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Date Posted: 22:47:54 02/20/00 Sun
Author: Anonymous
Subject: One man's view point and a question...
In reply to: 's message, "I need a shrink or someone who understands men's behaviours..." on 22:09:57 02/20/00 Sun

You’ve hit upon one of my favorite topics. Perhaps we can share viewpoints. You want to know a little about men so I’ll tell you how I feel about it as a man.

First of all, men act in different ways towards different women. There are three basic categories that a man will instinctively place any woman that he meets in as far as relationships go.

First is the “fling.” The one nighter. Most any woman will do for this and the man doesn’t really feel anything for her other then what she can offer him sexually. She is the “slut.” This woman can be likened to a hotel room. She fulfills the needs of the moment and then she is left for someone else to clean up after.

Second is the “girlfriend.” Usually this woman is more desirable then the first and has some qualities that a man desires enough that he wishes to posses her. Yet he does not want her to posses him because she does not fit all the expectations that he has for the “ideal woman. She is the “conquest” but once conquered and tamed he will most likely leave her. She can also be likened to renting an apartment. An apartment being a place you stay for a while but you don’t want to have forever.

The third and last is the “princess.” This is the woman that meets all of the prerequisites the man has set forth in his mind. She fulfills all of his desires. She is sexy to him. She is a possession to be taken but she also is the future mother of his children. She is the one that he is willing to posses regardless of the cost and he also wants to be possessed by her. The princess is the rarest form of a woman and a man may only meet one or two women that fit into this category. He will usually screw up the first relationship but learn and hopefully another princess will come along. The princess is the house which one buys and becomes responsible for. She requires sacrafice but he is willing to sacrafice anything for her.

Now understand that the tastes of every man are different. One man’s slut is another man’s princess and so on. You as a woman can not mold yourself into these things. You are either what he is looking for or you are something less then that.

Now as to your question about getting into your panties. If a man is that quick to get into your pants then he doesn’t think much of you. Remember the princess is “pure” and the closer a woman gets to that model the more the man is willing to wait, even unto marriage if need be. However, if the man is just trying to jump into your bed with out even talking about the ramifications of doing so then he is not the type of man that is going to stick around for long.

Now tell me… What makes a woman really fall in love with a man? What is it about one particular man that will make a woman willing to give him her whole life?

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