locker room. THere were time when I had very clear paddle marks but noone ever saw anything.
So what were the circumstances when you think a girl heard you being spanked? Was it at home or school.

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Date Posted: 21:26:11 05/08/26 Fri

Hi Mandy. Showers were mandatory for us, but we boys had no problem being naked. It was routine, and nothing to pay any attention to. So the hope was that no one noticed the bulls-eyes. If they did, nothing was said. I still did the best I could not to show that side of me. Nothing to be ashamed of being naked, but lots to be ashamed of with the evidence of a spanking.

I was not officially at home when she might have seen me spanked. My family was staying at and taking care of someone's house for several weeks during the summer. This forum is about girls being spanked, so I won't go on about it too much, but I got in trouble for not doing chores and hanging around with a girl I'd met who lived up the road. When my father got home, he caught us smoking in the tool shed out back near the pool. She left in a big hurry, but when I left the shed in tears at least 15 minutes later, I caught a glimpse of her down below just as she was leaving the driveway. So what took her so long to leave? In the few days before the family left to go home, I didn't see her, and that was that.

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Date Posted: 10:57:48 05/09/26 Sat

I see. Well even if she did hear, you didn't know for sure and they left shortly after and you never saw her again. So I guess that yould be no harm no foul.

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Date Posted: 16:30:09 04/27/26 Mon

I will admit I do put extra effort into spanking those with larger bottoms. Guess I do not like to "half ass" do anything.

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Date Posted: 13:46:23 04/28/26 Tue


Back in the 60s “Twiggy” was popular for being skinny, so as a teen with an ample behind I felt very self conscious. Not only the size of my cheeks but my utter shame when being bare bottom spanked so my bouncing buns were the center of attention.
Also unfair that my younger brother’s behind was much smaller so he suffered fewer swats as we were spanked until our whole butts were bright red. Like someone said, even just a minute of hard fast spanking could make me hysterical when the spoon stung SO BAD!
And the humiliation! Oh My GOD! Being 16, having my panties pulled down for a scolding from my smirking stepmother drove me crazy. Then the juvenile draping over her lap, already sobbing but knowing I’d soon be begging, squealing, howling in panic. Kicking my legs wildly in all directions like a ten-yr-old instead of a high school sophomore.
And, like others, my stepmom was quick to spank and made my spankings as embarrassing as possible.
My spankings were no secret but wasn’t teased at school (just by cousins) as many of my friends were also spanked though most of them not at 16 I don’t think.

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Date Posted: 14:22:38 04/28/26 Tue

Thanks for sharing Becky. Yes, being hysterical while over the laps at age of 16 was insanely humiliating. I know girls who got spanked up to age 10-11 but after that I was not aware of any girls being spanked but me and sis. Good that you were not teased about it but I am sure it was bad as it was.

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Date Posted: 21:02:21 04/30/26 Thu


Thanks, comforting to share with someone who understands because back then I wouldn’t dare mention my spankings to anyone. In grammar school kids joked about being spanked (NOT funny!) but by jr high I only knew two other girls who admitted to being spanked. Kinda like they took it for granted and didn’t seem anywhere NEAR as. upset with spankings as I felt. I suspect they were not spanked bare but I don’t know.
By high school I certainly felt like the only girl still put over the knee panties down and i’d lie to my friends and say I got grounded like they did and I was so jealous of them!

My stepmom found reason to spank me at least once a month so everyday COULD be a spanking day (especially with her reminding me of the fact) so I had the constant feeling of being “a spanked girl” which felt so childish.
And when she did decide to spank me I would panic and plead. It was demeaning but I couldn’t help myself. Looking back, I think my stepmom enjoyed hearing me begging not to be spanked.
I’d cover my face and cry when she pulled my panties down but she made me look at her while she scolded me, using terms to reduce me to a “bad little girl” despite my bush in front and my plump wide backside. I remember squirming in place so SCARED of being spanked! Right here! Right now!
Of course once the wicked wooden spoon was blistering my cheeks I could feel them bouncing and wiggling plus my legs would be out-of-control. And literally HOWLING plus wailing “stop mom stop please mommy! MOMMY!” even as a teenager.
And for days afterward my recent spanking would invade my thoughts making me blush because such pain and humiliation really stays with you.
Interesting that you’ve come to appreciate such activity with your husband, I’m sorry about your parents, I’m not comfortable the rare times I am around my stepmother.

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Date Posted: 19:50:59 05/01/26 Fri


My apologies ladies because I was the boy who would purposefully walk behind you in the High School halls to admire your rolling hips (especially with your tight jeans or short swaying skirts) and I definitely masturbated imaging your delicious derriere naked and being spanked.
Not that I’d ever tease you or be so nasty as to slap your backside but in my imagination you’d be spanked by different adults in many positions with many implements.

It started in 6th grade with us sitting on a lawn when Betty’s dad got home and Betty looked nervous. At 11 yrs old girls were more mature than boys and Betty was the first to be wearing a bra and she sported a very round plump rump. We all were shocked when Bet’s dad called her to their garage while holding a doubled belt! The poor girl had to walk across a large lawn and my eyes were glued to the back of her tight jeans! OMG those big buns were going to be belted! Her dad closed the garage door behind them and I had the urge to sneak closer to hear or maybe see anything but 3 other friends were there and didn’t want to be so obvious.
No matter, quickly we all could hear poor Betty bawling at the top of her lungs, even through the door two houses down! I hadn't started masturbating yet but for a week after I’d trail Betty at school just to watch her cheeks bounce and remember her howling.
I must admit, I said I didn’t tease anyone about spankings (We all got them and despite my strong attraction to the subject I was too embarrassed to speak of spankings) but ONCE in jr high we were prank calling and I accepted the dare to call Betty. When she answered I blurted out, “Does your daddy still spank you with his belt?”
She gasped, “WHAT?” I added, “Do you get it on your panties or your bare bottom?” and hung up.
I still feel guilty as I can’t imagine how humiliating that must have been for her beause it’s VERY likely she has never forgotten the time her dad, belt in hand, took her into the garage in front of all her friends that day. I’ve always wondered if she knew we heard her screams and how LOUD that must have been IN the garage.
I know I’ve never forgotten and have fantasized about just how she did get belt spanked that day to make her howl so pitifully.

PE class was great because we all wore shorts and did plenty of joggiing/bending etc and the girls’ shorts which fit well at the beginning of the year were much tighter as they grew over the months.
So forgive me ladies for lusting after your cute butts during the day then playing with myself that night picturing all sorts of humiliating bare bottom spankings for you. But I did also imagine me being spanked in front of you!

Also, I suspect some of you had your own favorite scenarios of classmates being spanked?

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Date Posted: 13:18:35 05/02/26 Sat

You would have looked at my nice plump round buttocks if you walked behind me. Some of the boys did comment. Not about my spankings because they didn't know but just about my nice plump ass.

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Date Posted: 13:54:50 05/02/26 Sat

I plead guilty to looking and fantasizing but I never said anything rude, teased, slapped or did anything untoward. To be honest I would have loved to slap or rub some of those but I was kind of awkward and definitely scared/intimidated of girls back then.

Girls, just so you know most guys love a plump bigger butt you shouldn't be self-conscious about it you should be proud to have such an attractive feature. If you happen to get spanked in front of us you can take pride that we'll enjoy the show even more.

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Date Posted: 15:11:10 05/02/26 Sat

Yes, we are aware that you guys love a nice plump bottom. However, back when JenniAnn and I were in school most boys prefered smaller say more fit girls if you will. I'm glad you decided to have some respect and just looked but didn't touch unless invited. I suppose if you had the chance and knew that my dad was using his paddle on my large ample bare ass you would try to look in. Who knows, maybe mom didn't get the shutters completely closed. If you had seen that would you say anything the next time you saw me?

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Date Posted: 17:06:02 05/02/26 Sat

Well, see I wouldn't want you to know I was peeping at you so I wouldn't say anything to you about what I saw. There would be plenty of masturbating after seeing that though. Hope you don't find that creepy but I am being honest.

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Date Posted: 17:53:06 05/02/26 Sat

Good point Dale and truth be told, I wouldn't want to know. Knowing that a boy actually saw dad paddling my big bare would have been beyond shameful. As far as what you would be doing, no it's not creepy. I totaly understand. I like your honesty.

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Date Posted: 09:38:27 05/03/26 Sun

Yes, I think me getting spanked by my husband is one way for me to deal with my past. I see we feel the same about the insane shame and humiliation we felt when we were taken across the knees as teenage girls. It would probably have been somewhat easier to handle if we knew other girls who got spanked at same age.

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Date Posted: 10:43:15 05/03/26 Sun

Hi Girls.
I'm Jill, early 30's now and grew up with dad's paddle. I wouldn't say I have an overly large bottom. I was noticed by the opposite sex in HS and I heard comments about my nice ass. My purpose here is to say based on my experience growing up, my spankings were just as humiliating and shameful. As an older teen being fully nude from waste down similar to Mandy, as dad's paddle sears across my not overly large, but plump bare ass was embarrassing and shameful. I was made to bend over with hands on thighs just above the knees. Feet wide apart opening the cleft between my cheeks. You can imagine the view dad had as her paddled by bare ass.

To be truthful, I can't swear that my parents enjoyed my punishment sessions but they were still painfully embarrassing, shameful and boy that paddled was terrible. I can imagine having a large bottom made the embarrassment worse but mine were shameful as well. Not to mention my reaction as dad's paddle was setting my buttocks on fire, the tears, begging, pleading, daddy please, it's burning sooooo bad, please stop. Nope, not untill your bare ass is solid crimson young lady. So yeah, when it comes to the shame and embarrassment, I'm right there with you.

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Date Posted: 07:28:07 05/04/26 Mon

Hi Jill,
I agree, you don't need an overly large bottom in order for a HS teen spanking to be humiliating. Us larger girls are a bit more sensitive to the fact that your bottoms are larger and maybe caused our spankings to be longer and harder.

The position your dad made you takes sounds very embarrassing. I know exactly what view your dad had as her administered his paddle. You must have been aware of the features you were showing. That had to be very embarrassing as well as painful.

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Date Posted: 10:40:56 05/04/26 Mon

Dear Mandy,
I can see how you would be sensitive of a large bottom, especially as a spanked teen girl. I was also very sensitive to the fact that I was a HS girl still being paddled at home. I know you know how awful the paddle is as it's cracking across your bare buns.
Yes the view I was presenting dad was terribly embarrassing and I am sure his view got even better as that paddle intensified the burn in my backside and I started moving my feet probably opening up even more than at the start.

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Date Posted: 00:09:36 05/05/26 Tue

Hi Jill, no of course not you don't need to have a large bottom for spankings to be shameful and humiliating. I am sure they are extremely humiliating and embarrassing for any teenage girl. But I think that having complex for your bottom, whether it is too large, too jiggly, too small, or other, can add extra shame and humiliation. But that's my thought only and not that it matters, being spanked on bare bottom as a teenage girl was horribly embarrassing for all of us, I am sure. And our bawling like we were babies didin't make it less shameful.

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Date Posted: 06:48:10 05/05/26 Tue

Hi JenniAnn,
I agree completely. I'm sure that having a complex about your bottom would have added significantly to the shame of a bare bottomed spanking especially knowing how your dad spanked from reading your post to Mandy. BTW I also had a complex, actually still do. I have very small breasts and I suffered with that all through HS. Imagine being 17 and looking like you're 12. Fortunately I wasn't exposed up top when paddled. Just waist down. Still, I know what it's like to be very sensitive about an aspect of your body.

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Date Posted: 19:38:07 05/04/26 Mon


Yes Jill. Bare bottom is bare bottom despite size. And in your position with your privates peeking out makes me blush remembering times my spanking stung so bad i’d kick my panties off. That meant I’d be jerking my legs up and down and wide open. At that point I didn’t care what I was showing but later I’d remember and feel fresh humiliation.
At least I was held down over the lap, exceedingly childish as a teen, but I was such a big baby I could never have stayed bent over sticking my bare backside out like you had to.
How many swats? I’m sure I’d be running around the room!

My emotions around having a larger posterior made spankings worse, I think. You say boys found your behind “cute” but as a teen I felt “fat” back there. I’d wear tight boy-type undies and loose jeans to hide my curves. So when my panties were awkwardly tugged down and my bare bottom cheeks plopped out they felt HUGE!
Plus, draped over mom’s lap it felt like my big buns were sticking up as the center of attention while I sobbed in fear and utter humiliation knowing mom would roast every inch of my wide bouncing buns with her fuken spoon.

For days after every spanking I’d be overcome with dreadful shame recalling how I’d screamed begged kicked, driven crazy at the unbearable STING!

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Date Posted: 00:14:55 05/05/26 Tue

Oh I feel so much the same as you. Being over the knees as a teenage girl, kicking hysterically with your legs (yes I also kicked with my legs so that my panties sometimes ended up on the other side of the room) felt insanely childish and also diminishing. And also rubbing my large bottom while still bawling felt just as childish. I was never paddled and I am sure it hurt as hell. Maybe pain was larger with paddle but being over the knees was insanely embarrassing for a teenage girl.

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Date Posted: 06:58:14 05/05/26 Tue

Hi Becky,
Staying in position wasn't easy but getting it with a paddle on my bare, the most I ever got was like 15. Yes it burned like hell but I also knew that getting out of position would just make an already horrible experience even longer. I have no doubt that you were very sensitive about your large bottom. As you read, in my position there was plenty to view from the back and since dad's focus was on my bare buttocks he obviously had a close up view of my slightly parted girl parts. Once the punishment started like you all I could think about was the fire I now feel. After I was back in my room I would start thinking about dad's view from behind which just brought more shame and tears. So yes for us, it wasn't over the minute the spanking was over. We had to carry the thought of the whole degrading experience with us well after the spanking ended.

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Date Posted: 07:29:48 05/06/26 Wed

Hi Becky,
I had exactly the same feelings you did when I was told to report to the den to be paddled. I did get to stay dressed for lecture but then I was instructed to remove my shoes, take off my jeans and step COMPLETELY out of my panties. Then turn around facing the wall and place both hands on my thighs just above my knees. Feet apart opening up the cleft between my bottom cheeks and parting my girl parts as well.

Dad had a very nice close up view. My top well up my back my entire bare ass exposed and ready for dad's blistering paddle. Then I would feel that cool hardwood as dad placed the paddle gently on my buttocks. Then THWAP!!! OMG Becky am I in hell? It sure felt like it. If I am honest, I have to admit that my parents did not go out of their way to find excuses to punish me but if / when I did mess up I would be in the den bare ass and ready for paddling. I think the spankings did benifit me but God were they embarrassing and painful.
Yes, too bad we were not in school together. We probably would have been great friends sharing a closely guarded secret that only we both know.

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Date Posted: 19:31:41 05/05/26 Tue


Yes, the entire procedure was rife with fear/shame. Being told I was in for a spanking set off a chain reaction of instant shock/regret. I believe my stepmom enjoyed hearing me plead for mercy but I often did as I’d be all antsy, holding onto my big buttocks with my face all red and tears filling my eyes.
OH NO! Not AGAIN! This CAN’T be happening! I’m too OLD to be spanked like this (already anticipating my panties behind pushed down down down). My legs shaking when told to “get across my lap."
Each step of the process more and more degrading UGH!

And my stepmom’s smug condescending attitude “Let’s get these panties down Missy” etc. My embarrassment was overwhelming and my childish helplessness still haunts me sometimes.
I’m curious about your feelings these days Jill? And curious about JenniAnn’s therapy (I could use some) and when/how she found some refuge in her relationship with her husband.
Thanks for your understanding and, too bad we didn’t all go to high school together or you’d know at least we weren’t the ONLY “big girls" still suffering bare bottom discipline!

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Date Posted: 10:12:41 05/06/26 Wed

I recall a paddling my older sister Allison got a few years ago for breaking curfew. Allison had a very nice full plump ample bottom. I can't swear one way or another if she was sensitive about it. Our parents were strong believers in corporal punishment and we both got our fair share of dad's family paddle.
Allie was also a cheerleader. The incident I recall happened in her senior year making her 18. It was a Friday night and Allie was out with friends after a football game. She came home really late. I was already in bed and I heard dad scolding Allie which woke me up. I was thirsty and decided to go down stairs for some water. When I got to the dining room I saw Allie bent over with her palms flat on the dining table. She was in paddling position. Dad was holding the paddle. I was peeking around the corner and had not been spotted.
Dad flipped up her cheer skirt revealling her red cheer panties. Her ample buttocks extended down below her tight panties. Dad went ahead and applied three swats across her big beefy ass. Our family paddle was kind of large and easily covered both sides. I could not believe how those ample cheeks rippled and shook. I was stunned and also fixed on what I was seeing. After the three dad instructed Allie to step out of the panties. With her red panties on the floor and hands back on the table dad began to apply the paddle.
I was glued to my sisters nice full and now crimson bare ass as dad's paddle impacted her rippling bare buttocks. Dad applied five swats across her big beefy bare before laying down the paddle. Poor Allie was sobbing heavily. I forgot about my thirst and headed back upstairs as to not be seen. To this day I reflect back on that scene and yes, I do pleasure myself as I replay that blistering paddling on Allie's nice plump bare ass. I have never revealed what I saw and don't ever intend to. I thought I would share my experience given the title of this thread. Yes, it looked like dad was really laying that paddle hard to Allies big buxom bottom.

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Mandy to Randy
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Date Posted: 15:44:46 05/07/26 Thu

Just the colorful way you describe your sister's bottom and the paddling you saw leaves little doubt that you enjoyed every second and apparently you are still enjoying what you saw. That's good that you never told her that you spied on her spanking. I'm sure she felt enough shame and embarrassment already without knowing that her brother was watching it all. I also have no doubt that everything you say about your sister's bare buttocks and how they reacted was also true for me as well. I also know exactly how your poor sister felt as she was told to remove her panties.

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