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Subject: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Val [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 09:28:51 02/24/23 Fri Long time reader, first time poster. I don't really know where to start or how to say it so I'll just ramble. I'm not a 'spanko' in the same way you guys are. I don't really fantasize about getting spanked and I don't like it. I'm 21 and live on my own. My mom and I have a great relationship and always have. I don't even know where to go with this, so I'll just keep writing and hope it makes sense. I have some emotional issues. Maybe better put a lot of emotional issues. I only live a few blocks from my mom and I go see her and my little sister every chance I get, about 3 or 4 times a week. Just a few months after I moved out I was going through some things. Spanking wasn't really in our culture growing up. I guess I got a few spankings and I guess they did me good or whatever, but it wasn't like a regular ritual in my house. So one night I was visiting my mom and I was not in a good emotional state. It was just her and I in the house. I don't remember exactly how it came around to it, but I think it was me who suggested maybe I needed a really good spanking. I think my mom was kind of shocked. We talked about it and it was decided that she would give me a real, and I do mean real spanking. It would be on her terms on my bare bottom with her hand and a paddle. at the time I thought "This is a great idea." and I was also thinking "What the fuck am I doing?" She said "Are you sure?" like a thousand times. She took my pants and underwear down and I layed across her lap. That was really embarrassing and I was having second thoughts. I remember I quickly changed my mind with the first couple of slaps. Ow, fuck that hurt. My mom did not hold back. Just like she warned she gave me a real, no nonesense bare bottom spanking that soon had me wailing. Then the paddle. I don't know how many smacks she gave me with it, but it wasn't just like 20 and it felt like a thousand. I cried and cried and cried and when it was finally over my mom held me until I could stop crying. I had a really good and much needed cry, unfortunately my bottom was on fire. When it was all over, even though I couldn't even sit down and my butt was sore for days I felt renewed. I felt incredible. I was like very conscious for days that my butt was sore and throbbing and felt like everybody knew I got spanked, irrational I know, but I felt better and more confident and I guess the word is cleansed after that. So ever since then I have been getting these 'therapy' spankings from my mom. We are very close and she knows when I'm particularly emotional. Every once in a while when I'm visiting we will have a heart to heart and she will ask me how I'm doing and all that and eventually ask me if I need a spanking. Or I will just flat out tell her I think I need a spanking. I hate the spankings, I hate my mom pulling my pants and undies down, it's embarrassing and a little humiliating, I hate the spankings themselves, they hurt like crazy and my butt is always sore for a few days, but I get a really good cry and comforting out of it and feel great and the slate is wiped clean for days or weeks after. I'm going to my moms house tonight and yes I'm feeling emotional. There. I did it. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Val [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:32:33 02/24/23 Fri Sometimes I get an enema too. That was entirely her idea. They do make me feel better though. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Louise (Vancisic) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:12:53 02/26/23 Sun How does that make you feel better? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Cliff [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:48:23 02/24/23 Fri No disrespect intended, but I think you are a Spanko. I do not think you have a sexual fetish when it comes to spanking. I read, "I felt renewed. I felt incredible. I was like very conscious for days that my butt was sore and throbbing and felt like everybody knew I got spanked, irrational I know, but I felt better and more confident and I guess the word is cleansed after that." Spanking is not sexual with some spankees, but most who get spanked by their own consent describe the after effects the same as you. Spanking does not have to be a sexual fetish, [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Val [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:55:39 02/24/23 Fri Well maybe, but I mean I don't enjoy it or look forward to it or try to get spanked like it seems a lot of people on here do. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Cliff (to Val) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:37:15 02/24/23 Fri I use to be a over the road truck driver and I had a few ladies I spanked when time allowed and I was in their area of the country. One in particular told me she hated spankings. That surprised me a bit as she would always go out of her way to meet me at a truck stop. She always squirmed quite a bit as I spanked and paddled her across my lap, but cooperated by not putting her in the way or turn or turn her bottom away from me. She had even put her hand behind her back and asked me to hold it for her. When she told me she hated getting spanked, my response was something like, "Really" She said, "Yes, it makes me feel centered and at ease. I like the part where you scold me and make me look up into your eyes and I like when it is over and you hold me. But the part in between really sucks. Now you may never want to be scolded or cuddled afterwards, but it sounds like your motivation for enduring a hard spanking and paddling are similar to hers. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:31:29 02/25/23 Sat Hi Val, You are not alone when it comes to hating spankings but feel cleansed and better afterwards. You are also not alone in sometimes having an enema along with, or perhaps instead of a spanking. That was the practice in our home growing up and it has been the practice in my home as well. I know my mother also had enemas, and spankings so my kids were fourth generation to be raised this way. I hope you're okay with a few questions: How often does your mother spank you now? How often do you get an enema along with a spanking? Do you get it before, or after the spanking? Did the enema thing come out of the blue, or did your mom give you enemas growing up? How do you feel about getting an enema at the time and how does it make you feel afterwards? And, if you have any questions for me I'll do my best to answer. Thanks, Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Louise (Vancisic) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:21:25 02/26/23 Sun Did your Mom use enemas as a punishment? How did you feel about it? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Mork and Mindy [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:05:08 02/26/23 Sun Hi Louise, My mom would give me enemas with a spanking, or instead of one, but they were not really punishment enemas. They were pretty much like any enema she'd give me with care and love. Some parents use things like corner time which isn't so much a punishment as it is a way of making the spanking experience a more significant one. That's what enemas were about. Mother/daughter time putting an exclamation mark on a spanking. Does that answer your question? Mindy [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Louise (Vancisic) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:55:40 02/27/23 Mon Still seems like part of the punishment especially if it was instead of a spanking. I see it as being quite different than corner time. I had some corner time as a girl and I had enemas for health reasons. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Val [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:29:51 02/26/23 Sun I really didn't expect to answer any questions. I really just intended to post and run. I get the enemas after the spankings. So my bottom is already bare and on fire when I'm bent over the tub. I'm not always real good to myself or my body and I think the enemas are just meant to clean out my system. Fortunately my mom is very gentle and gives me privacy when I expell. I've read of punishment enemas meant to be very unpleasant and humiliating. I don't think I could stand that. Let's see. I visit my mom several times a week, but I'd say on average I get a spanking about once a month. They now are usually, but not always accompanied with an enema. I've gotten used to the enemas, but I don't like them. The spankings aren't that bad if my sister happens to be there, but the enemas are. The benefit is my body feels much relief for days after the enema. The only time I got enemas growing up was sometimes when I was sick or when I was having a lot of trouble during that time of month. It was very rare. Spankings were very rare too. In fact I know I got an occasional spanking but I really can't recall any. I'm glad I got this out in the open, but I think I'll crawl back into my hole now. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: My Mom Spanks Me Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:36:26 02/26/23 Sun Thank you for posting this. This puts a lot of things in persepective. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]