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Date Posted: 02:30:23 04/03/15 Fri
Author: Sally. R.
Subject: Re: spanking/paddling at home 1960's
In reply to: Frank 's message, "spanking/paddling at home 1960's" on 15:35:55 03/16/15 Mon

Although grounding and restriction works better after 12, sometimes an unruly child needs to be reminded that the adults are still in charge.Bare Bottom Over The Lap: Loss of sense of control, reminded that she or he is still the child, shames a rebellious teen. Has any mother found herself in the awkward position of having shorts or a skirt on when you spanked a boy this way?

My stepson Christopher, 13, got in a fight at the school bus stop yesterday afternoon and the first I heard of it was over an hour after he came in from school.

I found out because the mother of the other child was having to take her son to the E.R. and she called me from the car. Seems Christopher and the other boy were arguing verbally on the bus and something the other kid said provoked him enough to smash the other kid's jaw and cause him a nose bleed. I told Christopher to go his room and take his pants and undershorts off and went to get this old dress-clothes belt I no longer wear.

At that point, I wasn't even thinking about the fact that I was wearing Capris pants that stopped at the thigh. I was mad that he'd acted for nearly an hour like nothing was wrong and now I'm "waiting for the other shoe to drop" because I'm dreading what the E.R. physician is going to diagnose, so when I entered his room and told him to go over my knee, he started revisiting the issue of his shirt-tail no longer covering his private parts. My position is that he's still a kid for whom I'm responsible for 5 more years. But I was taken aback when his genitals ended up against my bare leg. He immediately asked if he could get a clean shirt out of his chest-of-drawers and put it between his privates and my leg, but at that point, he was crying without me even administering the first lick.

I'll admit it was uncomfortable for me to because he has pubic hair and it felt itchy and almost like velcro, so I was just as much in a hurry to get it over with, but I was not about to reduce his shame factor. If he felt my let against his genitals, the humiliation would serve as more of a reminder about beating up other kids.

When the belting was over he sat on his bed crying and trying to pull his shirt-tail over his privates.

Can any other parents tell me if it's normal for a boy that doesn't have to shave yet to have such an issue with baring below the waist?

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  • Re: spanking/paddling at home 1960's -- JoeR, 11:44:50 12/22/15 Tue
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