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Date Posted: 07:21:08 05/04/25 Sun
Author: AusNick
Author Host/IP: 1.43.214.67
Subject: Enquiring minds want to know.
In reply to: Curious 's message, "What is it about Lesbians...?" on 01:55:24 05/04/25 Sun
Curious asking the real questions here.
I don't get it either.
And why should anyone's sexual preference be anyone else's business?
And why should it even matter?
I guess it's a plot point, but still, it shouldn't matter.
As far as I'm concerned, keep what happens in the bedroom, in the bedroom. Don't make it my business, I don't want to know, because I don't care to know.
I've had both relatives and friends come out as whatever, has it changed how I feel about them? Nope. I'm more concerned about the quality of their character, and who they are as a person, not who they prefer to fvck.
I think it's a test, to see what the reaction will be. It's deliberate bait, so that person can then categorize you, changing how they view you. And that's a shit thing to do to somebody. It's been done to me.
I think in general fiction, as I said, it's a plot point, all it means is, that character or characters aren't going to be written getting any Sausage or Taco, depending on which way the pendulum swings, but again, why even mention it? It's nobody's business, certainly not that of the reader. Omit the fact of a character's sexual preference, and what changes? Nothing. About the most that would happen would be a character may be encountered in a certain setting, another plot point.
When it happens in Smoking Fetish Fiction, it's just plain weird if not perverse. These types of stories are generally written by males, for a predominantly male audience, and as I've said before, we're here for the Smoking, not the Sex, because the sex is in the smoking, anything sexual outside that, is largely irrelevant, and when sexuality is introduced, actually detracts from the focus of the story, shifting it from a smoking fetish fiction to a sex fetish fiction. And then the author goes deep into that aspect, and if you want to allude to it, great, rock on, but if you go into excruciating detail, you're not writing smoking fetish fiction, you've deviated into writing explicitly sex fetish fiction.
IRL lesbians appear to be more prone to being smokers than straight women, but it's looking at a specific subset of the female half of the population, go to a wider focus, and it becomes insignificant to the point of not existing at all. The same argument could be made for climate change. A Housefly can look like a Hellbeast under a microscope.
Why authors think it's hot, is baffling. And does not in any way reflect reality, actual or fictional, because it's irrelevant. Or should be.
The sex is in the smoking, not the sexuality of those smoking. And Authors should not try to make a story into something that it is not.
I mean, people who write like this probably haven't seen a lesbian couple outside of a porno. in that particular setting, of course both participants are going to be objectively attractive, otherwise the watcher wouldn't have purchased or stolen the video in the first place.
I should have stopped typing after the first sentence.
I need a cup of Tea.
Nick
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