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Date Posted: 20:56:09 09/20/23 Wed
Author: Mark
Author Host/IP: 97.125.239.177
Subject: Re: 2023 Fair Season Sightings Report
In reply to: RobNash 's message, "Re: 2023 Fair Season Sightings Report" on 14:27:53 09/15/23 Fri
Part 8--Cami
A couple of major challenges arose in the year 2012 to my very successful roll of dating sexy young smokers who indulged my fetish. The first challenge was the quite abrupt collapse of Singlesnet, far and away my preferred dating site responsible for every successful online dating venture I compiled in my peak years of 2009-2011. Singlesnet gave me a competitive advantage because only one participant, in this case me, had to be a member to e-mail girls. The girl didn't need to be a member to send and receive messages so long as the guy was a member, or vice versa. This is unique among the major dating sites (at least compared to Yahoo Personals, Zoosk, and Match which I've also been on) so when barely legal girls signed on for the site out of curiosity, the only guys they could talk to were a dwindling number of members, so I kind of had the field to myself and was able to schmooze them with little competition from other guys. Not really sure why Singlesnet was collapsing, but by the end of 2012 the site folded, briefly shifted to a worthless site call Kiss.com, and soon thereafter disappeared completely. I had dabbled in Match.com in the past but found that with the higher level of competition and the requirement that both parties have to be paying members to contact one another, it was not the least bit user-friendly. Still, by the end of 2012, Match was my top option, and my successful contact with girls of the preferred demographic plummeted as a consequence.
The other negative development that happened to me in 2012 was that I turned 35 years old that August. I didn't really see coming the extent to which that mid-30s number would shrink the dating pool for me. I had been shocked at my success in courting college-age girls up to that point and didn't really see the magic number of "35" being the tipping point of radically diminishing returns. But so it was, and I found myself dating more girls in their 20s and just not having any of the degree of success I was having in scoring sexy smokers who indulged my fetish. I went about a year and a half with few memorable episodes and a ton of disappointing prospects.
But I had a feeling I was still capable of capturing lightning in a bottle, and I certainly did that in late October 2013. For about a month, I had seen the profile of a pretty 19-year-old blond named Cami who listed herself as a "daily" smoker. But she had this decidedly non-feminine haircut in her photos that wasn't working for me so I never found the motivation to message her. That changed when she posted a new photo with her platinum blond hair grown out a little bit, and the longer hair really did justice to her gorgeous face. I can't remember what she listed her "preferred age range" as but suffice it to say it didn't go anywhere close to my age of 36, but I threw out a hail mary e-mail to Cami anyway, going all in and confessing my smoking fetish and how that was part of her appeal to me. When it comes to those longshot girls, I figure it's worth putting it all out there right away and seeing where the chips fall.
Imagine my surprise when she wrote back in only about 15 minutes with a bubbly and very interested response, taking particular interest in my smoking fetish and saying "she'd never heard of that before but it interested her". She also added that "age was just a number to her" so that she wasn't gonna let that be a problem if we hit it off. I had somehow gotten my foot in the door and now had to go through the more labor-intensive process of sealing this deal when I knew there was gonna be tremendous competition.
I pressed forward with e-mails and we got to know each other. I was never able to get her to clarify her specific smoking consumption level but she smoked Newports, starting behind the shed with her cousin at age 13, and sounded as though she smoked pretty heavily. She claimed her dad hated that she smoked but that her mom was a smoker and didn't mind that she did. She also had a nonsmoking younger brother. It was just a delicious family dynamic where only the females smoked. Her dad was also some engineer working for an oil company down in Louisiana, and she mentioned how she would probably be moving down there with the family. At first I figured she was testing me, but later I'd discover she and her family did end up moving to Louisiana, but I'm getting ahead of myself.
Anyway, my communication with Cami escalated as October turned to November and text messages began flying fast and furious day and night. She said she hated that same short haircut of hers from her original profile that I hated and was growing it back long and luxurious which was music to my ears. She began sending more photos to me, including one of her in a bikini from a recent family vacation...I believe to the Carolina coast. It was clear I had gotten under my skin and I was ready to make my move, with the upcoming three-day weekend for Veteran's Day seeming like a perfect time to get together. Unfortunately, she was gonna be gone chaperoning her younger brother's class field trip to Chicago for that weekend. Just adorable thinking about this 19-year-old blond who smoked cigarettes being the chaperone to a bunch of high school boys. She texted me regularly all weekend with updates of their goings-on, photos from atop the Sears Tower, and grumbles about crazy expensive cigarettes are in Chicago.
She returned to central Iowa on Monday night and just got ahead of a snowstorm. She called me on the phone and said she wanted to come see that night (!) but that the weather forecast scared her off. So instead we talked for a good 2 1/2 hours and I was amazed how well we connected. She was clearly more intelligent and mature than some of my previous young girlfriends and she spilled some personal secrets to me and gushed on and on about how easy I was to talk to. When we got off the phone, she sent me a text photo of her with an unlit cigarette dangling from her lips that she was "about to go outside to smoke". I made sure I nipped this in the bud by saying "I certainly wouldn't make her go outside to smoke when she came to see me". She was surprised I was gonna let her smoke in my apartment, as I'm sure most people in her age group are having grown up in an era when all indoor smoking was considered generally taboo. She agreed to come over to see me Wednesday night when she wasn't working and I had a pretty good idea what she wanted.
Fast forward one day later. I knew Cami was coming over on Wednesday but figured I'd have Tuesday night to clean up my place which I had let turn into a prototypically messy bachelor pad in the prior couple of months. I was just making the turn into the drive-thru of the Taco John's Mexican fast food place after work Tuesday to pick up a couple of burritos that would not have served me well hours later in the presence of a female I was trying to make a positive impression on, so I'm glad the text from Cami came in then and not three minutes later when I'd have already purchased the burritos. Cami couldn't wait till Wednesday and now wanted to know if she could come over that night instead...after work. She worked until 8:00 at a gas station and then had more than an hour to drive to get to my place. Cami's crotch had to have really been on fire and whatever shadow of doubt there was that she was coming to get laid disappeared. She lived with her mom and brother too and it blew my mind with Cami, as well as several of my prior barely legal girls, that she was 19 years old and running around so unsupervised doing exactly what she pleased. I wasn't complaining though, and now I had a few hours to clean up my messy apartment and have it ready for my sexy houseguest.
After 8:00, Cami was on her way, talk-to-texting me the whole way expressing her excitement and holding down expectations with disclaimers such as "just so you know, I'm gonna smell like kitchen" that was pretty cute. I prodded her with rejoinders to "don't forget your cigarettes, young lady!" to which she'd fire back that "she just bought a brand-new pack before she left!!!". She must have shattered all speed limits on I-80 to get to my place as she got there about 15 minutes earlier than I expected, lighting my phone up with a text that she was in my lot. I went outside to walk her up to my place, and she lived up to expectations completely with her shoulder-length platinum blond hair and perfectly toned barely legal body. She stepped out of her car which smelled like an ashtray and greeted me, approaching my apartment with nothing in hand but her pack of Newports.
She came inside and crashed on my couch, bubbly and perk as you'd expect a 19-year-old girl to be but carrying herself with the maturity of a 23-year-old. She was even more beautiful in person, with a look of weathering from several years of heavy smoking even at her tender age. Her frequent smiles and laughs revealed a darkened gumline along her teeth further indicative of years of heavy smoking. And that body....ohhh that body. She didn't come across as overtly nervous as you'd expect from a 19-year-old girl visiting a 36-year-old guy for the first time who she clearly intended to have sexual relations with in the very near future, but she had a nervous twitch with her legs that was just unbearable sexy to watch, twisting and untwisting her chiseled gams wrapped in her skin-tight leggings while sitting on my couch and revealing every curvature and muscle of her youthful female body. After multiple years of online dating success, I was thinking to myself I may have scored my most impressive find yet!
I didn't figure Cami would want to be instantly tossed into the bed and I don't like to do that either even if the clear objective is sex, so we chatted and engaged in great conversation, keeping each other smiling and laughing with no awkward pauses. I even had an epiphany of who Cami looked like....90s country-pop diva Mindy McCready who had just committed suicide months earlier. I had an old CD of Mindy McCready somewhere in my long-ago pile and unearthed it to show Cami to see if she agreed. "That is kind of scary", Cami said looking at the CD cover and agreeing that she was the spitting image of Mindy. It took a good half hour before she reached for her pack of Newports. I took the opportunity to slide on over and light her up, putting my arm around her and cuddling up to that incredible body. Her smoking didn't disappoint as she took long, indulgent drags and released thin exhales through her mouth and nose that were clearly the work of a long-time regular smoker. Her style didn't have the razzle-dazzle of Jerrica's but her effortlessly stylish technique was more reminiscent of Jerrica than any girl I'd been with since.
There was some disappointment though as Cami and I sat talking for a good 2 1/2 hours and it wasn't until nearly midnight when another cigarette was lit. Was she not as heavy of a smoker as I expected? Was she trying to get me to dispense with the small talk and just lay her down quickly, not wanting to be in the middle of a cigarette when the moment arrived? Or, and unfortunately I'd figure out later it was probably the third one, was she trying to "lose me" as for whatever reason I wasn't living up to expectations or she realized she was making a mistake? Whatever the case, I lit up her second Newport and watched her smoke it from close-up, waiting until about half the cigarette was gone to make my move and start kissing her. We had some good kisses and got our hands all over each other. By the time the second cigarette was finished, we were heading to my bed. It was so damn empowering removing those leggings from her glorious bottom, followed by the bra and panties, and then plunging into this 19-year-old sexpot's lady parts for a pretty solid (and noisy!!!) round of intercourse. Her great body lived up to expectations completely and when the excitement was over, I lit another cigarette for her as she laid her head on my chest. I was in heaven, and falling hard for this girl, never once considering that the Cami story had already ended.
I'd learn quickly enough though as she was pretty frosty the next morning, ambiguous about when she'd see me again, and in a big hurry to go home when I got up for work. I had a bad feeling right away but tried to dismiss it as her being grumpy and disheveled in the morning after little sleep. We exchanged a few more e-mails that day and into the night...but then they stopped. Here I had been waiting for her to say she wanted to come back again that night....but as I was waiting for that text to drop, I'd get no texts at all for the rest of the night...or the week. Had I really screwed something up? Or was Cami just using me for a one-night stand? Her feelings for me seemed very intense and our chemistry the night before, both personal and sexual, was undeniable. I spiraled into a prolonged funk and sent a Cami two or three hail mary texts in the days ahead hoping something would break through. She did ultimately write back apologizing for going away but claiming that she was busy and tersely adding that she had a boyfriend now. I had no expectation for anything serious with Cami but nonetheless felt like I had the rug pulled out from me.
At some point shortly after meeting her I threw out a Facebook friend request and about three weeks after our one-night stand, Cami (perhaps inadvertently) accepted the request, giving me access to stalk her timeline and see if I could figure out what happened. I went back to November 13-14 where she cryptically "confessed" on her Facebook wall to "screwing up again" in a way that definitely made it feel like she blamed herself and not me. But when she said she had a "boyfriend now", she had left out a number of things, namely that she didn't just meet the boyfriend after she met me but had one all along. Worse yet, he's an active-duty member of the Navy stationed in South Carolina.....so I had just sexually serviced a soldier's girl without knowing it. I felt horrified at first, but had no idea going in that this was the case. As casually as Cami sought my sexual partnership, and her presence on the dating site indicated I was likely not the first, I almost wondered if she and the boyfriend "Tyler" had an open relationship deal while he was away.
Whatever the case, I've stalked Cami's Facebook page for 2 1/2 years since and within months after our one-night stand, she became engaged to and then married to Tyler. She got pregnant last year and, within the last couple of months, had the baby girl at age 21. No idea if she was smoking during her pregnancy but my suspicion is she did as smoking appeared very ingrained in her lifestyle. She hasn't posted too many recent pics as I'm sure she put on weight during her pregnancy, but I have enjoyed seeing the sexy pics of Cami that have landed on her Facebook wall in the last couple of years, and none more than a pic with her dad and brother where she's decked out in a pair of tight form-hugging black leggings that bring back delicious memories of that night she spent in my apartment "smelling like kitchen". I've only had a handful of hookups in my life, but far and away the most exciting was with Miss Cami!
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