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Subject: Does increase spanking shame depend on clothing worn?


Author:
Grumpy
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Date Posted: 12:05:20 11/04/22 Fri

I remember quoting a young woman said as she was taken over a lap, “Mom, I’m wearing heels and hose!” Questions for ladies spanked by parents, aunts and uncles: 1-does being dressed up make the embarrassment of going over a lap worse? 2- does it make it worse the more formal the dress, as in cocktail skirts or prom dresses? 3- have you ever asked to be able to change before getting spanked?

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Jessika
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Date Posted: 13:38:23 11/04/22 Fri

I'm always spanked naked, so clothing makes zero difference.

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Grumpy
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Date Posted: 14:25:17 11/04/22 Fri

Even with older girls? But if you were spanked all dressed up, say at 16, would it have been more embarrassing?

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Jessika
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Date Posted: 20:09:33 11/04/22 Fri

I don't understand your first question, but being dressed up wouldn't make a difference since everything comes off anyway.

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[> Subject: Re: Does increase spanking shame depend on clothing worn?


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CarlaH
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Date Posted: 07:27:10 11/06/22 Sun

At first I felt the same way as Jessika. A parental spanking in the privacy of your home, so the clothing is not important. But I keep seeing this post near the top so I decided to give it a shot. I thought, what if there were witnesses? That would change everything in my opinion. However, I have no real life experience in this so I am basing my idea solely on how I imagine I would feel in such a situation when dressed up vs not. My scenario:

I am 16 and ready to go out with the girls. I'm looking for a boyfriend so push my parent's limits with my clothes. A somewhat form fitting dress, not too short, but not too long either. Make-up, hair as perfect as I can get it. I want to look Miami style attractive, but not sleazy either. I know that can be a fine line depending on the observers.

I am ready to leave and as I descend the stairs, who is sitting at the table with my parents but, the most prudish neighbors for 100 miles around. Heads high, hands moving in elegant motions as they speak down to everyone, thinking their words are the most enlightening anyone will ever hear. They see me and with disgusting looks, eye me up and down. "Do you allow your daughter to go out dressed...like that?"

Now I've had it and without thinking I burst into a farm girl tirade, "It's none of your _____ business how I dress, so mind your own _____ business! Stop gawking and get the ______ out if you don't like it!"

OOPS! After the shock wears of a spanking is definitely imminent and right now, on the spot, in front of these virtuous clowns, whom I can't stand. That's bad enough, but I've dressed up to attract not to be punished.

In my mind the clothes in this case would make a difference. I dressed up to feel feminine and lady like, even though the outburst wasn't so much so. I would feel at a psychological disadvantage while dressed up like that, physical one as well. I don't know, more regretful for the outburst, more docile and definitely more embarrassed being spanked in front of them.

Had I made a similar outburst in front of these same people while I was dressed in my tomboy farm cloths, baggy jeans and oversized shirt, I am certain I would be less embarrassed. I would be more head strong, confident, self-righteous in my rebellious outburst. I'd take the spanking more stoically or bravely than all dressed up like a young lady.

But that's just my how I imagine it would be, regardless of whether I received the spankings on my bare bottom or not. I just don't see it having a major difference if spanked in private as I do with witnesses present. I will never know for certain how it would really play out in a real life either way.

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Dennyjames
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Date Posted: 12:31:46 11/06/22 Sun

You put a lot of thought into this Carla. I love the way you set up the story. Such an outburst probably would warrant a spanking. I grew up on a farm too, many years ago. I'm old enough now to be your Grandpa. And while it's not discipline related I felt right at home in my farm clothes. Jeans, boots denim or flannal shirt, baseball cap. When I had to go job hunting, after community college and put a suit and tie on with polished shoes, It changed me. I felt so out of place, I'm sure I blew some interviews because I appeared more nervous than I would have been if in my old farm clothes. So I can see where your perception lies. It makes sense to me.

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CarlaH
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Date Posted: 12:49:18 11/06/22 Sun

Thank you, Denny! Old enough to be my grandpa! You probably got a few spankings when you were a kid then. lol

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