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 Lola66
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Date Posted: 13:44:06 05/19/26 Tue
So what the hell am I supposed to do? Today my husband came back from work and as soon as my daughter saw him she immediately ran to hug him. I'm considered the bad guy because I took her phone away and after two hours at home he went into our room where I had confiscated my daughter's smartphone and I gave it back to him. I then spoke to my husband and told him that it wasn't fair because she wouldn't learn anything like that. My mother-in-law was also at home and she agreed with me, but my husband replied that she was just a child and that the mess she had made was just a prank and that she wouldn't do it again. So I went back to my daughter and confiscated her smartphone again and she went into a rage, telling me that I was a horrible person and that her dad had given it back to her. At the end my husband intervened and she calmed down. I talk to my daughter and told him that when I scold her it's for her own good, but unfortunately I've never been a strict mother. I don't know how to behave anymore, my mother-in-law tells me to spank her, my husband defends her and in the middle I don't know how to behave, the little girl is intelligent, you're right, she's using her father as a shield, even my mother-in-law told me that the little girl is manipulating us. You say that spanking is not violence, but try explaining that to a little girl that you want to warm her bottom by slapping her, and especially to my husband who for him is his princess. The only solution would be to try to form a common front with my mother-in-law and make my husband understand that by indulging the child's every request he is making a huge mistake, and even if we succeed, how on earth am I going to give her a spanking? I have never done anything like that and imagine if my husband helps me. And if the little girl then tries to run away when I tell her, I don't think she will remain helpless to let me spank her. From what I read here they make it easy, but I don't think it's that simple, especially for someone who has never done it. And if she screams and then how on earth do I hold her still? It's a huge mess, and then I also thought she might hate me. I don't know, I have no direct experience. As a child I was always good, I was never spanked. What I know is that if we don't manage to make her change her attitude, she'll end up doing something more serious and, above all she to repeat scool year
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